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Hi all well my name is Mary. I had been into the lifestyle in my late teens with another older Domme. She was ten years my senior and helped me through the first year of college, giving me a roof over my head, tuition etc.

Keeping our dom/sub lifestyle a secret until she broke it off with me to be with her now husband. Very wonderful and at times sad memories.
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."

Simone de Beauvoir
Hello! I've only just gotten into BDSM and want to really get into it. I've been interested in sex for a long time and BDSM has turned me before, but I never really got into it until I came to lush! Looking for some people, especially a mistress to get me into it so I'm totally open for new stuff and conversation!
My name is really May - which no one ever believes - but it is true. i am a fairly inexperienced sub, but have great difficulties finding a dom. i seem to attract the weirdos and only on the internet kind. I want more than that so i'm here searching as always! Trying to figure out how to find him!
Hello I am Ed, I have lived the lifestyle for 28 yrs. From a Strict Master, to now the Daddy Dom

Very interested in meeting other that are new, or very experienced in the life.
Hi I am graham and have started to take an interest in this lifestyle but yet to find someone I would trust enough to completely let go but I do hope to find that person
Hello, I am nilla. I have been within the life for about 10 years now. I am not currently physically active with it as I am married to a vanilla but I am very active in the readings and writings with it. Lush has helped with that of course. I got into the lifestyle by accident when I was 15 and have loved it ever since. There is to much to explain, but I have written a few stories that explain what I have done etc. My stories I write are all true. tho my last 3 have not been acted on, but they are true feelings etc.
Hello all, I am MD, new to the site was referred by a friend. thought I would say hi and see what it is all about. Fell free to ask anything. I have been in the life for 30 over 27 yrs.

I am into the Mental side of the D/s life, i have mentored or trained over 20 subs through the years.

Need advice, questions, to scream or just chat. Here I am
Hi all im the friendly guy who just wants to chat and have fun. Very experimental from a young age and I really enjoy lush!
Hi smile I am Jamie I'm 18 years old I Live In England I am a Tree Surgeon and training to be a pilot, I'm a decent guy who's mind is not always on sex, I am capable of a normal chat, Please take a look at my photos, I have some shot's of my work and of me during some of my flying lessons, Like a chat about Normal thing please pm me.
Hello,

I am very new to BDSM. I believe I am a sub. I am looking for a Mistress/domme to guide me into this lifestyle. I will appreciate any advice and would like to meet my mistress
HI
I am a submissive wife of a dominant husband. Im not into the heavy extreme BDSM.
But i submit to him in every way. I am a traditional house wife, and my husband is the boss of the house.
My name is Master Jonathan and I have been a real life Master for many years now. I have been a Dom all My life, but it wasn't until I met My wife and we moved into the D/s world, that I became a Master. When My wife first found out about My interests in this life, she thought I was some kind of weirdo. But as she learned more about it and I showed her that it wasn't what she had envisioned, she came around. Then one day after a LOT of discussion, debate, and yes even an arguement or two, we decided to take a step or two in this direction. What we discovered was more than either of us imagined possible and now we couldn't imagine a "vanilla" life again.

I am new to Lush Stories but am finding it a real treat to be able to write My stories and tell My readers how I came to be Master Jonathan and what life as a Master is like.
Hi All,

I'm Jim, been floating around on here for a while now, but thought I'd introduce myself finally!

I'm a dominant male, I have been into the scene for a long time now, but have only had around 1 years live experience with a d/s relationship. That sadly ended when the practicalities of life introduded and work forced us to live hundreds a miles apart, sadly we couldnt make it work over the distance. That was about 4 years ago and I havent really had a satisfying vanilla relationship since. I really miss the intense mutual trust that has to exist between D&S. It was that feeling of knowing she trusted me implicitly not to ever deliberately hurt her, but to always try challenge her, that made the relationship so fullfilling for me.

I'm largely on here to pickup knowledge from others, and of course share the limited knowledge I posses with others as well!

If anyone want's to say hi, feel free I'm pretty easy going and approachable most of the time.
Am a sub, had one Domme in RL years ago. Married now but miss lifestyle.
I am Sweets and only recently come to the conclusion I am a sub. I am still waiting to meet my Dom. It is a challenge but I know someday we will meet and the connection will be unbreakable.
I have been in the lifestyle for around 12 plus years and am the fortunate Master/owner of a very pleasing, very loving and very loyal little slave slut. Whilst we are married we are not married to each other, which makes for an interesting and enjoyable relationship which has grown and blossomed over the years. Complicated? At times, but perhaps even more enjoyable for that. The important element in any Dom/sub relationship is trust, and we have trust aplenty between us, earned and proven many times over.

Hello everyone! I am owned and married to my Sir. We are relatively new to the D/s lifestyle, as we have only recently incorporated it into our marriage. Due to some very complicated situations in our marriage I began exploring things that I had felt my entire life, and became a sub of an old friend, it was a very rocky road for a time when all came to light. After some very open and painful conversations with complete honesty my husband and I decided to incorporate D/s into our marriage. I can honestly say it was difficult in the beginning as I had been in a very intense relationship with a very experienced dom and had to deprogram myself. My husband/Sir has embraced the lifestyle and is learning what he needs and wants as well as my needs/wants. It is not always a bed of roses, but our marriage is stronger than it was on day 1 fifteen years ago. We have never been more open and honest as we are now and there is a peace in our home that had not been there in a very long time. Of course the amazing sex is a bonus!!!
I'm new to the lifestyle but I've kind of always been submissive. My master lives 2 thousand miles from me but I'm devoted to him when I see him once a year.
Hello I'm Kim and absolutely love to be dominated by an agressive woman, just haven't met the one to make me submit to her yet. I did once when I was younger but she left when I reached 18. I was lost for a long time.
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Hello I'm Kim and absolutely love to be dominated by an agressive woman, just haven't met the one to make me submit to her yet. I did once when I was younger but she left when I reached 18. I was lost for a long time.


