What I have noticed in stories here though is the kinds of commands and language used. I realise that there is a lot of power exchange going on, but in my encounters it was more in the action than the language. Some of the language used is kind in these stories can only be described as very degrading, is that the intent? There's clearly consent (rather a lot of consent!) so what's with the derogatory language?
It's always been something that's puzzled me - like I say it's at odds with the experiences I've had.
What do other people think? The reason I ask is I'm thinking of writing up my experiences as the basis for some future stories, I guess I'd like to know what is the realistic norm? Where my experiences somewhat unusual - I'm looking to get some authenticity in my tales.
Thanks for your time.
*** Just to add, I've done a bit of reading up, so there's SSC and RACK apparently and reading this back I look a total novice - I am
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