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What really goes through men's heads when they're cummin or making love?
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When you're making love to a girl what really goes through your mind?
For me, making love to a woman starts long before any form of intercourse. The real answer is way too long for this forum, so I'll assume you meant while things are already hot and steamy. Here's the short answer:
How am I making her feel? Are there goose bumps? how is she responding to what I'm doing? Where did that special spot move off to today? Are her muscles tensing? I listen to her breathing and the unrecognizable sounds spilling out of her lips. Am I going too fast... too slow?
Of course all these thoughts are all in my subconscious... at the surface, I'm just enjoying the opportunity to pleasure a beautiful woman into a state of erotic bliss.
How am I making her feel? Are there goose bumps? how is she responding to what I'm doing? Where did that special spot move off to today? Are her muscles tensing? I listen to her breathing and the unrecognizable sounds spilling out of her lips. Am I going too fast... too slow?
Of course all these thoughts are all in my subconscious... at the surface, I'm just enjoying the opportunity to pleasure a beautiful woman into a state of erotic bliss.
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i'm thinking pretty much the same way: does this feels as good to her as it does to me?
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I love to look at the expression on her face when I am cumming! If she is really making noise and her lips are circled up and tight like she is super into it that adds to the intensity. Sometimes its great to look into each other's eyes when cumming. Actually I love that!
All through the making love I am thinking about the sounds, the feel, the smell, the entire aura of it. Things like thigh stockings, lingerie can sometimes heighten the experience and melt my mind as we are having sex.
I guess you could say I am thinking of savoring every little morsel of the experience.
All through the making love I am thinking about the sounds, the feel, the smell, the entire aura of it. Things like thigh stockings, lingerie can sometimes heighten the experience and melt my mind as we are having sex.
I guess you could say I am thinking of savoring every little morsel of the experience.
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Quote by angelaslater
What really goes through men's heads when they're cummin or making love?
Ok, two different questions.
As I am cummin', my instinct takes over and I want to be in her... as deeply as possible, filling her completely to feel more of her around me. Engulfed in total sensation.
As I am making love, my thoughts are centered on giving her pleasure, arousing her more and easing her toward climax(s). Stimulating her is what stimulates me most.
Oh, I see dude is in this topic, I've got to read his answer ;)
Wise Ass
I am very much like 1curiouscat here, I love it when she cums first.
Most of our love making sessions involve me alternating from going down on her then switching to fucking her nice and hard and back to going down on her again.
The orgasms we both have are amazing to say the least.
Most of our love making sessions involve me alternating from going down on her then switching to fucking her nice and hard and back to going down on her again.
The orgasms we both have are amazing to say the least.
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When I'm making love it's all about making the woman happy. I usually start with a good massage and then move on to kissing and breast stimulation. Then to her abdominal area with lots of kissing and tongue stimulation. After that I pay special attention to her feet and slowly work up to her pussy with slow kissing and licking.
I usually give her oral sex next while concentrating on making it last and not going too fast.
After her first orgasm I usually feel that she's ready for the next level and that is often intercourse.
During intercourse it's easy for the man to get too involved in his orgasm, so I try to make sure she's enjoying it as much as I am and whatever position(s) she wants are fine with me. If we can come together then it's really special.
I honestly think that it's so much harder for a woman to truly enjoy intercourse as much as a man so I'm always very careful to make sure she enjoys it as much as possible.
So...What am I thinking about while I'm making love? I'm thinking about pleasing the woman so she wants to do it again. My satisfaction is usually guaranteed if she is sensual and loves sex.
When I'm cumming I am thinking about nothing but the pure pleasure I'm feeling and that is heightened if she is right there with me and enjoying it too.
I hope I didn't sound too methodical. I'm not really at all. This is merely a rough outline. Making love is an art and a sharing of the most beautiful thing that can happen between willing partners. It changes each time and it's always wonderful for me and hopefully for my partner.
I usually give her oral sex next while concentrating on making it last and not going too fast.
After her first orgasm I usually feel that she's ready for the next level and that is often intercourse.
During intercourse it's easy for the man to get too involved in his orgasm, so I try to make sure she's enjoying it as much as I am and whatever position(s) she wants are fine with me. If we can come together then it's really special.
I honestly think that it's so much harder for a woman to truly enjoy intercourse as much as a man so I'm always very careful to make sure she enjoys it as much as possible.
