Come introduce yourself and tell us a lil about you.

23 May 2013

Quote by pernellkim
Hello I'm Kim and absolutely love to be dominated by an agressive woman, just haven't met the one to make me submit to her yet. I did once when I was younger but she left when I reached 18. I was lost for a long time.

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One's submission should be given, given freely and without pressure. Its a gift you give your Master or Mistress. Your submission should never be forced or you be 'made' to submit. If this is your view, please, I urge you to read up on the subject before you get yourself into some serious trouble.

24 May 2013

Please everyone be mindful/careful who you trust HERE. Ask lots of questions & even ask the more seasoned members. There is certainly a fraud in our midst!

25 May 2013

Quote by SeaSiren
Please everyone be mindful/careful who you trust HERE. Ask lots of questions & even ask the more seasoned members. There is certainly a fraud in our midst!

Very true!!! As in R/L there is always the chance that what you are told and shown isn't true. Trust in your instincts and if things do not add up the start asking questions. Even if you aren't a submissive and in the lifestyle always ask. There is no harm in asking trust your instincts if the answer doesn't add up and remember only you can decide in the end how to proceed.

On line is so much easier to be who one wishes to be but doesn't necessarily make it true. One can be defined by their actions, anybody can claim a status and such but judging by their actions may or may not be true.

Being a submissive does not equal door mat you have a say you have a mouth use it and a Dominate One should be always willing to guide and teach, but to say "Cause i say so" isn't an answer when they should be guiding and instructing. It's not the sub that fails but the Dominate One that fails the sub.

No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill

28 May 2013

26 Jun 2013

Hi, I'm Jack. I am naturally submissive though I have never been in a true d/s relationship ship I have always loved rough play.

26 Jun 2013

Im not into the lifestyle but like to be a sub in the bedroom

26 Jun 2013

not a 'master' n don't have a 'slave', but very dominant in the bedroom - commanding, light bondage, etc. I've always been like that - was hard finding a female who was always willing to please until i met my now wife. she lets me take full control over her anytime i want n we both get great pleasure from it. Occasionally, she likes to be in control n we flip roles (turn abouts fair play n all that). Recently been wanting her to take the dom role further, we'll see how that turns out

2 Jul 2013

Hi everyone, I am a total newbie but have been interested in trying this for a few years now. Just need to find a someway/someone to try it with! I'm 21 and have only tried light bondage. I love to be tied up that's for sure! I don't know if i'd be a good dom or sub...i just took the dom/sub test and got perfectly balanced! I love to be taught new things and to keep learning all the time.

*Oh and I somehow came across 50 shades of grey a long time before the hype of it all and even then thought it was AWFUL

7 Jul 2013

Hi, I've been into the bdsm and swinging lifestyle for most of my adult life, ( i'm 54 now). I love being a submissive to a strong, dominating guy that knopws what he wants and how to get it. I am happily married to a great guy who also lives the lifestyle.
Being a devotee of the HOTWIFE lifestyle gives my unbridled opportunity to date and engae whom ever i want, whenever I want them.

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)

14 Jul 2013

Hi my name is farhin. I have been a sub for a while but i have been out of this lifestyle for a year now because my Dom and I have parted ways. I wish I could find myself a Dom but it is really hard for me to find one.

16 Jul 2013

I write under the name, Fuiva.
While I do enjoy playing the Dom, I prefer being the sub. It's been my experience that the majority (just my observation) of men who are submissive also practice sissy play, forced feminization, small cock humiliation, etc. I don't really go for any of that. I read a book once on male submissiveness, and I guess I would be classified under "The Amazon". Think, brave jungle explorer is captured and forced into a life of servitude to the seductive and beautiful jungle queen. HAHAHA.. It's true though. I view myself as being a strong and capable man, but there's a joy in the submission. It's almost as though my manhood is being tested through BDSM; and the deeper I'm pushed, the more I feel love and desire from her.
I've had a decade to dissect this so if you're curious, just PM me and I'll explain more.
Anyway, a lot of what I write has FemDom undertones.

