Top and I think the name says it all.
By the way I think that imitation is the greatest form of flattery. I like your tag line findingnichole.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. Both. I generally prefer to start on the bottom and then roll onto top.
I guess I'm a switch. I'm a bottom 90% of the time, but when my partner is in the mood to hand me the reins, I make one nasty top.
More Bottom than Switch ~
I'm not much for labels, but essentially "Top" I suppose.
Bottom. Couldn't dominate, it would be WAY off kilter.
For most of my life I have been a sub. However, for a while now a lady who has dommed me for some years wanted to switch. I agreed, tentatively at first, and did not expect my delight in spanking her to last. However, it ha,s and now I really do go at it. Her bottom is beautifully red when I am finished.
She always has me spank her first, and in a way I find that exciting because I know the harder I spank her the harder she will deal with me. To be fair, she only likes to be hand spanked, whilst she gets to use her hand as well as paddles floggers and the cane on me.
Anyway, the point is I now understand how you can switch and enjoy both.
As with P.M. the name pretty much explains the position. On Top. Always.
I am not really an aggressor... but I am not a natural sub either. You have to be someone I value and trust for me to willingly submit. I do like a challenge in bed though ;)
bottom usually but sometimes when I have wrists cuffed behind me, some partners enjoy making me ride them.
total bottom and enjoy my position
Switch but sometimes I really like bottom...
MsTara mmmmmmmmmm 
i enjoy bottom mostly love to penetrate my lover deeply and look into there eyes
Switch,would enjoy playing around with some mild bondage as a sub tho.
Thoroughly submissive pleaser in the bedroom, but an independent smartass outside of it. I could never be a lifestyler. I like to challenge and seek to be impressed or bested. It has to be someone I admire for me to really give over. I couldn't suppress that to be "owned" 24/7. I want him to see the change and know what he' s won.
Is there a word for that? I don't know.
If I had to label myself I would definitely be a bottom...I need a strong man to be in total control.
I am a bottom. And enjoy it all
I'm a bottom and very submissive but I was seriously abused by my last Dom to the point that I was in intensive care for two weeks. I now have trust issues which prevents me being a good sub and participating in scenes in a manner that is expected of me because my sense of self preservation kicks in. I crave the intense scenes and the discipline it takes to complete them but my near death experience has made me unable to do the more intense scenes that I enjoy so much.
I am a sub ...I could never be a dom, it would feel so off and unnatural for me to even try being dom
I am a sub ...I could never be a dom, it would feel so off and unnatural for me to even try being dom
Bottom but I switch on occasion :P Depends on the play :P
