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why do guys like younger, for example 60 male and 22 female, is it right, should it happen just curious xx
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One of my best friends was a beautiful 25 yr. old girl, and the boyfriend she got pregnant by was 69. Some girls find older men fascinating. If so, what's wrong with that? I happen to like much younger guys than me, and that's OK too. To each their own.
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why do guys like younger, for example 60 male and 22 female, is it right, should it happen just curious xx
Not all guys like younger, some prefer older woman but in this case i would imagine that the older man would prefer a younger woman because she doesn't have as much "baggage" as an older woman (sounds harsh but is probably true)
And to answer you're question is it right, i'd go with the line "age is but a number"
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Its an ego boost. I mean a younger girl can be talked into anything and are eager to please. My opinion anyway.
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From a strictly evolutionary standpoint, it's a form of sexual dimorphism. For dudes, it's evolutionarily advantageous to go for the most fertile females, which tend to be about 15-30 by most estimates. For women, on the other hand, fertility isn't as big a deal. Men are fertile from about 15-60 (or so), and within that range the older men (historically) have the most social ability to provide for and protect their kids. So that's that from a primal point of view.
From a modern social standpoint, I'd say it's not too much different. Men are typically expected to provide the funding in a relationship, and women... well... you are supposed to be entertaining. These roles are indeed changing (and not soon enough, IMO), but until each gender has similar expectations in relationships (this would need to be in culture as well as individual ones), there will likely be age-related differences, and therefore differences in ages of maximal attraction.
Last comment, these data are all in aggregate, and each person is their own experiment with an N of 1. As society becomes more accepting of non-average relationships I would surmise that data like these mean less and less from a predictive standpoint.
From a modern social standpoint, I'd say it's not too much different. Men are typically expected to provide the funding in a relationship, and women... well... you are supposed to be entertaining. These roles are indeed changing (and not soon enough, IMO), but until each gender has similar expectations in relationships (this would need to be in culture as well as individual ones), there will likely be age-related differences, and therefore differences in ages of maximal attraction.
Last comment, these data are all in aggregate, and each person is their own experiment with an N of 1. As society becomes more accepting of non-average relationships I would surmise that data like these mean less and less from a predictive standpoint.
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Not all guys chase younger women. I'll also point out the obvious fact that some guy are gay. I can't say I'm not attracted to certain younger women but mostly I like women my own age. I work with a lot of twenty somethings and at the end of the day I'm glad to go home to my wife, interestingly she's a few years older that me.
I have a friend (male) who is in a longterm relationship with a woman who is seventeen years his senior.
On the other hand, I have an ancestor who had eighteen children and he was married three time. He married women who were in their late teen or early twenties. My aunt did the reseach. When she looked at when the children were born she realized that eight of them were fathered after he turned 50. When I read that I was impressed and appaled at the same time. Damn!
I have a friend (male) who is in a longterm relationship with a woman who is seventeen years his senior.
On the other hand, I have an ancestor who had eighteen children and he was married three time. He married women who were in their late teen or early twenties. My aunt did the reseach. When she looked at when the children were born she realized that eight of them were fathered after he turned 50. When I read that I was impressed and appaled at the same time. Damn!
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From a strictly evolutionary standpoint, it's a form of sexual dimorphism. For dudes, it's evolutionarily advantageous to go for the most fertile females, which tend to be about 15-30 by most estimates. For women, on the other hand, fertility isn't as big a deal. Men are fertile from about 15-60 (or so), and within that range the older men (historically) have the most social ability to provide for and protect their kids. So that's that from a primal point of view.
From a modern social standpoint, I'd say it's not too much different. Men are typically expected to provide the funding in a relationship, and women... well... you are supposed to be entertaining. These roles are indeed changing (and not soon enough, IMO), but until each gender has similar expectations in relationships (this would need to be in culture as well as individual ones), there will likely be age-related differences, and therefore differences in ages of maximal attraction.
Last comment, these data are all in aggregate, and each person is their own experiment with an N of 1. As society becomes more accepting of non-average relationships I would surmise that data like these mean less and less from a predictive standpoint.
I enjoyed that response: brutally honest, but that's the way things are, really.
I don't really condemn such relationships, like many actors in the media typically do. We all provide for our partner(s) in different manners, may that be emotionally, sexually, intellectually, materially, financially, etc.
