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Ok ladies and gentemen I want to know...would you suck his cock RIGHT AFTER anal sex? And men would

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Exactly. If this topic was about watersports or BDSM or crossdressing and was met with this kind of code-red 'judgment and retching', people would be up in arms about tolerance over everyone's sexual practices, kinks and "lifestyle" choices. Too funny.



Agreeing that people are getting a bit judgemental here...and that's coming from someone who absolutely would not entertain this idea (if anal sex was even something I was 'into').

Now, to be realistic, it isn't all that clean...and it is a little bit 'gross' if you think in too much detail about it... but so are public (and some non-public!) toilets...and just how many people does everyone know who's contracted an infection, disease etc from them?
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"Clean" is a relative concept in life, sex is no exception. I'm surprised to see the all-caps 12-exclamation points outrage over a little ass-to-mouth. If it grosses you out, then by all means don't do it. By the reaction, you'd think we were discussing gun confiscation with the NRA.


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Exactly. If this topic was about watersports or BDSM or crossdressing and was met with this kind of code-red 'judgment and retching', people would be up in arms about tolerance over everyone's sexual practices, kinks and "lifestyle" choices. Too funny.


One of these days...I would like to go for the double-triple with you two...Infect me with your bacteria!

I mean, if your boyfriends would not mind. I know both of you are super sensitive to their needs.
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What I find hilarious is that soooo many people on this site are all for having a little tongue in the ass, but Ass-to-Mouth is met with a resounding "oh em gee - how unsanitary" level-10 shock-factor... how is it that one is ok, but the other is ?

It's all personal preference, but the human body can tolerate more 'bacteria' than you think, and most people would be surprised at how much they accidentally ingest from things like fruits/veggies, eating at restaurants and even using your toothbrush if you don't close the lid every time you flush.

If you have properly cleansed ahead of time and use plenty of lube, his dick should be pretty clean except for a glossy mess of lube and cum after an anal cream-pie. I don't think people look to do this after every round of anal, but once in a while it's really no big deal - and such a kinky turn-on to continue the psychological arousal that will lead to another session of hot, sweaty, dirty fucking ... instead of taking a break to shower and de-sanitize each other with anti-bacterial agents before starting again.

I had no idea there were so many paranoid germ-a-phobes on the site... lol



So .... let me get this right .... it's all a-ok to have your man fuck your ass .... and because it's so hot and dirty .... he can fuck your pussy? Wasn't there another thread on here in which you and others (myself included) that the cross between anal to the pussy was a no-no??



I am not judging anyone ..... you want to do whatever the heck it is sexually .... have at her (or him) .... doesn't affect ME in any way.



Personally, I don't want to suck my ass juices off of my man. Don't judge me. I Was Born This Way .... smile
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So .... let me get this right .... it's all a-ok to have your man fuck your ass .... and because it's so hot and dirty .... he can fuck your pussy? Wasn't there another thread on here in which you and others (myself included) that the cross between anal to the pussy was a no-no??


The mouth and the pussy handle bacteria in very different ways.

From Wiki:
If the recipient of ass-to-mouth is performing fellatio on a penis or object that was removed from his/her own rectum, the health risks are generally limited to disturbances of the gastrointestinal tract, which may proceed from introducing normal intestinal flora from the rectum to the mouth and upper digestive tract.

Whereas ass-to-pussy has a very high incidence of vaginal infection which would require rounds of antibiotics and follow-up care.

I'm not saying everyone should do ATM... just like they shouldn't be required to drink piss or shove ginger up their ass while nipple-clamped and chained to the bedside table. People are into different kinks. I just don't think fetishes should be condemned/judged to the extreme.

It's not like I'm a huge fan of ATM either, but on occasion and in the right situation, it can be hot. And for the record - I've never gotten sick or had any GI issues after-the-fact. Like I was saying - you're mostly sucking cum and lube anyway. I just don't see it as that different if you're into tongue in the ass or rimming, which most people on Lush claim to love based on other threads.

To look at it another way - fucking without a condom carries risk of STD, but a lot of people still do it. Getting a bit of GI upset after ATM is just another version of a sexual risk - one that *technically* is a lot less scary or potentially permanent than an STD, in my opinion. Yet I wouldn't go condemning someone who didn't use a condom as disgusting or insane to consider such a thing.
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What I find hilarious is that soooo many people on this site are all for having a little tongue in the ass, but Ass-to-Mouth is met with a resounding "oh em gee - how unsanitary" level-10 shock-factor... how is it that one is ok, but the other is ?



Makes one wonder if this is even true. If you are afraid of contacting bacteria, what would be worse, sticking your tongue in someones ass or sucking something that was in YOUR ass? To me it would be sticking my tongue in someone elses ass. Although I dont see anything gross about either if you are properly prepared for it.

Like I said earlier, I have ATM but I know I was clean. It is not sometghing I do everytime I do anal, but sometimes I am in a very dirty mood and getting raunchy is fun!!
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No way!
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We've never been able to do anal, despite the fact of trying(To big). BUT HELL to the fucking NO!!! I wouldn't ask her to do that, nor would I want her to do that.
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Yes, I have. So then he can do my pussy to please me after pleasing him with my arse.
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What I find hilarious is that soooo many people on this site are all for having a little tongue in the ass, but Ass-to-Mouth is met with a resounding "oh em gee - how unsanitary" level-10 shock-factor... how is it that one is ok, but the other is ?

