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Why can't many lush men chat first before cyber?

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Buz
The Linebacker
Quote by WellMadeMale


I beg to differ, as does this dude.



A good point, Dude. But I'll stick with Lee Marvin at #1 because it came first. But will definitely raise Jeff Bridges in The Big Lebowski to
a close #2 all time, along with Sam Elliott, well ahead of Sean Penn.

Yeah, I do love The Big Lebowski.I tried to imbed The Dude Abides scene but Youtube must have 'share' locked on it.

If women will learn to truly talk with men, they might get some chat before cyber. But they need to connect with us dudes on a level we can connect at. That usually starts with the showing of titties. Happy chatting.
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"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Quote by Buz
I tried to imbed The Dude Abides scene but Youtube must have 'share' locked on it.


There can only be one video embedded in a post and that includes any video in the post you quoted. No fun I know.


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WellMadeMale
Constant Gardener
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Buz
The Linebacker
"The Dude Abides" from The Big Lebowski
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by sundancer2004
you hush girl!!!!!!lmao


Oh sorry. Didn't know it was a secret. Lol
midnight900
Chat Moderator
Quote by georgiagirl23
Why can't the younger men on lush engage in some chat before trying to cybersex a girl? The older guys mostly do. I already know the answer most will give, because they're immature and think only with their little head. Some older men are like this too I've found. But it would seem one lesson all guys could learn is, chat a girl up first, get to where she starts to like you and gives you the signal she's ready to get dirty, and then cyber at her signal. I get so tired of phrases like, "What are you wearing? Are you wet yet? Like my cock?" and things like that before any real connection. I know, one girl's rant, but if I had a magic wand for lush, this would be the one thing I'd wave it for. 'Nuff said! GAgirl over & out. lol



Hey Wendy!

I'll give a different answer... it has to do with respect. Many guys, both old and young, fail to have respect for women, especially on here, and simply think about themselves and getting off. There are both younger and older guys, however, that DO have respect for women, and will seek to get to know the girl first.
Unknown User
Really does Cyber happen here? Well knock me down

Honestly, there is a parable here, let me indulge you.

There's a young bull and an older bull in a field.

A young bull sees the field suddenly full of cows and gets very excited and says to the older bull: "Let's run down there and fuck one of them."

The older bull raises his head slowly after chewing some grass and says: "No, let's walk down there and fuck them all."

And that is the difference.
sundancer2004
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by adi_me33


Oh sorry. Didn't know it was a secret. Lol
well ut really isnt with you
"Block the Duck"!!
CogNomen
Rookie Scribe
You're unlucky if that happens so often you think it the norm. I will chat first. But I do prefer to move into whisper mode to get to know the other person. Doing it in full sight, inhibits the flow of info. And of course, it always is a ladies choice to go further. . ..
Pariah
Active Ink Slinger
I personally find it very annoying because so many women avoid responding to my polite hellos and ice breakers because of the stereotype I'm labelled with. I'm here to chat, read, make "friends" who share a common interest. It's unfair but that's life. Woman arnt the only victims of males selfishness. I notice more to do with my age. It's a shame. It really is
Its not who i am, but what i do that defines me.
Guest
Lurker
I've done it both ways...have had women contact me that go directly into cyber. And I've had others where we chat first...always prefer the chat first. Nice to develop some sort of common interest or connection first.
DarkSide
High Lord of Darkness
There's a young bull and an older bull in a field.
A young bull sees the field suddenly full of cows and gets very excited and says to the older bull: "Let's run down there and fuck one of them."
The older bull raises his head slowly after chewing some grass and says: "No, let's walk down there and fuck them all."
And that is the difference.


Haha - I love this one. Classic.

I thought this was a story writing site anyway! Or you could be choosing to talk to the wrong men!

I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!

Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!
DarkSide
High Lord of Darkness
Millennials are busy people. We ain't got time to piss about and get to know you. We just wanna see some titties, beat the shit outta our meat, and get the fuck on with our day. We got work to do, dammit.

Meanwhile, the baby boomers, with their nice little house in suburbia and their big ass car and a sweet pension coming in, have got all the time in the world to sweet talk you and butter you up while they're trying to get their old wrinkly cocks up.


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Nominated for one of the week's best posts.



That's a cracker - I love it. So glad I stumbled on this thread.

I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!

Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!
Davidls
Active Ink Slinger
The first few times I talked to a particular girl on here I did just talk to her....twice she introduced the subject of doing a role play.....twice I gently said I wanted to get to know her first (and vice versa). Soon after that we did know about each other and, of course, things changed and heated up.

We've now been chatting for six months and she has never forgotten that thoughtfulness. She said it was one of the things that drew her to me...