Problem here, I’m a multiple orgasm girl. I come easily and often. While this should be nothing but fun, lately I feel like both my lovers take my pleasure for granted. Not much foreplay and very rarely any oral (from them, I really enjoy giving head) Just because I’ve had a couple of o’s doesn’t mean I’m ready to be done or even slowing down, it’s usually only been 15 minutes. My partners don’t make much of an effort to keep going beyond that anymore. I’m a believer in taking responsibility for your own orgasm but lately I’m wondering if I should try to not have quite so much fun, just to prolong things a bit. Or am i being selfish?
there is nothing wrong with multiple orgasms I actually taught myself how to have multiple orgasms without ever cumming. I would love to have orgasm after orgasm with you. The more the better why ever stop?
You sound like you're having a great time during sex but if the guy doesn't feel like he's any more involved than your dildo might be, what's his motivation to try? If you're entirely responsible for your own orgasm all you're effectively doing is rubbing yourself off on each other.
I've been with women with whom I've really had to work hard to get an orgasm (or not), I've also been with women who seem to have something similar to orgasmic hiccups during sex. To be honest the best sex is somewhere in between, where I know she's enjoying it because of what I'm doing to her as much as what she's doing to me
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NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber Hi, just had to comment. As a guy who loves to give head,,, I mean I really love doing it. I wonder what is wrong with your two friends. Did you explain that you are just getting started? Let them know they are short changing you and you want and expect more. Or, I can offer my services. Or there have to be other gals and guys who would enjoy you all evening long, just find one or two of them.
Reminds me of a Lily Allen song.....Goes like this!
Oh, I lie here in the wet patch in the middle of the bed
I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by, I spent ages giving head
Then I remember all the nice things that you ever said to me
Maybe I'm just overreacting, maybe you're the one for me
There's just one thing that's getting in the way
When we go up to bed, you're just no good, it's such a shame
I look into your eyes, I want to get to know you
And then you make this noise and it's apparent it's all over
It's not fair and I think you're really mean
I think you're really mean, I think you're really mean
Oh, you're supposed to care
But you never make me scream, you never make me scream
I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!
Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!
There is nothing wrong with having a lot of orgasms, and if you do that’s great. One thing you might want to do though, instead of having many, start holding back. Orgasm denial yourself, so when you do orgasm it’ll be 10x intense as if you didn't.
If you let’s say have sex for only fifteen minutes and he makes you orgasm eight times but you’re not ready to be done, because you want more orgasms. You should try and hold out, deny yourself. If you feel the need to orgasm, holding on to it, don’t let go. You need to work past it, let it build to the most extreme, and wait for the next one. It should be more powerful, and you’ll orgasm harder.
With that said, you might get enough orgasms, or feel satisfied enough to say the least. Though if you ask me fifteen minutes of sex isn't enough either. But it can’t hurt to try this, and see if it works. Even if you somehow convince them to have sex more, and pay more mind to you.
Sadly both men know me very well at this point. One is my husband and the other has known me even longer. I'm wondering if this is just a byproduct of the passing time. I have discussed this with my husband, which is who I really care about. He feels that since my sex drive has always outpaced his he is doing his part as long as I come a couple times before him. The downside of marrying an engineer, all logic.
Seriously, toss those boys out! You need a man who won't stop until you are passing out from your orgasms. Men should please their women & not take you for granted in or out of bed!
Those cads ought to be horsewhipped. Sadly, it's a trend rising again. What the fuck is the matter with such men?
Can there be such a thing as enough Os?
My wife enjoys multiple orgasms. We've been know to stay at it all day before, she seemed to never tire of it. I would be limp and she would use her vibe. I don't know that we ever really kept count. Her last O seemed as intense as the first! If you're like her, you would or do, enjoy tantric sex.
...when you're sore and start to walk funny!
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, is that enough ?
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
Unless he's like my husband and can tell no matter how much I try to downplay it.