16 Jul 2013

Hello Everybody!! Hugs

I've missed you all!!! I just got back onto lush. I was known here as slaveprincess(2012) and daddysgirl(2010)!!

I have been a submissive for a little over a year now. But before I realized I really was, I played around with that idea in my head for a few years before I ever acted on any impulses.

I love strong, intelligent, dominant men. I have had a Master in my past, and while Hes a great man, Things in my personal life effected our relationship. I love to just have fun!!
This year I started going to local munches, parties, and dungeons in my local area. It's been quite a learning experience.

I also am completely free and available to those who have questions. Submissives who are new and want to learn what, how, why, etc.. about being a slave or submissive. I love talking to people about personal safety in BDSM (Its surprising how many people don't know, and its better to learn from someone else than on your own skin. TRUST ME ON THAT) But what Im trying to get at is... I'm here to talk if you want to.

16 Jul 2013

Quote by new_sub_in_training
I'm a newbie.

I'm about to sign my contract to start my collar. Of course, some preliminary training has began, but I'm hesitant to make this last step.

I want this so badly. I found a Dom that I trust and with whom I would like to take this journey.

I'm looking for advice and some support as my questions are abundant.

I wish you the best of luck with the steps your taking. Have you told your Dom about your concerns? If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to PM me

16 Jul 2013

OK, hey everyone my names Jasmine but you can call me jazz. Im 18 For the last two months I have done my research on the BDSM lifestyle and honestly part of me thinks this is for me . But the other half isnt so sure I feel as if I would fit perfect as a Dom/Mistress but at the same time being a submissive sounds pretty great also. It would be great if anyone could fill me in on some personal experiences or information you might find useful to give PM me I would appreciate it. I know it might sound a bit immature but I honestly am interested in experimenting with this.

24 Jul 2013

i think everyone knows me Embarassed

i had looked into the idea of this lifestyle many times from friends. until meeting my bf in college who took me into training. my bf became My Sir and then as most know My Husband. I enjoy my learning and our life smile

my newest :)

2 Aug 2013

hey i'm lantana
i havnt been in the lifestyle very long but
i was 16 was i start to have thoughts about it
i do have a Master right now his name is
dionysevitch6191

26 Aug 2013

hi all, I am a Dom, started out as a sub when i was 17, have about a decade exp in the lifestyle. My foundation is in pet play, my first mistress owned two subs, my partner in crime was a 43 year old women into age play.

I am looking for one sub for online play, and a real life subby to love. I started the thread Illinois Connections. I frequent the mens chatroom, at times the lush basement. I am working on bdsm, pet play stories for lush, editing etc at moment. I am a full time student, and usually not on thursday nights.

I moved away from illinois for awhile and now i am back, trying to form real life connections. I have pics on my profile. I am very openminded, and will speak with anyone on anything.

Collar views= I do not throw collars around like candy, Collars are a significant symbol of a doms feelings for their sub. I believe each one should be personalized to the sub, and no collar should ever be used on one sub then another. Collars are more significant to me then wedding rings. They form a true bond, and dont be offended if you do decide to become my sub and have to wait months to receive a physical collar.

3 Sep 2013

I'm a bi-curious male here and haven't really been able to get into the lifestyle yet other than some blindfolds and handcuffs with an ex GF. I have been used as a cam slut/slave online and have enjoyed it. Trying to find the right person online/in person to go further.

3 Sep 2013

Hello!

As my name suggests, I am a submissive. I have a wonderful Master that has a nickname of Crow (hence why my name is what it is here). I've been interested in the lifestyle for the past 8 years. I've had 2 people that have laid claim to being my Master, and only one of them was actually a true Dom. Currently, I've only had the privilege of having online experience with my Master, but W/we have enjoyed every minute of it thus far, and hope that in time that I will be able to physically be with Him at some point.