It's all personal preference, but the human body can tolerate more 'bacteria' than you think, and most people would be surprised at how much they accidentally ingest from things like fruits/veggies, eating at restaurants and even using your toothbrush if you don't close the lid every time you flush.

If you have properly cleansed ahead of time and use plenty of lube, his dick should be pretty clean except for a glossy mess of lube and cum after an anal cream-pie. I don't think people look to do this after every round of anal, but once in a while it's really no big deal - and such a kinky turn-on to continue the psychological arousal that will lead to another session of hot, sweaty, dirty fucking ... instead of taking a break to shower and de-sanitize each other with anti-bacterial agents before starting again.

I had no idea there were so many paranoid germ-a-phobes on the site... lol



100% win. saliva kills a wide range of bacteria on contact, in case you people didnt know.
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I had no idea there were so many paranoid germ-a-phobes on the site... lol



I think it's great that we all have a varying difference of opinions. Some say yes, it is safe even without a condom - some say, FFS a simple burst of water is not going to kill germs. This is not about being a paranoid germ-a phobe, but concerns.

I like the fact that we can all state our opinion. I like to think that someone that is less experienced or even totally innocent with an inquiring mind will come in here and get all the facts before adventuring or considering something like this. If they read all opinions, and if they still had any concerns/questions, they can explore the matter further on the net or even ask their doctor (as I have and was told, no condom is a no-no) if it is considered safe or not. If we ALL came in here and said yes - be that for the truth, or to look good, then that could give the wrong impression.

We shouldn't be afraid to state our concerns - after all, this is what makes Lush special lol.
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I think it's great that we all have a varying difference of opinions. Some say yes, it is safe even without a condom - some say, FFS a simple burst of water is not going to kill germs. This is not about being a paranoid germ-a phobe, but concerns.

I like the fact that we can all state our opinion. I like to think that someone that is less experienced or even totally innocent with an inquiring mind will come in here and get all the facts before adventuring or considering something like this. If they read all opinions, and if they still had any concerns/questions, they can explore the matter further on the net or even ask their doctor (as I have and was told, no condom is a no-no) if it is considered safe or not. If we ALL came in here and said yes - be that for the truth, or to look good, then that could give the wrong impression.

We shouldn't be afraid to state our concerns - after all, this is what makes Lush special lol.


As you know I'm all for giving opinions, as I was giving mine too. I felt that in this particular thread, the ass-to-mouth people were being unfairly ganged up on and I wanted to defend the underdogs.

That way everyone feels comfortable giving their opinions without fearing their sexual practices or kinks will be condemned or judged, as was happening earlier in the thread if you read through the entire thing.
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As you know I'm all for giving opinions, as I was giving mine too. I felt that in this particular thread, the ass-to-mouth people were being unfairly ganged up on and I wanted to defend the underdogs.

That way everyone feels comfortable giving their opinions without fearing their sexual practices or kinks will be condemned or judged, as was happening earlier in the thread if you read through the entire thing.




I think if you read back, you will see that many were voicing their concerns at the 'claims' that a simple douche was enough to consider this practice safe - we never condemned or judged as you said, we voiced that we wouldn't do it personally but we, I admit, did focus on the claims it is clean.

Defend??? I don't think the ass-to-mouth were unfairly ganged up upon at all and would never consider them nor you an underdog (mind you, I do love that word - you have probably seen it on my profile LOL) Questioned yes, ganged up no.

What you may have missed is that none of the safe crowd bothered to get personal and called us things like 'paranoid germ-a-phobes' - rather than something like people who are concerned about safe sex. How is someone supposed to feel comfortable about giving their opinions after reading something like that?

Just asking.
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I think if you read back, you will see that many were voicing their concerns at the 'claims' that a simple douche was enough to consider this practice safe - we never condemned or judged as you said, we voiced that we wouldn't do it personally but we, I admit, did focus on the claims it is clean.

Defend??? I don't think the ass-to-mouth were unfairly ganged up upon at all and would never consider them nor you an underdog (mind you, I do love that word - you have probably seen it on my profile LOL) Questioned yes, ganged up no.

What you may have missed is that none of the safe crowd bothered to get personal and called us things like 'paranoid germ-a-phobes' - rather than something like people who are concerned about safe sex. How is someone supposed to feel comfortable about giving their opinions after reading something like that?

Just asking.


