I have only been in one threesome. And it was wonderful, so I would like to do it again with a hot couple. Everyone says join a Swing Club. But how do you find one that is classy, clean, safe and will accept a single girl like me who is there for one reason and only one reason.
Girls and Boys give me your thoughts and guidance.
Great thing called the internet. People talk and places advertise there. Search your local area for a club or group of people that share your interests. Someone will point you in the right direction. Your West Fantasy location on Lush isn't really helpful, or one of us might be able to make a good suggestion.
I've been in maybe half a dozen FMF threesomes, and none of them came about through a swing club. If you want to be a unicorn, I can't imagine having trouble finding a willing couple. They usually seek you out. Mine were just girlfriends who wanted me to join her and her boyfriend/husband.
While my wife was alive, I got to enjoy many FMF threesomes when she would bring a friend back to the house. Many times it started out innocently enough but with flirting and playing around, many times it ended up with the 3 of us in bed. Since she has passed away, I have still been able to enjoy the thrill of sharing me bed with two women and no swing clubs were involved. There are a lot of us that are open to those kinds of experiences, you just have enough confidence in yourself to do a bit of flirting and to be able to read the right signals. Better yet, be brazen enough to ask a friend in a relationship whether she has ever thought about it and find out what they think. Lightning does not strike those that express their feelings honestly.
I could not count the threesomes I have enjoyed, far too many. Then I have five others in our FWB group (3x3) so it is a regular pleasure. Mainly FMF. I have also had MFM quite often and it is then I encourage the two of them to become a little more adventurous with each other. They can now swallow each other without difficulty. If it was good enough for me then it had to be for them as well.
As for swinging, as a single girl with your escort experience - and figure - there should be no problems with them accepting you alone. The problem will be finding one that is not all old guys and one that has younger married couples.
The thought of a 3 some has been in the back of me and my wifes minds for some time and we are looking to make that happen.. I have been told there are some reputable sites out there where you can find safe clean fun.
Whilst not into swinging myself, but views from another forum of which I am a member of, is that in the UK, single girls are sometimes admitted. This is so that they can engage with an existing couple(s) . Your best bet is to direct your enquiry to the particular club to find out their policy on this.
You will find many internet sites for swingers and many couples looking for a single woman for a threesome. My advice is if you do contact or are contacted by someone, always make sure you speak to the female half of the couple. If you get any excuses about her not being available then end the conversation. If it is a genuine contact she will be available. There is one particular site we use and have made some very nice friends.
We also visit a swingers club and the first time before we attended we called before hand to speak to one of the owners. We explained that we were new to the scene and very nervous. When we first arrived she met us at the door and showed us around.
There are many reviews online about clubs so if there is one you may want to attend, read what other single women and couples say about it first.
I'am all for it sexy things.