Master and I have tried looking to see if I have to potential of being a switch, but I don't seem to be.

I don't mind having some friendly conversations with people, but I will not bow and become someone else's submissive.

Looking forward to seeing more of this site though and getting more familiar with everyone smile

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5 Sep 2013

I have been interested in the formal role of a Dom since joining Lush. I'd love to know more. I suspect I have been living aspects of this for years in the bedroom without knowing what it was. Reading some of the posts here chimes with my experiences as a guide and teacher as well as the more straight forward sexual side of what you describe as the life.

26 Sep 2013

Hello,
My name is Regina. And I'm very new at this lifestyle. I joined this site to learn more about it. And I hope I can find the right answers, and help.
Thank you.

1 Oct 2013

My name is Bobbi jo, I am happily married to a greeat guy that understands and loves my chosen lifestyle of a HOTWIFE. I am spolied shamelessly by him, he is my cuckold and the most wonderful guy I have ever met. This is both of our second marriages, and we are inseprerable.
i'm tall, 5'10" a natural blonde, wear a size 6 or 8, am adicted to latex clothing and leather, love super high heel boots, and BDSM. I am a submissive, and hard player, no touchie-feelie for me, I like a strong guy that can really work me into a frenzy.
I race cars on road courses for a hobby and fly. business-wise I am a real estate developer along with my husband.
Oh yes, I like to write erotica also...

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)

1 Oct 2013

My name is Brian, 33, single guy from Ohio. However, I'm currently residing outside Toronto within a career in my field of science. I haven't had that much luck in dating, with my schedule, so I'm looking to explore any fantasies that come my way, whether sharing a woman with a man or woman, since I'm bi-curious, or just enjoying the lifestyles that I can learn from others.

Talk to anyone soon.

7 Oct 2013

I am married but hubby isn't into any kinky stuff....just plain old sex.Me on the other hand I enjoy a VARIETY of things.I am fantasizing about becoming a sub for a sexy bitch......doing whatever she wants me to do.

8 Oct 2013

Hello all
I am Glory Bound, or GB. naturally the bound comes from the BDSM lifestyle
I have been into this kind of thing for as long as I can remember, however i am yet to be fortunate enough to meet someone who can join me in such activities.
For now self bondage is my forte. I'd love to chat with anyone or anyone on the topic, or just about anything, I'm pretty open
Thank you for having me,
GB

8 Oct 2013

Hello . Im 1cummthirsty a 54 yr old wht(bi) single male ...Ive been here for a couple of days & really luv the storties & profiles ..Im into interracial Blk Bull Wht Cuckoldress Size QOS .. I Luv bein a cucky .. & I Must Say I Luv being a Submissive bottom boi for VWE Blk Men . & Im Sure you can tell by my name I LUV cummmmmmmmmmmmm,Lots of cummmmmmmmmmmmm

9 Oct 2013

Hello, I am Megan. I am 18 and I have had an interest in BDSM for about a year. I have yet to try out a real relationship yet, testing the waters. I am a submissive through ad through. I am also a virgin.

18 Oct 2013

Hi everyone! I've been dabbling in BDSM for a couple years now, but I found a great master inside a great friendship, that has quickly evolved into much, much more.

25 Oct 2013

Hi Everyone Embarassed

First time here, i'm a bit shy at first but I am sure i'll warm up. I just recently started having an overwhelming urge to belong fully and completely to somebody. I have NEVER been submissive in my life but I have met someone(online). This someone makes me want to curl up in a ball at his feet, I crave to be pet and told I am a "Good Girl".

In real life I hesitantly take part in my husbands BDSM lifestyle. He is into breast bondage, piercing and suspension. I take part, not because I enjoy it but because he does. It is not a dom/sub sittuation by any means, it's purely he likes it and relationships are 50/50 give and take.

Lots of Love
Jessie