So...What am I thinking about while I'm making love? I'm thinking about pleasing the woman so she wants to do it again. My satisfaction is usually guaranteed if she is sensual and loves sex.
When I'm cumming I am thinking about nothing but the pure pleasure I'm feeling and that is heightened if she is right there with me and enjoying it too.
I hope I didn't sound too methodical. I'm not really at all. This is merely a rough outline. Making love is an art and a sharing of the most beautiful thing that can happen between willing partners. It changes each time and it's always wonderful for me and hopefully for my partner.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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I have to agree with most here. I'm first thinking of driving her absolutely insane. That's the only thing on my mind. Every part of her is kissed, licked more importantly her reactions and breathing tell everything. Making her orgasm as much as I can. That's what i'm thinking about. Intercourse then becomes so intense with me cumming deep inside her.
So Angela. I think you have some of your answers. Not much else runs though a guys head other than making his girl very happy. Of course himself also.
So Angela. I think you have some of your answers. Not much else runs though a guys head other than making his girl very happy. Of course himself also.
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Quote by HappyEndings
When I'm making love it's all about making the woman happy. I usually start with a good massage and then move on to kissing and breast stimulation. Then to her abdominal area with lots of kissing and tongue stimulation. After that I pay special attention to her feet and slowly work up to her pussy with slow kissing and licking.
I usually give her oral sex next while concentrating on making it last and not going too fast.
After her first orgasm I usually feel that she's ready for the next level and that is often intercourse.
During intercourse it's easy for the man to get too involved in his orgasm, so I try to make sure she's enjoying it as much as I am and whatever position(s) she wants are fine with me. If we can come together then it's really special.
I honestly think that it's so much harder for a woman to truly enjoy intercourse as much as a man so I'm always very careful to make sure she enjoys it as much as possible.
So...What am I thinking about while I'm making love? I'm thinking about pleasing the woman so she wants to do it again. My satisfaction is usually guaranteed if she is sensual and loves sex.
When I'm cumming I am thinking about nothing but the pure pleasure I'm feeling and that is heightened if she is right there with me and enjoying it too.
I hope I didn't sound too methodical. I'm not really at all. This is merely a rough outline. Making love is an art and a sharing of the most beautiful thing that can happen between willing partners. It changes each time and it's always wonderful for me and hopefully for my partner.
Wow wow wow ! Omg where are you lol. There should be more men like you everywhere
Classified
It is all about the giving of total satisfaction. The more given the more pleasure to enjoy.
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In a single word, Unity. To expand, a feeling and thought of being one with the woman whom I love; being together in mind and body as one.
For me, "making love" is the culmination of sharing one's life, expectations and experiences with another human being who has also shared her life openly and willingly with me. The physical pleasure is well beyonf words but becomes secondary to the emotional orgasm.
For me, "making love" is the culmination of sharing one's life, expectations and experiences with another human being who has also shared her life openly and willingly with me. The physical pleasure is well beyonf words but becomes secondary to the emotional orgasm.
Gramps
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
Wild at Heart
Usually during sex I think of many things.
It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!
It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!
Quote by Magical_felix
Usually during sex I think of many things.
It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!
Really you think about poor baby deers and their mums. Don't lie.
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Really you think about poor baby deers and their mums. Don't lie.
There is nothing wrong with turning on Bambi in the background while banging some plain jane to remind me of sexy bikini girl above. So the part where Bambi's mom got shot made me limp for a bit... Sue me.
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It's ready for you!
Oh my god...... Like... Like I think I have found the thing I need to get me through those bikini girl-less nights... Slap a wig on that thing and its dead on. It even has that sultry look in it's eye. Long legs and everything...
Hic. 
Same as everyone else here. I dig it when my girl is feeling good and having fun. It definitely seems like a hit with some girls when I just do what I want, but I can still usually work in some tender, loving care. Coming, I don't really think. I just want to be inside when it happens.
Also, this:
Also, this:
Quote by Magical_felix
Usually during sex I think of many things.
It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!
This made me laugh.
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I ALWAYS WONDER IF I CAN POUNDER HER CUNT ANY HARDER. I WANT TO SNAP HER IN TWO LIKE A TWIG. OMG SHE FUCKS LIKE A PRO....WONDER IF THAT IS WHAT THE $20.00 WAS FOR?
