Do you have a count of how many sex partners you've had? For purposes of this discussion, define "sex" as "an activity between two or more fully-informed, competent, consenting adults, intended to produce at least one orgasm, conducted in person with another individual." If you feel the need to split hairs or get clever with definitions, go ahead, but do please explain as well.
I started a list several years ago. It's not in chronological order because I don't remember my life that tidily (I wish I did). I still find myself sometimes going "oh, I forgot so-and-so," but that's getting rarer. As of today, I'm at 61, which is slightly more than my 56 years.
It would be 60 plus perhaps a few that I may have forgotten over the years.
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Fairly easy for me since I have not had many. Officially and publicly, one woman. Unofficially and strictly for Lush ears only, about 8 women and 3 men.
I haven't had a high number of partners either, but it would be a mental effort to keep count of them. I just don't think about my partners like that. Anyway, I've been faithfully married to the same woman for the past 10 years or so. As far as I'm concerned she'll be the final one.
I honestly stopped counting after 6-7 girls, mainly because in those early sexual days almost half of these experiences turned out to be pretty damn awkward/pathetic and I simply wished to completely obliterate them from my consciousness anyway, haha. I might be exaggerating a little, but the younger me was still finding it rather hard/futile to pride myself over my 'number' when there hardly was anything to brag about for a great proportion of these experiences.
I've always found this 'number' pretty meaningless that way, both for me and my partners. My girlfriend is in fact a great example of just how meaningless that 'number' can be. She has a relatively low 'number', but that's largely because her proper relationships happened to last quite a few years and because during her short periods of celibacy she mostly preferred having her pussy eaten by her roommate (which is also her longtime bestie, which we also had a few threesomes with). So yeah, her own 'number' really isn't any representative of her sluttiness or her ability to attract guys (quite the contrary), and I've met plenty of other girls whose 'number' was just as misleading (for a variety of reasons).
I can still guesstimate my 'number' today, but I've never felt like purposefully recalling every of my past partners or making a list just to reach an exact count.
When I was in the Marines, I was stationed in the Philippines for about 20 months. Sex was immediately available. I kept count for over a year. I lost track after I hit 100. That's not counting the "home" gals I've been with.
Up until 5 years ago it was only 3 women, now I am at 23. I have never asked my wife about before we met but she is roughly on the same number as me in the last 5 years.
