If you want to be I suppose you are.
Mostly dominant, with definite sadistic tenancies. I enjoy cbt, impact play and orgasm denial. Sex doesn't have to be the end goal. I even sissified my husband within a month of us meeting back when we were 18. I'm a switch for fisting though, and initially was introduced to BDSM submissively.
I recently realised thatI I am a pleasure dom, care dom, soft dom, which all mean the same thing, afaik. Not BDSM porn dom - more like what is encountered in real life. More caring, gentle, no pain, no degradation, etc
The best definition i have seen is given here: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/latest-1/what-its-like-to-have-sex-with-a-pleasure-dom
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