That despite my husband finding out that I had a boyfriend a few years back - and the fact that I honestly didn't have sex with him... I had been having sex with several other people who he didn't know about. And that it was the boyfriend who'd said no sex - not me.
And yes, I was married at the time... and yes... still married (to the same guy).
My ex is wanting to get back with me for a full time relationship. I have not had the heart to tell him I have a fuck buddy since I broke up with him.
He knows of my fuck buddy as just my friend and nothing more.
On the flip side I have told my fuck buddy that I have had coffee with my ex. I lied and said ex is still in a psych hospital and that he gets weekend release. Truth is my ex has been released for a month now.
That our son's girlfriend had an abortion back when they were both in high school, about 10 years ago . . . . Well, it feels good to get THAT off my chest! My son doesn't even know that I know -- I found the indisputable paperwork in his room. Somehow I've never been able to tell my husband or thought that I should.
In the past I kept my darker thoughts, desires, and sexual history away from him.
We have finally jumped over that hurdle, and I'm a lot happier now. Honesty is best for me, and it seems cliche but I've never been happier. We have yelled, screamed, and done some damage in the process. But we had to tear down our previous relationship that was built on a foundation of untruths (from both parties). We were fortunate enough to make it through and we're better because of it.
Quote by Lunafalls That my son's girlfriend had an abortion back when they were both in high school, about 10 years ago . . . . Well, it feels good to get THAT off my chest! My son doesn't even know that I know -- I found the indisputable paperwork in his room. Somehow I've never been able to tell my husband or thought that I should.