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Actually, I am ONLY attracted to men who are intelligent, successful, well presented, and courteous. The ability of a man to hold my attention, peak my interest and stimulate my mind is what makes me interested in being with him.
Men with their mind emenating from their penis bore and repulse me.
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Intellectahorn: who finds intelligence attractive, and why?
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Quote by curious3045Agree! People who seem to have the need to show-off their intelligence turn me off. :/
Dangerous topic here because intelligence does not necessarily translate into a fun personality. Definitely helps no doubt, but it is important how that intelligence is communicate with others in relationships. Make sense??
Quote by Kimasa^ This! =d>
Intelligence can be very sexy but it's governed by the personality that goes with it.
It's when you discover through conversation that this subtle person is very intelligent, well travelled, open minded, has a great sense of humour and is so confident in their own skin they don't need to brag, advertise it or want to hold centre stage within their group of peers
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I think intelligence is extremely attractive. Nothing hotter than a really smart guy.
So do you? Or is it okay if he is dumb but physically attractive?
Should he be smart, but not as smart as you?
I know some people feel threatened by someone who is as smart, if not smarter than them. But I love it. Maybe that's because I'm confident in myself, but who knows.
So do you? Or is it okay if he is dumb but physically attractive?
Should he be smart, but not as smart as you?
I know some people feel threatened by someone who is as smart, if not smarter than them. But I love it. Maybe that's because I'm confident in myself, but who knows.
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Lots of people can hit the gym. But to be smart and clever takes just as much effort. He could be drop dead gorgeous but dumb as a post. I'd rather he be smart than muscular.
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It is a requirement. The mind is what is the most attractive thing about a person. I have seen people who were very physically attractive but their lack of intelligence made them less and less appealing. I have also had the experience of someone rather plain but then they start talking and they become more and more attractive. Intelligent people tend to be curious about the world and therefore are ultimately more interesting to be around.
One point I do want to make, you can't judge a person from their outside appearance how intelligent they are.
One point I do want to make, you can't judge a person from their outside appearance how intelligent they are.
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beauty fades;but intelligence lasts forever
Wild at Heart
I don't know... Intelligence is a double edged sword. Sure it's attractive but intelligent people are way harder to bullshit and trick.
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Omg .. An intelligent mind is crazy hottt.. Especially mixed with unruly curiosity and imagination. Hotttt!!!
Dumb (girls) are boring. I suppose if it were for one night only, that might be okay (maybe she would not remember your phone number) LOL
Same thing at the gym.
I see the steroid junkies, coming back to the gym, now that they are coming off their cycles. Yeah and some of the girls at the gym are attracted to them.
I just wonder how fast the reciting of a `see spot run` book gets boring ;)
Same thing at the gym.
I see the steroid junkies, coming back to the gym, now that they are coming off their cycles. Yeah and some of the girls at the gym are attracted to them.
I just wonder how fast the reciting of a `see spot run` book gets boring ;)
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Of course it's attractive. She can be drop dead gorgeous, but if I have to listen to "me and my friends seen that" or "I could care less about whatever" for too long, I'm liable to just call it a conversation and move on.
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It's in the top 5 sexiest things a woman can be. Strong too. Not dominate, strong. Someone who does not require a man or anyone else to be complete. The combination of those 2 DEMANDS my attention and will pull me away from almost anything else.
The outside is pretty much just the package that all the good stuff comes wrapped up in.
The outside is pretty much just the package that all the good stuff comes wrapped up in.
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It is a requirement. The mind is what is the most attractive thing about a person. I have seen people who were very physically attractive but their lack of intelligence made them less and less appealing. I have also had the experience of someone rather plain but then they start talking and they become more and more attractive. Intelligent people tend to be curious about the world and therefore are ultimately more interesting to be around.
One point I do want to make, you can't judge a person from their outside appearance how intelligent they are.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
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I find intelligence attractive as long as it's relevant and interesting, and isn't used in an arrogant manner.
