Im in love with a person who shows she loves me, but in some point just cant chose me because its too damn complicated .Will i wait till she makes things simple or at least lessen the complication shes into.
If you really love each other, then won't you wait forever?
I'm not waiting, he can find his own way home!
Oh, that wasn't what you mean? Never mind.
Not sure - but the expression "until the cows come home" - how did that ever start? lol
Um, not to put too blunt a point on it, but if she really loved/loves you, why did she go with someone else? And why are you wasting your time fawning over someone who clearly doesn't particularly care how her behaviour and choices make you feel? Personally, if I were to think myself in love with someone who then turned around and went with someone else, I would just move right the fuck on. Life is entirely too short to be spent waiting on someone who can't be bothered to return my affections.
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I won't wait for them at all. If they loved me, they'd be with me. If they choose to be with someone else, or they don't have the same feelings for me, then waiting is pointless. They obviously don't have the same feelings for me as I do for them. It's unfortunate, but moving on is the only option.
When I was a young resident, there was a beautiful Social Worker I had the major hots for. I was obnoxious in my pursuit of her until she told me to back off, she was engaged. I did, but every time I saw her, my heart ached. About a year and a half later, she stopped me, when I was on rounds, handed a note to me with her telephone number. I called her...she asked me out. Our first date was to a movie and McDonald's (remember, I was a poor resident). I took her home and asked her to marry me. She laughed at me and said, ask me again in a few months. Three months later, after dating, I asked her again and she said yes. We had a beautiful wedding on the beach in Florida, barefoot in the sand. We were happily married until she succumbed to metastatic ovarian cancer, almost 15 years. So, in answer to the question, yes I waited and I never regretted it. Miss you and I will always love you.
I waited 16 years. We were both there for each other through the other relationships, boosting each other up when they failed. He was my shoulder when my marriages got rough, I was his sounding board when his girlfriends went psycho...
If we hadn't waited for each other and tried to make a go of it earlier, I don't think we would be as close as we are. I've NEVER used the word soul mates in a relationship before...now it crosses my mind all the time. If it's meant to be, it will find a way. And sometimes good things come to those who wait.