Unfortunately I've yet to experience the joy of a balls deep blowjob.
Do you guys/girls think this is something a person can either do or not do, or is it a skill that can be learnt by everyone?
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It's a skill that a girl has to want to enjoy to become good at it. The gag reflex is almost universal, so you have to want to overcome it to be good at deep-throating. Unfortunately, many women just give up when the gag-reflex kicks in. It IS unpleasant, but CAN be overcome with practice.
Let me be the judge of that. ;=)
I saw a friend take a long neck beer bottle , a full bottle, tip it up and swallow most of it and in a few seconds pulled it out and the bottle was empty. I was floored, excited and had a different kind of respect for her after that. I thought she was a good girl before that...
I've had it done to me once and it's amazing
It took a while to overcome the gagging. So I would say, for me, it was a learned skill. A non deep throat blow job was more of a natural ability. I also had an orgasm while giving my first blow job when he shot into my mouth. This still happens to this day and like the first time, no other stimulation is needed other than his cock in my mouth and him getting off while I continue the blow job until he is finished.
Brandie
I have tried many times but I gag every time.
I would say it is a skill one must persevere with and learn.
My guys have a good spurt so I get it on the back of the throat often and I seem to be able to handle that without gagging.
It's a hard learn skill for sure.
All those years ago I did have a gag issue also. However, I guess it was minimal in comparison to others. But with proper guidance and practice it has mastered for the skill for deep throat pleasure. I must have learned well since I have many guys who want just one more time in addition and then one more. You get the idea.
I am sure there is a lot of woman out there that suck a mans cock for her own pleasure. Well at least NOLA and I do.
I actually don't have much of a gag reflex and enjoyed showing it off growing up by swallowing banana's. These days I like using what I've learned on giving blow jobs..
I'd say based on my experience a rare skill
Being born with no gag reflex is a gift, learning how to use it is a skill
One has to learn to deal with the gag reflex. But, for some folks thats easier than others. I've had partners struggle with it. Also helps it your skull, jaw, and throat are larger. I've had a couple wives or gf ask me specifically to DT their man because their smaller jaw & throat could not accommodate his penis.
it was hardly a natural act for me, it's become a skill i'm proud of having and sharing
If anybody needs to practice. I can be the test subject
I think it comes more naturally for some then others,however that being said I think it requires practice.
For me, it was a learned skill although it was easy to do. Once in a while no matter what I do, I'm unable to deepthroat someone but try the same cock a little later with no problem. I also usually cum while giving a blowjob without any stimulation other than giving the blowjob.
I have a smaller cock than most. That might help those of you who are trying to learn. Start slow!
It is a skill that I have halfway developed, but it is not one of my favorite sex acts
I have been giving oral for more years than most of you have been alive and I can say I have do not have the natural ability to deep throat nor have I learned to do it. In fact I never heard the term until the movie "Deep Throat" was released.
Guess could be both. However, with me. Wife challenged me. Took a lot of patience and time. At least a month or so of practice almost daily. Finally my Wife was able to deep throat me when laying on back head hung over side. Being I like suckin dick it's was a big accomplishment. Learned so much. example, want a deep throat cum deposit must be able to hold w/o gagging for 30-45 seconds. It takes a lot of trust cause one can suffocate. the pops in back of throat feel weird but no pain. When pops know you're in throat.