My opinion is that the past makes you who you are today. Although there are something's that I am not proud of, I wouldn't change who I am today for nothing. Those regrettable things helper to make me who I am.
I would have been more promiscuous when I was younger. But no it was fun otherwise ;)
No!
It's been said and I agree. I am the total of every experience I've ever had, good and bad. I regret the bad a lot and have tried to fix them. The bad was a couple of times when I said something stupid and hurt someone. They never said anything but I know I did.
I've spent time looking for them but that was over 50 years ago. I'm not obsessed with it I would just like to say I'm sorry.
Other than that I'm happy with who and what I am. If I changed any of it I would not be here. I wouldn't have the family I have, friends, be here and have known anyone. Changing ANY choice I've made could get me more money, perfection in everything, but that's a fantasy. It could also have killed me or made me a bum and living in a box somewhere.
If I don't like something I work to change it without destroying what I have.
I was thinking about this recently actually. Although I believe that I'm the combination of all my past experiences, I just don't think that losing it when I did affects my present, so I'd probably wait.
