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Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks?

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Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks? If yes, why and have you ever don this ?


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simplyjohn
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No ... if she needs that there is a serious issue with the relationship that needs to be addressed.
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Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks? If yes, why and have you ever don this ?
...I'd prefer if she did it discretely...so I could pretend that I didn't know
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l believe that any kind of relationship, whether g/f,b/f or marriage, is a full time job, you both or however many is in the relationship have to constantly work on it together, both of you working towards a common goal of making each other happy, filled with love, respect and anything else that's needed for the relationship to work.

Now with that said, l would like to believe l will be okay for her to ask for my help in fulfilling a fantasy of hers, on the provisio that she helps me with my fantasies too an that will include the both of us joining in together on our fantasies, but an there is a but, if she demands it, then l will demand to fuck her best friend, sister, cousin, auntie or even her mother an if she don't like it, then she can demand NOT to have sex with another dick.

Like most commentators have already said, demands of any kind do not go over very well in most relationships, unless it's a cuckold relationship and even then, not in all of those relationships either, is demanding anything acceptable.
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This suggests that marriage gives you ownership of your spouse. I love my wife more than air but we discuss everything. We are in an open marriage and have been for a while. If she wants another man she will talk it over with me. We are not frequent in this but on occasion there has been others. She is not promiscuous in her activity and very discreet.
monainohio
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only if I can watch them with the three of us naked
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I think it would be very hot. And would definitely let her if that is what she wanted.
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This suggests that marriage gives you ownership of your spouse. I love my wife more than air but we discuss everything. We are in an open marriage and have been for a while. If she wants another man she will talk it over with me. We are not frequent in this but on occasion there has been others. She is not promiscuous in her activity and very discreet.



G'day from under, just curious to know how long have you had an open marriage? And how did the opening the marriage come about?
Sholbin83
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no i wouldnt. i would seriously think about where the relationship is headed. there is no way a woman would let a man go with another woman.
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This is not a yes or no answer. We would have to talk it over and decided if it is something that would hurt our relationship. If it was a one and done and I could watch or participate the answer would most likely be yes.
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Quote by AshenShugar
l believe that any kind of relationship, whether g/f,b/f or marriage, is a full time job, you both or however many is in the relationship have to constantly work on it together, both of you working towards a common goal of making each other happy, filled with love, respect and anything else that's needed for the relationship to work.

Now with that said, l would like to believe l will be okay for her to ask for my help in fulfilling a fantasy of hers, on the provisio that she helps me with my fantasies too an that will include the both of us joining in together on our fantasies, but an there is a but, if she demands it, then l will demand to fuck her best friend, sister, cousin, auntie or even her mother an if she don't like it, then she can demand NOT to have sex with another dick.

Like most have already said, demands of any kind do not go over very well in most relationships, unless it's a cuckold relationship and even then, not in all of those relationships either, is demanding anything acceptable.


As a Dominant personality the idea that my submissive was able to demand ANYTHING is just wrong, but having said that, her asking to be given to another, male, or female, of course with my permission is part of my possession and her acceptance of our unique relationship.
Her submission is her will never forced or coerced her sole aim is my pleasure, she gets pleasure from knowing I respect ,care, and honor her, heart body and soul, and from her giving pleasure to me and my use of her body, and her particular mind set.
We all have our own fetish our own kink my pet is jealous yet accepts as her master I have my own will and will take another woman even maybe while making her watch.
If you dont think thats fair tell someone who cares, I dont
Shellback
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I would be happy that I had a wife who was open enough share her desire with me. If our relationship is strong enough, other sex partners might enhance our relationship. If it isn't, and she has these desires, it's not going to work anyway.
HornyTXHubby
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Oh ya! I've already watched her once. Again!
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I love watching g my wife with another man or another woman but it's something we both discussed and agreed on. Not something she demanded. If she demanded it, it would never have happened. Same with me with other women when we play with 'friends'. I'd never even consider demanding that I could. It's something we both agreed to try and enjoyed.

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Yes, I would. If she needed a real man with a real cock to satisfy her, I would let her do that (would love to watch!)
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No, because as soon as she made that demand or right after she asked that question, I'd be suggesting that we get some relationship counseling.
Magical_felix
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I don't even let her order for herself at a restaurant. I'm like "bitch, you're getting a salad with the dressing on the side".
Regnadkcin
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I don't have the right to tell anyone what they can and cannot do.

What I do have is a choice of what I would do as a result of what she chooses.
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The moment a girl I'm with asks to fuck another fella, is the moment I know that the girl isn't for me.
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I know I can never do that to my man. He will be the only one who will have my heart, body and soul. I think if you want to have multiple partners just be in an open relationship (which is again not for me). Well again, this is just my thoughts. Everyone has the freedom to enjoy life the way they want. Sorry for posting here but just couldn't resist. smile
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yeah, kinda feels like the end of that relationship then

But as moon says, to each their own. If they have that open-type relationship, who are we to judge?
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If the conditions are right. Then the negotiating begins lol
DesertBeat
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Yes, as long as I can play too.
busterx4x
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It depends on her motivation for asking. If it's all about exploring her sexuality, I'm all for it. If it's because she is restless and wants an open marriage or some other kind of rot, then absolutely not. If it's about sex, then yes. If she wants a relationship then no.
NOLAHotGal
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We go to swing clubs on a weekly basis, and Hubbie offers me to strangers there. So he would definitely let me fuck other men.

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Without doubt.....ideally being able to watch or join in but if not then never mind.
tattoorob
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yes I let my girlfriend have sex with three different guys in one week as I watched her first one was 5 out of 10 the second was 6 out 10 the third was 8 out 10 they all fucked her hard but she never asked me to join in our plan was to both fuck her not just them but she was a 10 out of 10 for giving every thing to them even anal
ezzguy
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Yes I would and have.