*Sigh* Ok, I'll play along (this time) and condense a few of the judgmental comments for you in this thread:

- "gross, yuck, barf, gag"
- "many of you need to cease any sexual activity and retake Sex 101"
- "jeez, what is the deal in the forums here for people to think it's ok to (do this)"
- "Seriously I feel like I just lost precious minutes of my life reading some of the idiotic responses"
- *GAGGGGGGINNNG*

Apply any of those comments to a thread on BDSM or watersports or any other sexual kink, and maybe you'll see how it might dissuade people who do it from posting on the forums - something that two other people already noted before I even posted. Hopefully that clears up the confusion for you.
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yea all the judgemental comments were comming from the "clean side" of this conversation for a long while... to the point where one girl asked if she was weird that it didnt bother her to do it...
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*Sigh* Ok, I'll play along (this time) and condense a few of the judgmental comments for you in this thread:

- "gross, yuck, barf, gag"
- "many of you need to cease any sexual activity and retake Sex 101"
- "jeez, what is the deal in the forums here for people to think it's ok to (do this)"
- "Seriously I feel like I just lost precious minutes of my life reading some of the idiotic responses"
- *GAGGGGGGINNNG*

Apply any of those comments to a thread on BDSM or watersports or any other sexual kink, and maybe you'll see how it might dissuade people who do it from posting on the forums - something that two other people already noted before I even posted. Hopefully that clears up the confusion for you.


I'm not saying all this to get a response from you, but if you feel it is a game, then I can't stop you feeling that way, because I am not playing one. But, I am glad that my fight to have any member to have a self opinionated thought on here without being responded to with personal attacks/replies, is getting through. So thank you DD for coming on board

- "gross, yuck, barf, gag" I would say that is just a self opinionated response on how they feel on the matter and that it was not directed at those that practice it.
- "many of you need to cease any sexual activity and retake Sex 101" I say this was because of the safe sex debate and again not directed at any member but the issue of safety.
- "jeez, what is the deal in the forums here for people to think it's ok to (do this)" see above
- "Seriously I feel like I just lost precious minutes of my life reading some of the idiotic responses" see above
- *GAGGGGGGINNNG* see first response.

Maybe one more coffee and I will be less confused LOL.

Please note: Just so we can be clear, I would do this myself - but only if the guy was wearing a condom first and removed it prior to inserting into my mouth. I am not against the act, just the health side of it.
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Maybe one more coffee and I will be less confused LOL.


You may want to stick to decaf...
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You may want to stick to decaf...


Nah, that would be too boring
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but the safe sex debate in this forum is grounded in the ass to mouth activity. it really seems like what you want all these people who preform this in their personal lives to retake sex 101 as if they are doing something wrong when really they are just doing something you dont like to do.
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No way!
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Yes we both suck each others dick, her strapon and mine. But we are both clean before we start.
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No way, not my thing...I dont care how clean.
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No way in hell!
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I agree with those that say it's not safe.... The anal canal carries LOTs of nasties that don't belong in the mouth or the vagina...

Always use a condom for anal penetration and toss the condom and you should also carefully clean the penis before putting it anyplace else even if the condom is used... This is extremely dangerous...

Googling this up will make you never want to do it again without good protection and strict sanitizing.

Forget what you see in porn videos... It's simply not safe and crazy to even do once...

I'm a pretty open minded guy but when you mess with the anus you're messing with a dangerous place.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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I was the first person lee has done ATM with and she has no problem with it. She does keep herself very clean as part of our lifestyle but even still, there are bacteria from which she's never had an adverse reaction. So, whatever floats your boat. For some it works and for others it doesn't. Enjoy and play safe.
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No.

I get why people think it's uncool not to, but it's just too much of a hazard for me. Been through a bunch of medical training (not a doctor or a nurse, though), and I'm just not comfortable doing things I know are a huge infection risk. Wear a condom for anal, take it off when you want me to suck your dick. Problem solved.
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What I find hilarious is that soooo many people on this site are all for having a little tongue in the ass, but Ass-to-Mouth is met with a resounding "oh em gee - how unsanitary" level-10 shock-factor... how is it that one is ok, but the other is ?

It's all personal preference, but the human body can tolerate more 'bacteria' than you think, and most people would be surprised at how much they accidentally ingest from things like fruits/veggies, eating at restaurants and even using your toothbrush if you don't close the lid every time you flush.

If you have properly cleansed ahead of time and use plenty of lube, his dick should be pretty clean except for a glossy mess of lube and cum after an anal cream-pie. I don't think people look to do this after every round of anal, but once in a while it's really no big deal - and such a kinky turn-on to continue the psychological arousal that will lead to another session of hot, sweaty, dirty fucking ... instead of taking a break to shower and de-sanitize each other with anti-bacterial agents before starting again.

I had no idea there were so many paranoid germ-a-phobes on the site... lol



I know everyone on Lush loves you Dancing Doll, but must you always be right? Right on little Sister.
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I get that the human body can stand up to it. For me it's mostly an "ick" factor, I suppose, but I worry about the other infections and whatnot as well. On the other hand, I don't really like a tongue on or in my asshole either. It feels unpleasant to me, and I know that I don't enjoy it. Very few things make me say that, and this is one. I realize now I sounded a little judgmental in my last post. And to be fair, I am sometimes a bit of a paranoid microphobe.
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Honestly, I don't have a huge problem with it because if I engaged in anal sex, I would be prepared so sucking my partner afterward, shouldn't be a problem. If he's fine with it, so am I.
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Done it many times but never if his cock was clearly dirty, which is very rare.
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To each their own.....but for me it's a big old absolutely not