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How do YOU define submissive?

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That is too damn FUNNY! And YES, I guess you would!
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Quote by Liz
If your Dom makes you bark like a dog, does that make you a subwoofer?


Hahahahaha! Brilliant.
I wrote about a subwoofer, if you are interested. Unfortunately, there is no barking involved.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/03mins-43secs-1.aspx

As to the question, 'submissive' has a definition, Google it.
As to personal choices and limits, the possibilities are near limitless.
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Thank you for creating this topic. I am very confused about this. Recently discovered sexual interest in other women. Introduced to roleplay by online acquaintance. Imagine my shock to find that I have submissive urges.
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For me, the real art of being submissive involves submitting, in front of or with someone else, to your own desires. It's less about truly submitting to the other's desires and needs ( tho that is important) than about fully revealing your own - and allowing someone else to ram around in your head, exploring those 'rooms' even you are scared to go into. Revealing yourself. Completely. Hopefully to someone who handles the information properly.
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In my BDSM world, a female that has turned total control of her sex life over to me. The only exception is with their husbands. I have several that call me master. They have willingly become my sex slave because it is a huge turn on for them and their husbands. NO ONE WAS FORCED TO BECOME A SEX SLAVE OR TO DO ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF WHAT THEY HAVE AGREED TO DO.

They are all collared and are required to wear them when involved in a scene or assignment, or when not in public unless they desire to. When out in public they wear a chocked or a ribbon tied snugly around their neck with a medallion on it as a sign of being my submissive. They also have accepted my mark either tattooed or branded where their bush would be if allowed to wear one. They are all required to be hairless except for the hair on their heads and their eyebrows. This was all done in a ceremony similar to a wedding.

Every thing is legal and there is not any prostitution involved. This is not a form of domestic violence. They have safe words that are respected by me and whom ever they are assigned to. This is all done because they want it that way and their husbands are well aware of her submissive roll. Sometimes the husbands are present and participating especially when a gang bang is the assignment. With in an established set of limits I control their entire sex life, except with their husbands. I give them assignment as to who to have sex with, when, where, and how to dress. For some they want multiple assignments a week. Some want just one or two a week. Some want only one or two a month.

Outside of the BDSM lifestyle the submissive is a spouse or partner that allows the other spouse or partner to make all the decisions and they follow. It may or may not be sexual.

Nawty