hey everyone! I've been into this lifestyle for almost two years now.
I've never considered the lifestyle before. However I have a lady friend for about 6 weeks now who thoroughly enjoys our chats much more when I tell her what to do. Her enthusiastic responses gives me a sense of power over her that we both relish. Does that make me in the lifestyle?
Hi,
In person, I'm neither, but online I like being a dom. On and off for a couple of years.
At the moment, I have an online sub who is loyal and aims to please me.
One thing that we like to do is for me to find a guy online to cyber with her while I observe. Then afterwords, I'll call her and have her cum for me.
So far, so good. She enjoys it and so do I. We're always looking for some straight guys out there to help out.
Jenny here. I like to be bound and treated roughly during sex, much more then my husband will do. I like to be controlled and even treated nasty while I play on line. BUT, I do have a real life, responsibilities, and things that I simply will not do, which has made it extremely difficult to find anyone to have any kind of ongoing relationship or fun with. So, I am not actually 'in the lifestyle', just wish I was. I AM submissive but do have my rules that need to be followed just as much as a Dominant one does. So in conclusion, I fear that I am the 'hopeless case' no one wants to talk about.
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
Hello everyone. I am a complete newbie in need of full training. Lately I have found myself fantasising about humiliation.
Hey all, I am Tyler and I love light BDSM, especially light spanking.
Hi, I'm John.
I'm not in the lifestyle, but have a curiosity that won't go away. I was briefly introduced as an online experiment with a friend.
I was very surprised by my reaction to being a sub... I found it to be powerfully erotic. In talking to a few friends, I have switch tendancies as I like to control and be controlled depending on mood. The idea of my being a sub is strange to me, because I've always been a hghly competitive person and usually question authority. The idea of me being a dom is just as odd, since I respect my lover and love pleasing her... I will not hurt or humiliate.
I've experimented with blindfold play which I found to be very sensual. I'm not into pain or humiliation, but would be willing to try about anything else.
Most people know me i have been in the lifestyle for 47 yrs
It took me a long time to realise that I'm a sub (I really don't know how it took so long), so I'm still new to the whole thing. I think what attracted me most was the need to be owned, to know that I am serving them, pleasing them and my pleasure is for them.
Master here with a decent amount of experience, though very little of it online. Open to possibilities if the perfect girl fell into my lap (see my profile), but wouldn't be interested in online-only. Anyway, I'm interested in checking out this site and the community... looking forward to it.
I'm a sub and I have had a Master since the start of the year. I love Him so very much and He takes it gentle with me and introduces new things to slowly for me to get used to them. My relationship is irl and is a 24/7 one.
My wife and I have had a DD (Domestic Discipline) relationship for about 5 years, but I've been into spanking my partners virtually my entire adult life.
Hello,
I am very new to BDSM. I believe I am a sub. I say this because I have dom tendencies. I am looking for a mistress to teach and guide me. I will appreciate any advice.
Looking forward to meeting others like me.
I am a Master and have been for 15 years. I love this lifestyle, because of the freedom and the passion that is a part of it daily. I currently have one slave and she is incredible and a member here at Lush *waves to SlavePrincess*. Feel free to talk to me if you are new and learning as I want to see everyone enjoy this lifestyle and in a safe way.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. I'm MissFetching, I'm a sub, my relationship started a bit oddly a few months ago. Was with Master, who had been a friend for several years, and we started spending more time together, he figured me out pretty quickly, and has been testing my limits, which I love. Unfortunately we don't get to see each more than a few times a month as we live a couple hours apart and have busy schedules. I'm hoping that it can be more fulltime at some point. I do whatever he tells me to, but that doesn't includes things like school, work or time with friends, but does extend beyond the bedroom. :]
We are a D/s M/f lifestyle couple. Been together now almost 3 years. Our interests range from vanilla to the more . We are opened minded and not only learn to love new kinds and ways to pleasure each other but also to teach others what we know. We play together with females and couples who share our interests and we feel we have some sort of connection. We are also nudists.
Master Bud does 99.9% of the chatting online because I work from home in a virtual environment. lee is not much of a chatter. Feel free private message us with any questions you have about us or our lifestyle.
Hello all. I am Amanda. I have been told that I must post after having inserted my newly purchased anal plug. While I gave had anal sex several times the sensation of the plug is a bit different. I am a bit new to taking orders other than the "suck my dick" or "spread your legs". Looking to explore my sub side and bdsm in a bit more depth. I hope to learn and explore more while in Lush.
Amanda
I'm Merillee, and yes that's me in the picture. I'm a bit sassy, and smartazz!! Love to have fun! I am single. And if you check out my profile it will tell you everything about me. :-D any other questions just email me! Have a great day!! Love you all!!
I have no actual experience a a sub, but many fantasies of serving a domme that I want to explore further.
hello everyone .I'm new to lush .I have been reading stories for awhile before I joined .I wish I would have joined earlier.I have ben in lifestyle for many yrs .I choose not to put it on my profile just for converstation.I can be an asshole .just my nature and traing from being a Marine .I have no problem standing for alot .there are 2 things I will not talk about here 1st is plotics,because I know I will offend you 22nd religion again my business,but I will say I'm not a hypocrite so we'll leave it at that .we had a saying in the corps .Marine best friend or worst enemy . respect me and you will also be respected. I have met a few people and we are getting to know each other.I'm having fun talking to these people and once you are considered a friend I will be protective and if I have a sub or slave I ask that you repect that and them .
Being extremely old, I remember before there was a "lifestyle" to be in LOL...BUT I do remember some highlights, so to speak, of BDSM culture.
...Late 1950s, the first Bettie Page photos in "men's magazines" black and white!
...Late 1950s-early 1960s, beatnik girls dressed in black who confessed their masochistic needs
...Mid-1960s, the first time I saw a coiled whip in a briefcase
...Early 1970s, the first time bondage became "personal"
...Mid-1970s, the introduction of "sex toys" into relationships
Stuff like that...
Liberal in most beliefs, open to new ideas and thoughts, compassion to the people who need it most! Intelligence is foremost to expressing ideas and visions both right and left. Let's talk no one has all the answers, the best road is wide and has room for us all!
i think i like this bdsm stuff,i think i want to own my woman that way,i love to see her writh with pleasure,while i tug her hair when i fuck her doggy,i dont want to give pain,i think it has to turn her on,or else i dont see a point in this.
Hi Y'all,
I'm Chad (Feverman) and I am new to the site. I've been busy putting up a backlog of stories I have written over the last three years for the Lush community. Your response has been so amazingly kind and accepting. Thanks for the encouragement and the many wonderful personal messages. I'm loving the site and the people here have been so nice.
Hugs and kisses to the Lush ladies... handshakes and man-hugs to the Gentlemen here. Don't hesitate to be in touch. I don't bite unless it seems appropriate... wink.
Chad
Guess i've always been dom at heart but only been domming for the past few years.
i hope one day it will be fulltime real life tho .. but for now thats just a dream. well if you want to know more just say hi to me some time in the chat, im ussually in the basement :3 ty for listening. 