If you're knowledgeable in something I wouldn't normally find interesting yet you can make it interesting to me, then that says a lot about you.
However, there are those that are arrogant in their intelligence, or their perceived intelligence. It's pretty easy to detect when someone's talking out of their ass in hopes of appearing intelligent and knowledgeable in whatever they're talking about. But that gets really boring really fast. And if you're trying to showcase your intelligence just to prove that you know something that I don't, that's pretty lame. Intelligence is something to be shared, not lorded over someone's head. If you find yourself doing that...or attempting to do that, then you'll probably find yourself alienated from others fairly quickly.
Intelligence usually means you can say plenty without saying much. The opposite of intelligence is rambling on without saying much of anything.
If you're knowledgeable in something I wouldn't normally find interesting yet you can make it interesting to me, then that says a lot about you.
However, there are those that are arrogant in their intelligence, or their perceived intelligence. It's pretty easy to detect when someone's talking out of their ass in hopes of appearing intelligent and knowledgeable in whatever they're talking about. But that gets really boring really fast. And if you're trying to showcase your intelligence just to prove that you know something that I don't, that's pretty lame. Intelligence is something to be shared, not lorded over someone's head. If you find yourself doing that...or attempting to do that, then you'll probably find yourself alienated from others fairly quickly.
Intelligence usually means you can say plenty without saying much. The opposite of intelligence is rambling on without saying much of anything.
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My prayer is "O Lord, save me from boring women". Intelligence is a large part of not being boring, but they also need to be funny, strong, independent, open minded, and dynamite in bed.
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intelligence is sexually attractive for a myriad of reasons. there's something very appealing about someone who is very inquisitive, yet has the ability to remain focused. you can see why this transfers well to sex. intelligence also gives one the ability to converse, cos that is the most important. you want someone who can keep you engaged. humor and wit are often by products of intelligence.
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Intelligence MAKES ME LAUGH AND THINK!!!!!
(OF COURSE I like a PRETTY LOOK but in my experience INTELLIGENT GIRLS can work a look... (????))
Intelligence makes her laugh at my humor... (And me at hers, indeed...)
It's not even about having read the same books or seen the same movies... IT"S ABOUT BEING ABLE TO TALK!!!!!
Clever is MY ABSOLUTE. (You have to be fucking smart...)
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(OF COURSE I like a PRETTY LOOK but in my experience INTELLIGENT GIRLS can work a look... (????))
Intelligence makes her laugh at my humor... (And me at hers, indeed...)
It's not even about having read the same books or seen the same movies... IT"S ABOUT BEING ABLE TO TALK!!!!!
Clever is MY ABSOLUTE. (You have to be fucking smart...)
xx SF
Rainbow Warrior
Intelligence is attractive generally, yes, especially for companionship, but it all depends. I've always been lumped in with honors students all through my educational career, and some of the smartest guys have been insufferably arrogant and dismissive, which I don't find attractive at all. I find that extreme intelligence often brings with it personality and social development deficiencies. So intelligence is great, up to the point where you are so intelligent you have trouble relating to those around you.
Usually, I find highly intelligent women more attractive and relatable than highly intelligent men. Wit, humor, and cleverness are much more attractive in men.
Usually, I find highly intelligent women more attractive and relatable than highly intelligent men. Wit, humor, and cleverness are much more attractive in men.
The Linebacker
Intelligence is attractive if the person with the intelligence has depth of character. Some people with very high IQs are still very shallow. They can be very narcissistic and worse they can have no redeeming moral characteristics.
Often success has very little to do with intelligence but rather who is willing to work the hardest to achieve their goals.
Intelligence with the right combination of other characteristics can be attractive and intoxicating.
Often success has very little to do with intelligence but rather who is willing to work the hardest to achieve their goals.
Intelligence with the right combination of other characteristics can be attractive and intoxicating.
Top Shot
Intelligence, wit, and a dry sense of humour are among my top five prerequisites for even considering a man as a potential partner. I like being with someone who can keep up with me and my random obscure references to random obscure things.
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