It depends on the other person and how they handle 'new things' - etc.
My husband, for example, flipped out when I told him I masturbate - like seriously flipped the HELL out. [So anything that I think about when I'm alone is off the table - tit torture and all else is staying firmly locked up]. I genuinely thought it would ease his worries about our sex life (since he has a little less interest than he used to) and maybe even find it a turn on - NOPE. Way wrong. Started a fight so intense and long lasting we almost divorced and I've actually found myself fantasizing about him LESS cause - well - he apparently doesn't appreciate that at all.
He also finds the idea of me and other women to be a total disgusting turn off. [So I'm not telling him about any of my fantasies that plant him or me with other women - especially since those scenarios are major 'wtf' type situations that I would honestly want him to engage in in real life]
So clearly he's closed-minded when it comes to me and my sexuality and sexual interests.
And that major difference between the two of us rests on what FANTASY means.
Fantasy for me (and most women) = hot things we like to think about while getting off / having sex. Does NOT mean we want to ENGAGE in it in real life.
Fantasy for him (and most guys) = hot things he likes to think about and DOES want to do in real life. Why bother entertaining a FANTASY if there isn't a desire for it to come true?
Mostly - we're just wired different. Since I'm sexually open minded i have to be very cautious.
I cant judge you for your sexual exploits outside the vows of your marriage. We live an open marriage life style. However we are honest and communicate with each other. Share your fantasies with her. Cheating usually ends up badly.
we all have to do what we feel is right. I too feel we are wired differently. i view fantasy as a scenario that turns you on but in reality won't ever happen. my wife and i have COMPLETELY different fantasies. Hers are more about loving romantic situations While mine are more sexually graphic so to speak.
I think so yes. If I felt that their fantasy was something gross and disgusting.
There are always limitations... so Yes, that is possible
I always think that it's best to be open about fantasies as I believe secrets can erode a relationship. Fortunately my wife and I have very similar fantasies and talking about them led to a more exciting relationship as we discovered ways of acting some of them out, including involving others.
yes. if it were something extremely , it could possibly affect how i felt about them.
If its something that's legal and doesn't involve body fluids other than cum, I'm fine with it. It's fantasy.
I'm open-minded and quite accepting of most things but as a few have already said, if it was something that freaked me out, then absolutely!
I also am open minded but I too have limits and I wouldn't participate in things such as anal (long story in regards to that), scat or the like.
For me, fantasy doesn't deliver unless it's something that is actually within the realm of possibility. I can never fantasize about sex with celebrities, for instance, because it's not something that could ever realistically happen to me. So usually, at some point, I will try to make a fantasy actually happen, because I'm very curious about new experiences. Consequently, I have tried an awful lot of things most people only dream about, and when I discover it's not really my 'thing', I rarely do it again - gang-bang, for example. Once was enough. I don't need to do another one, but I had to try it at least once.
So, when my boyfriend suggested we try swinging ten years ago, I was game, and for the next two and a half years, we partner-swapped with a number of hot couples, and we both enjoyed it. My twin sister's husband found out we were doing it, and he asked my sister to try it too, and she blew a gasket and kicked him clear into next week! So my brother-in-law learned not to ask her to try any of his fantasies, and I suspect he is off doing them on his own behind her back. I know first-hand that he has cheated on her at least once.
Couples face a big dilemma when their sexual curiosities don't match up. They either wind up divorced, or one or the other of them remains quietly frustrated sexually, and either satisfy themselves as best they can within their secret fantasies, or they go out on their own, and cheat. Our experiment in swinging gradually evolved into me becoming a 'hotwife', and although I've tried a few things with my other-lovers that my boyfriend would not be interested in trying, he never tries to stop me from experimenting. The funny thing is that after all the kinky things I've dabbled in, I've discovered I'm really pretty vanilla in my sexual preferences, and I'm running out of things I haven't already tried.
if she told me her fantasy was eating out Hillary Clinton I think I'd be turned off
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
Fantasies are fine, but the thing is, unless it's a shared fantasy, it's really selfish to expect the other person to fulfill it for you.
I dated a girl once who was into being dominated. I tried to humour her, calling her 'slut' and 'bitch' during sex, but that really isn't in my character. It wasn't a turn-on for me, and since I wasn't authentically into it, it wasn't really enjoyable for her either.
Don't believe everything that you read.
Depends on the fantasy. I'm very kinky. There are certain things I'm into though.
BDSM turns me off, if they persist then yes.....
(Runs and hides) 
