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I've been trying for many years to rekindle the sparks but keep getting nowhere. Is it time to call it quits or do I keep trying? Help,,,.,
Quote by grogynz
I've been trying for many years to rekindle the sparks but keep getting nowhere. Is it time to call it quits or do I keep trying? Help,,,.,
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Quote by hotswimmer
IMHO A good relationship is a two way street.
True of a friendship also.
If you are doing all the work to rekindle the relationship, without response... move on.
Get over it.
We want what we cannot have too, so it can be a drain on yourself emotionally. Go cold turkey.
If in some small way it was successful reviving things, then you will end up continuing all the work keeping it alive.
Is that what you want, to do all the work forever?
People are not perfect, it sucks some times, but don't waste your energy, you will feel better
Good luck
Quote by thesexynun
well one question comes to mind are you married and have kids?
if you said no to that well it is easy
you are honest and kind and say what you feel from your heart
if you are married
have you really done everything
I mean have YOU been a lover to her
woo'd her like you did when you were dating
loved the housework comment
you wont believe how many pissed off wives there out there over chores and kids(pssst men do some chores and the vagina will reopen again!)
have you seen a sex therapist?
if that is the embers you are talking about?
do you do things together movies hobbies date nights or even a class together
if you have tried all of this and are miserable
me I am all for the getting out instead of cheating
in the end if you are that unhappy both of you deserve the chance to find someone else and be happy
so to me the first step is to communicate with her
have the uncomfortable conversation
start from there...
good luck and hugs
ending something is so hard
so end it with love and compassion
Quote by grogynz
I've been trying for many years to rekindle the sparks but keep getting nowhere. Is it time to call it quits or do I keep trying? Help,,,.,