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This thread topic has the same logic as women who wear almost nothing to the gym/beach/grocery store etc. Then get offended when guys notice their tits, ass, and dignity falling out all over the palce. If you don't want to attract attention, then don't adorn yourself with attention grabbing attire...in this case, a pic of a cute woman. (In real life, shorts with "juicy" written across the ass and then you're upset when you catch me checking out your butt)
In my opinion, if you don't want attention, you probably shouldn't purposefully attract it.

Also, a FR is just a way of reaching out to people. If you don't want to accept, it's your choice. Some people do not like to friend someone unless they have chatted and gotten to know each other. Some don't like to chat unless you're already on their friend list. So, you can see this puts the person who is interested in you in kind of a catch 22...50/50 shot at getting it right.....FR first?...or chatbox?...or PM?...or chat window?....or...ah fuckit, her pic ain't that cute anyway....lol

Not worth much, but that's what I think.
VanGogh
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good grief .... a whole lotta


either accept the request, or don't .... or block the fucker .....

This is a huge social site, not just for writers!
Mysteria27
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Quote by prairiedogg


That's the one I spoke of earlier. I got a mail from this person today saying that I could be her friend at any time. I checked out her blog also. What a mess!

Although I must admit sometimes friends can be very fickle. I gave a less than "5" rating to a friend's poem and was immediately dumped and blocked. Live and learn I guess.


I deleted you because you insulted me. I could care less about a score. I also told you I'm not into cyber as I have a lover on the site. So I really couldn't see why to keep you. So don't fib. You want to insult people on their work go ahead. But have a little tact.
prairiedogg
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Quote by Mysteria27


I deleted you because you insulted me. I could care less about a score. I also told you I'm not into cyber as I have a lover on the site. So I really couldn't see why to keep you. So don't fib. You want to insult people on their work go ahead. But have a little tact.


You make it sound as if I wanted to cyber with you. Where did that come from? I enjoyed having discussions with you, that's all. I respected your boundaries. I defended you when the nasty blog comments were made about you. The only thing I did wrong was not give you a five on your story. Remember, you were the one questioning my score and comment, so don't act like it didn't mean anything to you.

Now I understand why the blog comments were made in the first place.
Mysteria27
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Quote by prairiedogg


You make it sound as if I wanted to cyber with you. Where did that come from? I enjoyed having discussions with you, that's all. I respected your boundaries. I defended you when the nasty blog comments were made about you. The only thing I did wrong was not give you a five on your story. Remember, you were the one questioning my score and comment, so don't act like it didn't mean anything to you.

Now I understand why the blog comments were made in the first place.


Thanks for insulting me again. HAPPY LUSHING...TAKE CARE!
Mysteria27
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Quote by prairiedogg


You make it sound as if I wanted to cyber with you. Where did that come from? I enjoyed having discussions with you, that's all. I respected your boundaries. I defended you when the nasty blog comments were made about you. The only thing I did wrong was not give you a five on your story. Remember, you were the one questioning my score and comment, so don't act like it didn't mean anything to you.

Now I understand why the blog comments were made in the first place.



We knew each other 2 days. So I wouldn't call you a friend. So get over yourself.
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Careful, M, you're showing your true colors.
Mysteria27
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You gave me a 5. You insulted a poem I wrote for my lover. Now I'm done talking to you.
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No silly, this is about one person being lots of people - not lots of people being one person
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Quote by kiera


Are those Hello Kitty knickers?


I think they're Miffy knickers - easy mistake to make though

http://ipkitten.blogspot.co.uk/2011/06/goodbye-cathy-hello-kitty-and-miffy.html
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Strangers are just friends waiting to happen. Either one needs to take the initiative. To accept it or reject is all up to you.
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Quote by Mazza

I think the ears look too pointy to be Miffy...

I think they look like Happy Bunny ones...


I think you're right.

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Quote by Liz


I think you're right.




Well, I never knew Spritelette was handing out pictures... Not that i want to see any of then of course. just sayin'
Kiera
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Quote by overmykneenow


I think they're Miffy knickers - easy mistake to make though

http://ipkitten.blogspot.co.uk/2011/06/goodbye-cathy-hello-kitty-and-miffy.html


Knickers aside I would love to see you in these


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Quote by Liz


I think you're right.



Why is it that when I look at this picture I no longer care what this thread is about? OMG, I need Help!!!
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Quote by kiera


Knickers aside


I stopped reading right there
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Why is it that when I look at this picture I no longer care what this thread is about? OMG, I need Help!!!


They should turn the heating up - the poor girl is covered in goosepimples
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I'm new here, and I friend request those with intriguing profiles, either in how they describe themselves, or in a list of books/movies which I find simpatico. A combo of being literate and well-spoken along with unbridled,open minded sexuality hits the sweet spot for me. But I'm just a newbie (this is actually my first Forum post).
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Quote by Verbal
But I'm just a newbie (this is actually my first Forum post).