If a young 24-year-old hottie perceives a 60-year-old rockstar as a better overall provider than the average guy of her age, that's her prerogative. If the same 60-year-old rockstar prefers a 24-year-old partner for whatever reasons, that's his prerogative too. I don't believe it's always all that superficial, where women only want money and men only want sex: some young girls genuinely prefer an older partner that has a lot of life experiences, whereas some older men enjoy the company of a younger person and/or want to raise a family.
You somehow have to be certain that your partner is globally well-satisfied though, otherwise cheating might be likely.
It's not really something that I'd look for myself when I'll be older though, or at least I'd make certain that my partner loves me for more than my bank account if I ever feel a great connection with a younger woman.
My girlfriend is 21 years younger than me... she likes older men because the guys her age are idiots who don't want to grow up. She's very mature and acts at least ten years older than she is, so it works for her. For me, I like women of all ages but the fact that she calls me daddy in private turns me the fuck on!
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If a 22 year old woman wants to date/fuck/marry/whatever a 60 year old man, and they're both good with the arrangement, I don't feel that it is my place to pass judgment on whether the relationship is "right" or not. Not my place.
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As someone in an 'age-gap' relationship that has raised a few eyebrows (I'm the younger one), I'd like to say that love plays a big part in it. It does for me anyway...
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If a 22 year old woman wants to date/fuck/marry/whatever a 60 year old man, and they're both good with the arrangement, I don't feel that it is my place to pass judgment on whether the relationship is "right" or not. Not my place.
I tend to agree. However a 22 yr old, in my view, knows her own mind. The age gap is 38 yrs and yet I'd be more concerned about a 16 yr old with a 30 yr old, even though the gap is only 14 yrs.
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The way your question is phrased, you seem to put all men in the same position of seeking after much younger women. I for one am not interested in dating, fucking, having a relationship with any lady within 10 years of age of my own daughters. Just not a turn on for me. Give me a mature lady anytime who is comfortable in her own skin, knows what she wants in bed and has common interests and life experiences as I.
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The way your question is phrased, you seem to put all men in the same position of seeking after much younger women. I for one am not interested in dating, fucking, having a relationship with any lady within 10 years of age of my own daughters. Just not a turn on for me. Give me a mature lady anytime who is comfortable in her own skin, knows what she wants in bed and has common interests and life experiences as I.
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I'd rather focus on finding a woman who clicks with me than on her age. Realistically, though, I just can't see myself relating meaningfully to someone a full generation younger than me. I'm almost 50 so that would mean someone current in college. I've done older and if that relationship ended, I'd probably stick within a reasonable margin of my age, maybe 35-40 at the youngest to 55 or so at the oldest. Then again, if I did find a hot young lady with whom I had some kind of intellectual or emotional connection (physical attraction isn't likely to be an issue), I would not say no. I'd just think carefully before committing.
And before dpw asks: similar parameters for guys.
And before dpw asks: similar parameters for guys.
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It's right as rain to me. I love older guys!
Who are you decide what is right among consenting adults?
Who are you decide what is right among consenting adults?
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I myself don't often go for younger women. My style is to want more than a young body. I am attracted to women that have a rich and diverse life-experience.
The age doesn't really seem to matter to me. I am only going by my own track record.
I will not deny than men and women like to look at the newer cars just as there is something to be said for "newness." I think they are the same way baout each other as gendered. BUT I find it takes time for a girl to become a woman.
The age doesn't really seem to matter to me. I am only going by my own track record.
I will not deny than men and women like to look at the newer cars just as there is something to be said for "newness." I think they are the same way baout each other as gendered. BUT I find it takes time for a girl to become a woman.
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One of my best friends was a beautiful 25 yr. old girl, and the boyfriend she got pregnant by was 69.
I'm actually quite shocked about this. Not the relationship, but the fact that people (men) that age still become parents. The kid will grow up with a father who could be their great-grandfather and who will probably not be part of the kid's life for a very long time.
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it is right.
For me, i prefer older men.
I'm quite mature for my age, and guys younger than me or around my age tend to be idiots and not interested in my pleasure.
thats my opinion.
Older men have so much to offer, they can teach us alot, and i feel more like myself with an older man.
*sorry, forgot this was just ask the guys*
For me, i prefer older men.
I'm quite mature for my age, and guys younger than me or around my age tend to be idiots and not interested in my pleasure.
thats my opinion.
Older men have so much to offer, they can teach us alot, and i feel more like myself with an older man.
*sorry, forgot this was just ask the guys*