Mostly on the left side. It depends on whose bed I am in but most men seem to take the right side. I'm not that fussed really but I guess it has become habit, I tend to stay on the left when I am on my own.
Left. Always the left. Whether I'm on my own or with others.
True story- I have extreme difficulty sleeping when someone is to the left of me. Not just sleeping, but also walking. When I walk down the road, if someone is walking with me and is to the left of me, I will find an excuse (like when crossing the road) to silently manoeuvre ourselves so that they are to the right of me.
I just get unnerved having someone on the left of me.
So much so, that once I was fooling around with a girl on the bed and we ended up being on her side of the bed with her 'riding' me. I tried to let it go at first, but I couldn't get over the fact that I was lying on the wrong side of the bed. I actually had to stop her and shimmy us on over to the other side of the bed. Thankfully, I've got a really massive cock and so she put up with my weirdness (or something like that).
Ever since David's car accident several years ago, his arthritis is getting worse and worse, so he prefers sleeping alone now so I don't crowd him. I sleep with Seth every night now, and he has gotten just the opposite. He spoons me every night with his hands wrapped around my boobs for warmth, until we're asleep and then we wind up wherever we wind up.
I sleep on the right a lot of the time, but it's more a question of inside or outside for me, since both of the beds in my house are against walls. I guess middle is an option in the big one.
Most nights I try to make it to the top side, some nights I don't get there.
In answer to the OP I can say that when I was not sleeping alone, I would sleep on the door side, for the same reasons that her guy says. Military training aside, most men seem to put themselves in a position to be between their loved one and possible danger. We did have a first-floor bedroom with a huge set of picture windows, then I slept next to the window. It was a less secure side to me, so that was where I belonged. I am a very light sleeper and actually woke up and caught a peeping tom because he stepped on a stick while looking in the window.Unfortunately, the police showed up and rescued him, the neighbor called.
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