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I do and I always have believed there are Soulmates for people, even if some reject that theory and I understand. I believe in true loves as well.
Maybe Disney ruined me, but I felt like that feeling came from deeper within or was just an undeniable hope that seemed to always exist and I would cling to that hope in my inner-most heart-of-hearts that no matter the destructions or pain or time that passed, despite what I saw, I would still believe.

I even had just a friend that I felt was a soulmate - no attraction, both straight, both the same sex.

Prior to my current situation my only experience was limited to just hope. I have had several different types of love, but no true love until I met what became a bestfriend and became more, I think we both felt that connection since the beginning. It is like we could speak a language no one else could understand or reach the other except for us. We understood each other instantly. We were always bffs and always loved each other. That only grew and was tested and tested and only grew. I do not know about more than one "Soulmate"- like I said, I had a friend too, so it is possible to be a connection that has nothing to do with sexual or romance, yet that "True Love" there may be ONLY ONE, I do not know, but I think of it that way. It may be a needle in a haystack thing and a pressure to some, but I am also happy to have known that kind of love and can now not imagine having died and not known it! I did not know mine would become romantic but all it took was us being single and that spark to ignite [Timing - is everything & I do not believe it happens in "our" time/inotherwords- that we can make it happen]. Either way, I think we were soulmates. I am also a realist and not into mumbo jumbo. I do not look at my faith as part of that other grouping. It is a scary thought too, but also one I always believed in that I might find and it be like this someday & I hoped. It came when I did not expect and all I had to do was open my arms and accept it when it did. It came as easy and natural as breath. For now I will believe that it is true, until I am shown otherwise. Skeptic that I normally am - in this~ I just believe.


It is something spiritual and deeper - whether someone misses, dismisses, or tries to conoct. I think it is there but not everyone will get it... some people just never do.
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The concept of soul mates is kinda stupid when you think about it. We are animals that have evolved over millions of years to multiply and survive. You can get two random people and put them on a deserted island and after a while they will think they are soul mates. It's a trick our brain plays on us so we will eventually want to have children with someone, someone who is our "soul mate" so we will want to stick around and protect the baby and the mother too. It's just a survival instinct so the human race, as a whole, will continue on.
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I do believe in Soulmates and it is true that there is someone special for you though it takes patience. For what I seen so far I just wanted to say to those who do not believe in soulmates is that take your time on finding your special someone because there is out there somewhere I have a soulmate and I am her soulmate too. We understand each other and we get each other,s he is my only soulmate and I love her very much.
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There is one thing to get with someone for survial, even make a bond. There is a distinct difference in soulmate as that is another thing all together. The desert island scenario only works depending on the person. There are people who I would allow the human race to go extinct before I allowed. Some people are like that...not all, and maybe rare in some cases, just like a true soul's connection. You have to believe in a "soul" in order to appreciate.

If you do not know what the fruit is-you will only know it's taste and if it is tasty.
If the fruit has a special quality it will be wasted without the knowing, yet the fruit will still have that quality.
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I'm not sure. I've thought about this so much over the years and still don't have an answer. I'm a need to see it to believe it kinda girl.
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soulmate

A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful. I truly believe this with all my heart
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Quote by Marethyu53
Does anyone else here believe in that perfect someone who will complete there life? I know that there is someone for everyone but I'd like to here other opinions


I don't believe a person needs another to complete their life. Finding ones' soulmate just makes a good thing better.

I found my soulmate, he said he had found his in me. But for some, I guess that isn't enough.

shybird, you nailed it....

soulmate

"A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful. I truly believe this with all my heart."

But when that connection breaks, it's soul destroying.
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I believe in Fate, and once believed in this idea. But my experience has made me skeptical now.
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Quote by shybird
soulmate

A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful. I truly believe this with all my heart




That's beautiful.
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NOPE,,,,No Souls. When you die you are DEAD!
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Quote by shybird
soulmate

A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful. I truly believe this with all my heart


Until about a year ago i sort of laughed at the idea of a soulmate. I am not a big fan of labels but I sometimes have thought of Soleil as my soulmate even though I don't use the term. Shybird's definition does describe how I feel about her with surprising accuracy. You do need to have some mileage on you relationship-wise to know you have finally found the right one.
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Shy bird nailed this one.

I totally believe it because that's exactly what happened to me. The third time my wife and I were together she looked up at me, took my face in her hands and said, "Tell me." Just those two words. It took me thirty seconds (she told me later that's how long it was but it felt like an hour) looking into her eyes and I said, "I love you." 44 years later were still at it. She is losing her memories though and it's driving me insane with losing her.

I do think there is more than one soulmate for each of us.
I am always a gentleman.
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I use to not believe till one redheaded/brunette person crossed my path in life and it’s never been the same and what i thought was love and caring changed complete lol
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I use to not believe till one redheaded/brunette person crossed my path in life and it’s never been the same and what i thought was love and caring changed complete lol
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a soulmate is your soul's recognition of its counter in another
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I used to believe it and I thought I was married to him. We are no longer married and I don't believe it any longer
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Quote by heat23
a soulmate is your soul's recognition of its counter in another


So nice...most lovely.
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I dont think soul mates or true love exist. I think that people just like to believe they do. I use to believe they did yes but not anymore.
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I never heard the term Soul Mate until mine said it to me. She said "I think you are my soul mate" just before we made love for the first time. We were together for 2 years, and she was the love of my life. I still have dreams about her 20 years later.

But, we were separated into a long distance relationship and she decided to end it. I don't know, perhaps she found someone else.

For me, she has been the love of my life and soul mate.

But, I believe that perhaps there is a relationship that will be even stronger in my future. I have to believe that. Right?
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Yes and I have been very lucky to find two. One when I was younger, now gone our separate ways as we grew apart. Now with my new soul mate and very happy. Also met a couple of other girls who felt like they could be my soul mates if we had not already been in a committed relationship.
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Quote by Ariel21
I believe in soulmates. I believe they exist and some people are lucky to find them. But I believe soul mates find each other. A soul recognizes another and they know they are meant for each other. One sided love is not a soul mate


Right on....Soul mates will end up together.
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I have mixed thoughts on if soulmates exist or not.
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Well, since I don't believe in a soul, I guess I don't believe in soul-mates either! I think humans are very adaptable. There are probably a great many people out there with whom we could feel very comfortable, to the point that we could stick with them our whole lives, but meant-for-each-other, as in kismet? Nahhhhhhh... I have been with my boyfriend for over ten years because we are best friends and understand each other implicitly. Our sexual kinks complement one another's, and we will probably be best friends all our lives. If you want to call that 'soul-mates', fine. Just semantics.
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I don't believe in soulmates. No way. I think you connet with people who have the same interests as you but apart from that there's no big more spiritual thing about it.
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There's no such thing as soul mates. It's just another romantic term.