Hey, Kim. I'm Kim as well. I have never been dominated or dominated someone but it seems like something I would try.
Greetings and Salutations fellow perverts

I've been around this lifestyle for nearly 20 years now. I came up in a Traditional Leather Family. I flag Black as well as Purple, (we shall see how many folks get that one). I would love to get to know you no matter who you are or what you're into
Hello to A/all. I am a natural born submissive, and very proud of that. I joined Lush not long ago because I love to read and I'm lonely for P/people's company. This world can be a very vanilla place. I'm happily married, thou my Hubby isn't Dominate. ( Wow, what a life I'd have if he was!) I welcome making new F/friends and look forward to meeting Y/you.
Hi, I am new to lush and am not into any particular ' lifestyle' but I have plenty of fantasies many of which include being restrained and powerless.
hi all im amber i been on this site since my 18th birthday n 2009. i knew about BDSM since i was 18 but i really got into BDSM i think i was 19 or 20. im 21 now i have a wonderful boyfriend/master he just joined lush not to long ago hes Sexylilbitsman1992, i am a switch im a mistress and a sub. im also my boyfriends mistress. i have 3 subs that i share with my boyfriend. one sub is on lush the other 2 subs are on fetlife.com if you dont know what fetlife.com is its somewhat a BDSM site and some people on it is in a leather family or in a pack with. i been on fetlife since 2011. its a ok site but some people on there are just plain rude and not nice. anyways. all my subs have rules that they have to follow. just like i have rules to follow to. i havent done bondage yet but would really like to try it. i had a dom and a top before but it really didnt work out. the dom im still friends with i been friends with him since i first joined lush. the top i met from fetlife. when i got n trouble from my top i had to spank myself with a paddle or i would write lines or i would get grounded. i love the life style its fun and i really enjoy it. i like some things rough. i like being controlled and i like to control my subs. if u would like to know me more then u can look at my profile on here or just message me.
I'm Kyle. I'm 25. I am a Dom.. I have had 3 d/s relationships each of them beautiful. I love my life and I am complete.
Hi, im a kinky kiwi&have learnt much about myself on Lush. Realizeed i need a Mistress to fhgx me! Anx ladies to tae me&teabah
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Greetings and Salutations fellow perverts

I've been around this lifestyle for nearly 20 years now. I came up in a Traditional Leather Family. I flag Black as well as Purple, (we shall see how many folks get that one). I would love to get to know you no matter who you are or what you're into


well... I Myself am about the same... though I would prolly hafta add a few flags as I have a wide range of interests(grey, red, dark red, teal blue, fuschia come to mind..I' m sure I've missed a few) Guess it depends on which set of flags you learned, or adapted to as things progressed. I'm not sure I can specifically identify with a single group (Leather, Old Guard as examples), as I have learned much from many communities and am willing to see the good in each of them.

Guess I always knew I was dominant, wasn't until My 20's I actually started researching it to become Dominant... things, as life, progressed from there. So for Me about 20 years as well, with the last 15 taking things beyond what I even thought was possible.

Master isn't a title I take lightly, It isn't something someone chooses to call himself, but is an extension of how respected people in the community perceive you. At this point I think it would be hard to find anyone I know in "the life" that doesn't consider Me as a Master...and Many that I have learned from in the past have turned around later to ask for My advice because of My obsession for knowledge and insight. Most of the ppl I know well are old school.. hard rules.. hard consequences, and I rarely associate with people who refer to their style of BDSM as "play" or "scenes" as that is many planets away from My way of living. There IS room for people who live that way within this lifestyle, I just have little in common with those who do. This in no way means that I can't understand or accept their way of life.

Knowledge is nothing if not shared, with your slave, your community, and those wishing to enter into it. So I will continue to look for topics to give My opinion about, yes opinion. My way of thinking doesn't fit everyone, nor does anyone elses, it is not My intention to tell anyone else here how they MUST see or do things, as there are as many views of what "the life" means to people as there are people in it. ---and I think this just became My forum sig
Knowledge is nothing if not shared, with your slave, your community, and those wishing to enter into it. So I will continue to look for topics to give My opinion about, yes opinion.

*** Disclaimer ***
My way of thinking doesn't fit everyone, nor does anyone elses, it is not My intention to tell anyone else here how they must see or do things, as there are as many views of what "the life" means to people as there are people in it.
I'm a newbie.

I'm about to sign my contract to start my collar. Of course, some preliminary training has began, but I'm hesitant to make this last step.

I want this so badly. I found a Dom that I trust and with whom I would like to take this journey.

I'm looking for advice and some support as my questions are abundant.
Hi everyone! I very new to this lifestyle but love it. I'm a sub and would love to meet more people in this life.
This forum has been bugging me far to long, so i am giving in and sharing.
I have been in RL Master/slave for the last 16ish years. It started as very lightly but eventual evolved into a harsh spiral of a loving but abusive Master that lives in the world of SM.
In saying that, my time on lush is my secret, but my RL is very much a part of me.
I am a dominating personality which clashes with everything i have just stated but it is embedded in me to submit and to enjoy SM as a release more than anything else.
Personally I could ramble on but the main reason i am here, is to say that my growing trust level with my lush friend is so strong i may very well be willing to give all. How big is this decision its HUGE!