How long would it take before you just give up trying? This is for single, married
Or anyone who would like to answer.
Why would someone turn someone down if they are married?
Turned down by only one person in particular, or turned down by every single person ever?
My gf has no interest in sex for about 3 to 3.5 weeks of every month. She has no sex drive whatsoever apart from her 3 days to 1 week when she gets horny around her 'cycle'. I have up 'trying' a long time ago as I found that if the other person is only doing it for the sake of it the sex is crap anyway. So I wait for her to come to me, which is generally a long wait lol
ive been turned down alot, and here recently ive giving up. hell i even tried getting a prostitute and they even turned me down... :/
who on earth gets turn down by a prostitute?
Once would be all it took.. If I even went that far, I like to be pursued and seduced
I'll lay a bet that not many lush ladies will be posting stories of being turned down! Funny how it never works the other way round lol
This depends on the reason. If my girlfriend is sick or just not in the mood then I would obviously give up for the time being and try again at some point. On the other hand, I totally understand that for even the most confident of persons that being repeatedly turned down for sex would be a massive blow to the ego. I can also understand how this could be a spiraling effect that would cause someone to be gun shy about asking, which could turn into never asking again.
you hizzy are so so so wrong
was married to a man who turned me down all the time
told me i was an oversexed woman who needed help
years i asked
for i loved him
how long did i keep asking 14 years
then i warned him i would find another
and i did
Use to ask and she wasn't too keen, then we both found out she liked it rougher than we'd thought so now unless it's her time of the month (which she specifies) if she says no it happens anyway (Trying to say this in the least way possible) Says she loves the feeling of being over powered and used. Sometimes you just got to go for it (Not endorsing anything in anyway, just want to make that crystal clear!)
When life gives you lemons, keep them. 'Cause hey, free lemons!
I imagine unless they have always been that way there may be something up. I recommend having a sit down and heart to heart.
My husband has no desire for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a year. He has low testosterone and has no interest in taking anything for it. I think he is doing it to drive me crazy bc he knows how much I love sex. But unless I " " him I'm not getting lucky. And it's not worth the fight anyone.
Nice to see im not alone in this boat.
So far my wife and I are at 3 years 5 months (and counting)
She was a total nymph when we met but its like someone flipped a switch.
About year after we got married she just lost interest.
Im just too in love and too stupid to leave.
