im glad it is what it is now......i had taken some time off as i had my kids for...6 weeks or so this summer...i guess this invisible thing was just a trial...i have some dear friends that i know are always invisible...therefore if i want to see if they are on i just check the list in the rooms and i can always find them....i also use the invisible feature when im not in the mood for the seemingly pointless drama that some friends want me to know all about as soon as they see i have logged on....if i enter a chat room i willingly surrender the privilege to be invisible...cyber on bruthas an sisstas!!