I briefly considered the possibility once. But I came to the fast conclusion that I was a sad enough act as I was, and paying for some sort of intimacy from a stranger who was only pretending to "like" me was even crapper than the current reality. I'd hate to make his "Crap Customer of the Day" list, and always know that the only way I could get laid was to fork out money that I didn't have to spare.
So, no. I won't ever pay for sex, but I understand many varied reasons why others would.
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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In Amsterdam during a study abroad once, yes. I did. I was more curious about the whole Red Light District thing than actually amped up to have sex with a prostitute. Not to mention I had to get smashingly tipsy to work up the balls to do it. It helped in that my incentive was that my roommate on the trip would pay for my drinks the next few days...And when you happen to be going to Belgium next, you can see that appeal.
As for the experience....Yea. I actually did research beforehand about the whole Redlight District. Heavily regulated these days. In fact, most women probably keep themselves more clean than many porn stars do. Condoms for blow jobs and sex. Often change condoms throughout.
It is a very...mechanical and detached kind of sex. Or can be. Basically, imagine sex with a porn star and there's really no mutual attraction. Even harder to differentiate what's real and what isn't. Face it. It's the profession they've chosen.
I don't know how so many stick with it for so long. Just walking the canal up down the RLD, there are jerks and ass hats all over the place. Unfortunately, that night I finally "did it" I had been walking with some of my friends on the trip and they were crass to the women, so I had to dump them and go off on my own.
Now, to the actual experience. Was awkward at first. But then, the woman was obviously waaay more experienced than I'll ever bee. She was sweet though. Did the small talk with her. Can't help it, the whole RLD thing was a complete mystery beforehand and since my degree field was journalism, well...Yea.
I'll always remember, however, making her descend into a fit of very real, very loud giggles when I asked her where she was from while she was riding on top. Probably the realest moment of the entire experience.
Wouldn't be something I'd ever do again though. Or, thinking back, I'd have probably changed my mind and never done it in the first place.
Something really cold and detached about paying for sex. Also can make you feel like crap when you start to wonder just what pushed them into the profession.
If I weren't so afraid of being caught, I sure as hell would.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates No,but I do find some kink in maybe being paid for a service. lol
Yep that's how I lost My virginity. Girlfriend at the time didn't want the "responsibility" of being My first. So a visit to the local "massage parlor" took the burden off her shoulders.
Nope. I am never that desperate.
No, I never have, but honestly, sometimes I can see the attraction, especially if he was good at his job...
I have never paid for sex, nor do I think I could... Something just feels wrong about it...
Yeah, I've tried it - about 50 times with 30 different women, over a six year period.
Initially it was just about sex. I had a pretty solitary lifestyle at the time, and not a lot of access to women. But increasingly, it became a misguided search for intimacy. Regardless, I was able to achieve some sort of connection about a dozen of those times, making for really incredible, rewarding experiences.
Another dozen or so goes at it were negative, and left me filled with self-loathing and regret. Everything from questionable hygene to accidently paying for one on the work credit card. Man, that took some explaining.
At the risk of whoring for my story (pun intended), Warning Order is based on actual events and should give you an insight into what it's like. Angelina's pretty much the standard experience, while Donna was a magnificent exception.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. I did it many times, often with the same girl. The feelings went from ecstasy to caring about them to living with them. But in the end it was really about sex. As an adult I had never had enough sex so for me it filled a need. Being married never came close to doing that. In the end my marriage failed and I left all of these girls when I ran out of money. Not sorry I did it.
Well as a way of trying something that you are not going to run into mainstream or fulfilling a fantasy - sure - why not? About the only way I have been able to cum up with to have an experience with a shemale or just some completely uncomplicated relief in a fantasy. Take your time, book at least two hours, go with workers with good reviews and decent histories. They have reputations to protect!
Avoid very young, inexperienced and those who are there because they are desperate.
How much should I charge? Should I accept MasterCard or Visa or both?
could go for that Buz ...lol
But I never had to before
They should pay me too ... yeah I'm that good
Maybe we should go in to phone sex game
I have not. I feel bad for those that cannot make a living any other way or are financially trapped in that occupation.
I tried it once when I was single. It was more out of curiosity than anything else.
And I didn't enjoy it, don't get me wrong she was fine, there just wasn't any intimacy
And I couldn't do my favourite thing, which is to eat pussy.
Nope, never paid for it. I doubt that I would.
Kick off with $500 an hour, Buzz, and see how you go from there. And yes to both on the credit cards. Don't forget AmEx - more points.
Definitely steer clear of getting into phone sex though. Damn web cams have killed the industry. Believe me.
But is it just me, or would Buzzbat be a great name for a vibrator? Now that's a business worth looking into.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.