Welcome...and congrats on your first of hopefully many posts!

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Quote by Verbal
I'm new here, and I friend request those with intriguing profiles, either in how they describe themselves, or in a list of books/movies which I find simpatico. A combo of being literate and well-spoken along with unbridled,open minded sexuality hits the sweet spot for me. But I'm just a newbie (this is actually my first Forum post).


Sweetness you may have picked the wrong forum to start in Welcome
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And my latest poem, The Temptation.

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loud_bkr
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Even though this is in the "Ask the Guys" thread and most of the replies have been female, I thought I would wade in.

To be honest I have only asked a few people to add me as a friend. Most have asked me to be friends and I am grateful as I have met some lovely people on here. But then again I am male so don't get that many friend requests lol

But to answer the OP, it is possible you come across as a very nice and interesting person in the forums and people would like to get to know you better. Unless they play with you in the forum regularly they might not get to know the real you. My advice would be to accept the friend request, if they end up being jerks just delete them! But you never know, there may just be one person out there not wanting to cyber fuck you but just wants to get to know you better and you never know, you may just end up having a good laugh....




I'll get my coat
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If you don't know me by now (If you don't know me)
You will never never never know me (No you won't)
If you don't know by now
You will never never never know me
Kiera
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Quote by TexDrifter
This thread topic has the same logic as women who wear almost nothing to the gym/beach/grocery store etc. Then get offended when guys notice their tits, ass, and dignity falling out all over the palce. If you don't want to attract attention, then don't adorn yourself with attention grabbing attire...in this case, a pic of a cute woman. (In real life, shorts with "juicy" written across the ass and then you're upset when you catch me checking out your butt)
In my opinion, if you don't want attention, you probably shouldn't purposefully attract it.

Also, a FR is just a way of reaching out to people. If you don't want to accept, it's your choice. Some people do not like to friend someone unless they have chatted and gotten to know each other. Some don't like to chat unless you're already on their friend list. So, you can see this puts the person who is interested in you in kind of a catch 22...50/50 shot at getting it right.....FR first?...or chatbox?...or PM?...or chat window?....or...ah fuckit, her pic ain't that cute anyway....lol

Not worth much, but that's what I think.



I agree those people are asking for it and don't deserve to complain about the attention they get because of it. Actually I'm half tempted to change my av now its the 1st time I've ever used one like this I normally just use a facial one but a friend gave it to me so I used it, I like it a lot actually.

Everything else aside I think Ginger is referring to the vulgar ones we get, eg will u swallow my cum, I want to fuck your arse, even things about hamburgers(cause thankfully hamburgers are now fully forbidden on this site smile) That said I spoke to a new male friend of mine last night and he told me about a few rather shocking ones he had received from women so its swings and roundabouts really but none the less there are us here who simply don't like getting messages like that and say so in our bio's as someone I don't recall who said previously in this forum its even worse if you appear on featured members I bloody hate it when I do I get inundated its crazy.

Gingers av is cute yes but she isn't exhibiting anything sexual she is fully clothed sitting on grass, I could understand if she was posting pics of her anatomy and warrant the replies claiming she is attention seeking but she is not. Also I would like to add the hypocrisy of some here "just deal with it its a sex web site people don't read bio's"?? I hit u back with that for your forum ranting about friends posting what you feel are inappropriate things on your wall, apparently you state in your bio you don't like them so why do they still post them?? ...just sayin
The Duchess of Tart

Please check out my new story, co-written with the amazing Wilful.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx

And my latest poem, The Temptation.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-temptation.aspx
Kiera
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Quote by loud_bkr
Even though this is in the "Ask the Guys" thread and most of the replies have been female, I thought I would wade in.

To be honest I have only asked a few people to add me as a friend. Most have asked me to be friends and I am grateful as I have met some lovely people on here. But then again I am male so don't get that many friend requests lol

But to answer the OP, it is possible you come across as a very nice and interesting person in the forums and people would like to get to know you better. Unless they play with you in the forum regularly they might not get to know the real you. My advice would be to accept the friend request, if they end up being jerks just delete them! But you never know, there may just be one person out there not wanting to cyber fuck you but just wants to get to know you better and you never know, you may just end up having a good laugh....




I'll get my coat


Takes your coat and hangs it up, that's a really nice post

I agree though I don't think Ginger realises how well liked she is in the forums, she is hilarious so naturally people will want to be friends with her, that said though again I don't think that's what she means if she interacts with them in the forums its because she finds them amusing or else she wouldn't bother. If they f/r her she will likely accept. Its the random rude ones from people you don't know that are the problem.
The Duchess of Tart

Please check out my new story, co-written with the amazing Wilful.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx

And my latest poem, The Temptation.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-temptation.aspx