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I briefly considered the possibility once. But I came to the fast conclusion that I was a sad enough act as I was, and paying for some sort of intimacy from a stranger who was only pretending to "like" me was even crapper than the current reality. I'd hate to make his "Crap Customer of the Day" list, and always know that the only way I could get laid was to fork out money that I didn't have to spare.

So, no. I won't ever pay for sex, but I understand many varied reasons why others would.

Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.

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Raised on Blackroot
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In Amsterdam during a study abroad once, yes. I did. I was more curious about the whole Red Light District thing than actually amped up to have sex with a prostitute. Not to mention I had to get smashingly tipsy to work up the balls to do it. It helped in that my incentive was that my roommate on the trip would pay for my drinks the next few days...And when you happen to be going to Belgium next, you can see that appeal.

As for the experience....Yea. I actually did research beforehand about the whole Redlight District. Heavily regulated these days. In fact, most women probably keep themselves more clean than many porn stars do. Condoms for blow jobs and sex. Often change condoms throughout.

It is a very...mechanical and detached kind of sex. Or can be. Basically, imagine sex with a porn star and there's really no mutual attraction. Even harder to differentiate what's real and what isn't. Face it. It's the profession they've chosen.

I don't know how so many stick with it for so long. Just walking the canal up down the RLD, there are jerks and ass hats all over the place. Unfortunately, that night I finally "did it" I had been walking with some of my friends on the trip and they were crass to the women, so I had to dump them and go off on my own.

Now, to the actual experience. Was awkward at first. But then, the woman was obviously waaay more experienced than I'll ever bee. She was sweet though. Did the small talk with her. Can't help it, the whole RLD thing was a complete mystery beforehand and since my degree field was journalism, well...Yea.

I'll always remember, however, making her descend into a fit of very real, very loud giggles when I asked her where she was from while she was riding on top. Probably the realest moment of the entire experience.

Wouldn't be something I'd ever do again though. Or, thinking back, I'd have probably changed my mind and never done it in the first place.

Something really cold and detached about paying for sex. Also can make you feel like crap when you start to wonder just what pushed them into the profession.
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If I weren't so afraid of being caught, I sure as hell would.



When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
CurlyFries
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If I weren't so afraid of being caught, I sure as hell would.


I told you, I'm very discreet!

You know how to reach me. And remember, cash only!
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I told you, I'm very discreet!

You know how to reach me. And remember, cash only!


When did you go to cash only! Last time you let me swipe my Green Dot Visa down your cooch slit?



When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
CurlyFries
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When did you go to cash only! Last time you let me swipe my Green Dot Visa down your cooch slit?


When? When??? Since you tried to do that chargeback after our last session. You cum, you pay!! Them's the rules, Buddy!

Last time you swipe anything down my cooch slit!!!
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When? When??? Since you tried to do that chargeback after our last session. You cum, you pay!! Them's the rules, Buddy!

Last time you swipe anything down my cooch slit!!!


That again!? Look, that was your fault. I said in the screening session that I wanted "ass to mouth", you claimed your dyslexia made you read "mouth to ass".

Bait and switch artist.



When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
CurlyFries
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That again!? Look, that was your fault. I said in the screening session that I wanted "ass to mouth", you claimed your dyslexia made you read "mouth to ass".

Bait and switch artist.


I said I was sorry. I thought you were confused. Who knew you really wanted me to take the strapon from your ass to your mouth?? Who knew???
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No,but I do find some kink in maybe being paid for a service. lol
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Yep that's how I lost My virginity. Girlfriend at the time didn't want the "responsibility" of being My first. So a visit to the local "massage parlor" took the burden off her shoulders.
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Nope. I am never that desperate.
Mazztastic
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No, I never have, but honestly, sometimes I can see the attraction, especially if he was good at his job...
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I have never paid for sex, nor do I think I could... Something just feels wrong about it...
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Hey, guys and gals, how many of u have tried paid sex? What is ur experience?

I've never did going in, but it seems I had been given tips on occasion.
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Yeah, I've tried it - about 50 times with 30 different women, over a six year period.

Initially it was just about sex. I had a pretty solitary lifestyle at the time, and not a lot of access to women. But increasingly, it became a misguided search for intimacy. Regardless, I was able to achieve some sort of connection about a dozen of those times, making for really incredible, rewarding experiences.

Another dozen or so goes at it were negative, and left me filled with self-loathing and regret. Everything from questionable hygene to accidently paying for one on the work credit card. Man, that took some explaining.

At the risk of whoring for my story (pun intended), Warning Order is based on actual events and should give you an insight into what it's like. Angelina's pretty much the standard experience, while Donna was a magnificent exception.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
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I did it many times, often with the same girl. The feelings went from ecstasy to caring about them to living with them. But in the end it was really about sex. As an adult I had never had enough sex so for me it filled a need. Being married never came close to doing that. In the end my marriage failed and I left all of these girls when I ran out of money. Not sorry I did it.
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Well as a way of trying something that you are not going to run into mainstream or fulfilling a fantasy - sure - why not? About the only way I have been able to cum up with to have an experience with a shemale or just some completely uncomplicated relief in a fantasy. Take your time, book at least two hours, go with workers with good reviews and decent histories. They have reputations to protect!

Avoid very young, inexperienced and those who are there because they are desperate.
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Hey, guys and gals, how many of u have tried paid sex? What is ur experience?


If things were that, I don't know, unsatisfying or incomplete in my life to where I'd have to go to a jigalo I'd just start drinking. Paying someone to touch me isn't appealing at all. No thanks.
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Nope. I am never that desperate.


It's not about desperation. It's entertainment sex. It's meeting up without pretenses, without games: you're there for sex. Simple, to the point, and you go home when it's done.
The Linebacker
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How much should I charge? Should I accept MasterCard or Visa or both?
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could go for that Buz ...lol

But I never had to before

They should pay me too ... yeah I'm that good


Maybe we should go into business Buz

WTF


BuzBat Sexy Incorporated. or BatBuz...maybe we should work on the company name. smile
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I have not. I feel bad for those that cannot make a living any other way or are financially trapped in that occupation.
Advanced Wordsmith
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I tried it once when I was single. It was more out of curiosity than anything else.
And I didn't enjoy it, don't get me wrong she was fine, there just wasn't any intimacy
And I couldn't do my favourite thing, which is to eat pussy.
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Nope, never paid for it. I doubt that I would.
Devil's Advocate
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Kick off with $500 an hour, Buzz, and see how you go from there. And yes to both on the credit cards. Don't forget AmEx - more points.

Definitely steer clear of getting into phone sex though. Damn web cams have killed the industry. Believe me.

But is it just me, or would Buzzbat be a great name for a vibrator? Now that's a business worth looking into.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
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There is a friend that is quite close to my wife and I, from college, that worked as an escort and stripper to pay for her education. She came from a very poor, broken family background. She has told us numerous stories about escorting and the wild stuff that happens. For awhile in college, a very wealthy business owner set her up in an apartment that he paid for, just to see her once or twice a week. Anyhow, with her financial proceeds, she not only graduated college but went to law school and she is now an attorney (barrister).


Good for her! I hope she didn't experience anything bad though during those times. smile
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I have not. I feel bad for those that cannot make a living any other way or are financially trapped in that occupation.


I feel the same way too. :/
Sometimes I feel like questioning God why this is happening.
Sometimes I stop myself from thinking too much though, makes me crazy and emphasizes my powerlessness to change life as it is.
Just do what we can do to help make this a better place (cliche as it may sound) and we're good.. I guess? ;/