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I like to cyber. I usually start it off though by doing a little research to find out any likes or dislikes, start with a little teasing and flirting. And proper grammar is a must for me, I can't stand trying to decipher ebonics XD But yeah, I'll cyber just about anything, I'm always open to new things. So, I do really enjoy to cyber ^_^
Have done it but would rather have the real thing. But it can be fun, no reason to be close to the person, just have a physical attraction.
I think cybering has the potential to be a lot of fun. I agree that you should really ask likes and dislikes before you start. It's not good when you're getting really into it when you find out the other person has some hilarious fetish that makes you laugh too hard to finishsmile

I've tried it a few times and really only one of those chats was worthwhile
I would have to say I like to cyber for fun, keeping it between strangers. If the one I'm cybering with is enjoy it as much as me, I guess you can become close. This would have to be agreed by both, and nothing wrong with only having a cyber friend just to have pleasure for each other.
i've done it. its lame. i don't do it anymore. i'd rather read a story by myself
I like to cam with the lady who makes my heart skip!! A form of cybering I guess!
I love cyber. I have a couple of regulars. And I agree with all those who don't like being close to those they engage in cybersex with.. Its all just an act for me.

Nothing beats the real things though ;)
I really doubt you'd find anyone - be they male or female - more sexually aware than myself. I love sex and everything about it.

But ... for the life of me ... I cannot find anything erotic or sexually stimulating about 'cyber sex'. Yes, we all have pent up sexual desires which need satisfaction and relief from time to time but the two dimensional world of cyber is about as rewarding as a cold shower on a winters day here in England. Think I could gain more sexual gratification from watching a piston going up and down in the cylinders of a car engine.
I like to cyber, but not everyone is good at it, so even if I start one with some random person we mite not finish because they suck lol. If they are good at it then I usually go back to them for more later, but I try not to get too attached to just the cybering. It's all for fun.
i did like to cyber but the risk emotionally is higher than one might think. someone CAN get hurt... so i have become more picky and have some "evaluations" that i run ahead of time... but there can be surprises..., lol
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I don't cyber, it does nothing for me TBH


Same, im quite happy to chat but i actually prefer simple pm's. A like a flirt and have a little naughty talk, but actual cyber "sex" im not into and have never done. I think i would find it either a little awkward, or a little boring.....or both
I have tried it and love it...I get really turned on to chat that way with naughty women. Its hot.
I used to think cybering would be fun. After trying it a few times, it was found to be mundane at best... a poor substitute for the real thing.

That being said, I do have a few good friends that a regular conversation might head that direction, but it never starts out that way.
Cupcake, I have cyberd with a few "close" friends after sufficient getting to know time--foreplay, if you will, and enjoyed.

Also, have tried it with a few gals who have opened a window and initiated cyber without first getting to know me and didn't enjoy that. Cybering, for me, has to be much like real life intimacy to be enjoyable.
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The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
Cant say I have cybered, I dont like to be pushy or to demanding, I have sext with a good friend, but never cybered, wouldnt mind trying it out once
holy crap... i'll apologize upfront for this, but i have SUCH a fucking rant about this!!!

LADIES: don't be so damn needy!


yes, i get it - the guys on here can/are pushy, creepy, never get a hint, and just all around terrible to you...

...but sometimes y'all are JUST as bad! especially when it comes to THIS!


NOT EVERYONE LIKES TO/WANTS TO/ IS INTO CYBERING!



i'm here for MY own fun & games - not to entertain your lonely, bored self with all sorts of typed sweetness, hottness, or whatever the fuck you're looking for. selfish? you bet your ass! it's MY account, my profile, my time, my escape, my time to RELAX.


...and you know what REALLY sucks about the whole dynamic..?..!..

if a guy doesn't "step-up to the plate", YOU either:

A) think he's less of a man for not being able to "cyber good" (REALLY?!?!)...

B) think he's just immature and SO beneath your ever-so-intellectual stimulation of the written, and finely composed word instead of simple pictures...

- or -

C) you go into some self depreciating little whiney bit about how "oh, i'm just not attractive enough? am i boring you?"



have i done it? absolutely! it's fun. it's challenging. it definitely piques the imagination. i never SET-OUT to though. if a chat tends to develop into some shared sex session, cool.

i HATE when some woman just hits me up and IMMEDIATELY starts with that shit. then, when i'm just being nice, conversational, or whatever - she slams me down for being a "kid", "mean", or she goes into a fucking pity party.

worst line: "Hey, i'm bored & horny"

WELL NO SHIT! aren't we all?!?! why do you think i'm on a sex-based site?!?!

it's just frustrating as hell. i am generally a tolerant guy. casual. fun. nice. i just COMPLETELY resent being put down, or made fun of, or EXPECTED to apologize for "not being interested".

yes, 99% of the time i'm on here, my cock is in my hand. true story. that doesn't mean i'm just waiting for someone to tell all about it though!

moral of the story?

be cool & casual. do what ya wanna, but RESPECT and don't take anything personal if someone doesn't follow right along with you.


whew!

sorry... i totally feel better now.

...ssssssooo...
whattaya wearin'..?.. hmmm...?..

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yes, 99% of the time i'm on here, my cock is in my hand. true story. that doesn't mean i'm just waiting for someone to tell all about it though!


.......I'm never speaking to you again
i was kidding!
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i was kidding!


he says typing with his left hand
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i was kidding!


he says typing with his left hand


i Am bnot tyoing with myt lefty hand1!
I will cyber with someone after getting to know them better. It's more fun personally to kind of know the person a little before getting into that kind of thing. Plus by that point, hopefully that person already knows what you're into, what you're not into, what's okay and not...

Nice little diatribe there TexasSon! Honesty is always appreciated, however I am appreciating that gif quite a bit more!!
"I find that a duck's opinion of me is largely influenced by whether or not I have bread". - Mitch Hedberg
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i was kidding!


he says typing with his left hand


i Am bnot tyoing with myt lefty hand1!


Who's got the sick bucket people?

Edit: at some point when my brain is functioning better I will post a proper reply to this....promises.
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i was kidding!


he says typing with his left hand


i Am bnot tyoing with myt lefty hand1!


here's his proof ... he sent me this pic one time while chatting ....



ha.

ha.

...aren't YOU the clever girl..?..
What's cyber?
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What's cyber?


I think it might be when you type naughty things on the 'puter and your pants jump up in your special place!
But I'm just guessing.
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What's cyber?


I think it might be when you type naughty things on the 'puter and your pants jump up in your special place!
But I'm just guessing.



Ha ha!!!
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What's cyber?


I think it might be when you type naughty things on the 'puter and your pants jump up in your special place!
But I'm just guessing.


And that sort of stuff goes on here? Why did no one tell me!

Learn something new every day
Warning: The opinions above are those of an anonymous individual on the internet. They are opinions, unless they're facts. They may be ill-informed, out of touch with reality or just plain stupid. They may contain traces of irony. If reading these opinions causes you to be become outraged or you start displaying the symptoms of outrage, stop reading them immediately. If symptoms persist, consult a psychiatrist.

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NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber
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What's cyber?


I think it might be when you type naughty things on the 'puter and your pants jump up in your special place!
But I'm just guessing.


And that sort of stuff goes on here? Why did no one tell me!

Learn something new every day


You're too pure.
Wouldn't want you to be traumatised.
this cyber fun that you're all talking about, is this with or without cam? With cam would work for me, but cannot see how to do thro this site. Can it be done? I have been lucky once on , that was so hot. Would love to get lucky again.