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Ok, thoughts, advice opinions or speak from experience. I recently had a message from someone who thinks they know me. From what they have said they might actually. They have more to lose than me being caught on here if its who I think.

So the question is, do I fess up and chat, tell them they must be wrong or ignore them.

Anyone had something similar? What did you do?
having deja post images right...now

didn't you post this before?
IF as you say, "they have more to lose..." don't worry about it. Let them worry IF they're so inclined.
Since they are obviously here for the same purpose, no problem, answer then and enjoy.
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What did their message say? Was it confrontational or friendly? What does their profile reveal? What do you stand to lose exactly? According to your profile, your husband knows your on here despite his disapproval. Apart from your avatar which is tasteful in my opinion (if it's really you), you don't have any inappropriate or nude pictures of yourself open for just anyone to see. You write some erotica, so what? The foundation of Lush's existence was to be a venue for both amateur and more experienced writers of erotica to read and share their stories That isn't a crime. The fact that this friend/acquaintance of yours is on here too should be insurance enough. I'm not sure what it is you think you're at risk losing.
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What did their message say? Was it confrontational or friendly? What does their profile reveal? What do you stand to lose exactly? According to your profile, your husband knows your on here despite his disapproval. Apart from your avatar which is tasteful in my opinion (if it's really you), you don't have any inappropriate or nude pictures of yourself open for just anyone to see. You write some erotica, so what? The foundation of Lush's existence was to be a venue for both amateur and more experienced writers of erotica to read and share their stories That isn't a crime. The fact that this friend/acquaintance of yours is on here too should be insurance enough. I'm not sure what it is you think you're at risk losing.


I don't KNOW, just guessing BUT, their are a LOT of extremely narrow minded people in this world and employers who can and will fire people for things most of us would see as ridiculous. Additionally, there are some positions where "propriety" even if it IS hypocritical is a necessity. (One company in my hometown would fire any employee who's paycheck was cashed in a bar!)
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I don't KNOW, just guessing BUT, their are a LOT of extremely narrow minded people in this world and employers who can and will fire people for things most of us would see as ridiculous. Additionally, there are some positions where "propriety" even if it IS hypocritical is a necessity. (One company in my hometown would fire any employee who's paycheck was cashed in a bar!)


Fair enough. If that is the case, then hannahjane may have some rethinking to do regarding her profile. If she really has that much to lose, I suggest she NOT bother responding either way to this person (what's the point?) and amend her profile straight away. If that means she should seriously think about renaming her account or better yet, delete her existing account and start again, that's what she must do if she has so much at risk by being identified. Hopefully taking this kind of action will shake this shit disturber off her tail.