I recently ran into this exact situation when I was at an out of town bar the other night. I met a Butch (but very sexy) lesbian who was into me, and I was into her. We checked out girls together, did shots together, and had a great time hanging out. She said "You're fucking hot. I'd like to go home with you if you can keep your mouth shut." Unfortunately didn't happen that night as I had to take off shortly after those comments, but it may in the future...
Can any lesbians give me insight on that?
Well, I'm not a lesbian but I might have some insight if you could clarify the situation for us. It's hard to say as it is, and I'm not sure how it relates to this comment. It kind of seems like the opposite problem to me. Maybe I just misunderstood you.