If you're both ready to be parents, go ahead! If you're not ready to be one and accept all those responsibilities then you're going to create a child that society has to deal with. You're essentially playing Russian-roulette with a child's life.
I don't think the possibility of doing that is worth it.
When we were ready it's was as good as it ever gets. The excitement levels went sky high.
I agree that the idea of cumming inside a girl a potentially impregnating her is very hot. However, the time after that is not. I've cum inside girls I knew I wouldn't see again without any regard of what protection she is on anc felt guilty after.
My girlfriend has also ran the risk of being cummed inside when either not taken ghe pill properly or wasn't on it at all, and she would agree that at the time it was insanely hot but the stress of it after is unbearable.
Nope, that's a no go for me. It's not worth almost bringing a child into the world on a whim.
For me my first time was extremely hot. I was not on birth control, I wanted him to ejaculate inside of me, and I new I was in my fertile time. It was an extreme thrill, and I did get pregnant.
I'm sniped, tied and soldered and just took a 10 year test - all blanks. But... 25+ years ago... college GF... I used condoms with her most every time but we both didn't like it... she had a bad reaction to the pill so there were more than a few times we did it without a condom - one time resulted in her getting pregnant... should have, could have, would have... was not worth it... after that she got on a different pill that didn't give her a reaction... I understand why people prefer it - but it's not worth the risk in my humble opinion.
It probably would have been a turn on when I was younger but now the thought makes me cringe. I have too may vivid memories of changing diapers at two in the morning.
This is just another reason to love older women.
Always better safe then sorry
No problem with me as I have been snipped
I grew up in IRELAND in the 70s-80s where, (Because of the NAZI Catholic church) ALL CONTRACEPTION WAS ILLEGAL... (EVERY MONTH I SWEATED IT... I mean, I practised WITHDRAWAL, but, TEENAGERS Are Not Very Good At That... ... )
Once a month, I would ask, "You okay?" She'd say, "Yes, FINE!" (I'd think, "OH SHIT!!!!! DON'T BE FINE...... BLEED!")
I remember, everytime she was LATE, ALL YOU WOULD SEE were women pushing prams, ADS on TV for baby stuff, BABIES BABIES BABIES!!!!!!!
HYSTERICALLY, (I've never had kids) YEARS LATER I went for a test... I SHOOT BLANKS! (For Fuck Sake!) All THat Worry!
xx SF
love - always cum inside a woman
why would anyone really take a risk of unwanted pregnancy.
Just playing russian roulwttw because the parents to be have been irresponsible
by all means not birth control if serious about a kid otherwise dont risk it
only my thoughts
Looking at it from another end of the spectrum - as a parent of a troublesome teenager I can safely say that I am never, ever getting a woman pregnant again. And that's a teenager that we wanted. I love the one that I have but one is definitely enough for me. If he'd been an accident, my feelings would likely even more ambiguous.
So, take it from one who has been there and done that ... sexy or not, knocking up a woman is going to change your life and you only want that if you are ready for it and trying for it.
Now, personally, I don't currently get off on impregnation, even as a fantasy, though I'll concede it was a bit of a fantasy when I was young and foolish. I recall having erotic fantasies about girls I was in lust with that led into becoming parents together. Somehow, though, diapers, diseases, day cares, and trying to get obstinate teenagers to focus on school instead of computer games didn't enter into those fantasies.
I had the snip 30 years ago so yes I love to cum inside a woman.
I have been on Birth Control since I was 14 and now due to some other health issues may OB/GYN took me of the pill about a year ago. She says at my age the probability of me conceiving on the pill or off it is about the same.
So when I am with a guy that is new I tell just before he is ready to penetrate me. Well I have had some of the best sex every recently and they do seem to act as if they can not get enough of me.
It makes me feel much more womanly and so excited at times I can hardly stand it.
I have no prostate so there is no semen or mess for that matter
To boldly Lush where no one has Lushed before
I had the snip done years ago so am a jaffa.... no problem, but if I hadnt then sorry a it goes in covered, why take the risk.
Men are just as responsible for birth control as a woman is. Wear a condom. Not doing so is just irresponsible and stupid and there is no excuse good enough to ruin lives just for a few minutes of pleasure. Trust me, growing up knowing your parents never really wanted you sucks.
I always cum in a woman and take my chances of get her pregnant
got snipped 20 years ago i love to feel the puss milk my cock dry
It's like playing with a loaded gun, aiming it at yourself and pulling the trigger, who would do that
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Even if she's on the pill I'll be wearing a condom. It's my part of a shared responsibility.
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It seems to me that many people on this thread aren't distinguishing between the fantasy of it, and the reality of it.
I positively love the fantasy of it...the idea of it, the sense of danger and risk, the heightened stimulation, the intense intimacy that the idea provokes.
But that's alot different from actually doing it.
I think it's very possible to enjoy the idea of it without doing it. At least that's where I am.
I'm not judging, but I've never really understood why unprotected sex is a turn on. Personally, I would be freaking out the entire time and wouldn't be able to enjoy it. Is it about control or lack of control? Is it the riskiness of it?
She's a saint with the lips of a sinner.
- r.m. drake