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I ALWAYS WONDER IF I CAN POUNDER HER CUNT ANY HARDER. I WANT TO SNAP HER IN TWO LIKE A TWIG. OMG SHE FUCKS LIKE A PRO....WONDER IF THAT IS WHAT THE $20.00 WAS FOR?
First ....um doubt that. Second no need to yell my man.
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Quote by Magical_felix
Usually during sex I think of many things.
It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!
Thank you for your honesty, Felix! in all honesty, usually i am super into what's going on sexually, into my partner, but there have been times when, for whatever reason, i've not been into him/her, and it goes something like this as well...
Hmm... he's got nose hairs, he should trim them, really, not so attractive, and wow, what is that he's doing, is that supposed to be some sort of turn on for me or for him? it's kind of weird, and a little uncomfortable... did i remember to put the milk in the fridge? dammit, i bet i did, i should go home after this and check, i hope the kittens aren't into the plastic bags again and... oh, damn, chipped my nail polish, i should get more, i really like this color, it's super pretty, and oh, wow, is that his "i'm cumming" face? holy crap, looks like he's constipated! i should call Cindy after this, she'll get a kick out of that, oh, and maybe she'll be into a movie, i still haven't seen the new Spielberg, it looks good, too. Woah, dude, that is SO not my clit, and even if it was, that's so not what i want done with it! damn, and he's got a booger stuck in his nostril now, ew! ok, close my eyes, and yeah, here goes, fake orgasm face, please please please fall asleep now, if i'm quiet i can sneak out, glad i didn't give him my number or name!
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Thank you for your honesty, Felix! in all honesty, usually i am super into what's going on sexually, into my partner, but there have been times when, for whatever reason, i've not been into him/her, and it goes something like this as well...
Hmm... he's got nose hairs, he should trim them, really, not so attractive, and wow, what is that he's doing, is that supposed to be some sort of turn on for me or for him? it's kind of weird, and a little uncomfortable... did i remember to put the milk in the fridge? dammit, i bet i did, i should go home after this and check, i hope the kittens aren't into the plastic bags again and... oh, damn, chipped my nail polish, i should get more, i really like this color, it's super pretty, and oh, wow, is that his "i'm cumming" face? holy crap, looks like he's constipated! i should call Cindy after this, she'll get a kick out of that, oh, and maybe she'll be into a movie, i still haven't seen the new Spielberg, it looks good, too. Woah, dude, that is SO not my clit, and even if it was, that's so not what i want done with it! damn, and he's got a booger stuck in his nostril now, ew! ok, close my eyes, and yeah, here goes, fake orgasm face, please please please fall asleep now, if i'm quiet i can sneak out, glad i didn't give him my number or name!
And that's why I tend not to bed women I'm not in some form of relationship with, hahaha.
In-House Sapiosexual
Well, that's how I like it. I wonder if it's working for her?!?!
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Quote by sprite
Thank you for your honesty, Felix! in all honesty, usually i am super into what's going on sexually, into my partner, but there have been times when, for whatever reason, i've not been into him/her, and it goes something like this as well...
Hmm... he's got nose hairs, he should trim them, really, not so attractive, and wow, what is that he's doing, is that supposed to be some sort of turn on for me or for him? it's kind of weird, and a little uncomfortable... did i remember to put the milk in the fridge? dammit, i bet i did, i should go home after this and check, i hope the kittens aren't into the plastic bags again and... oh, damn, chipped my nail polish, i should get more, i really like this color, it's super pretty, and oh, wow, is that his "i'm cumming" face? holy crap, looks like he's constipated! i should call Cindy after this, she'll get a kick out of that, oh, and maybe she'll be into a movie, i still haven't seen the new Spielberg, it looks good, too. Woah, dude, that is SO not my clit, and even if it was, that's so not what i want done with it! damn, and he's got a booger stuck in his nostril now, ew! ok, close my eyes, and yeah, here goes, fake orgasm face, please please please fall asleep now, if i'm quiet i can sneak out, glad i didn't give him my number or name!
Damn sweetheart, when you have about an inch of brown roots showing, you aren't convincing anyone you're a real blonde... I'm surprised you're as tight as you are, really, kudos... Your ass is really nice too, that tribal butterfly right above it is god awful though. I should aim my cum at it, that will make me laugh on the inside... That squeak noise you're making, not sure if you're faking that or if it's your real 'thing'. I wonder if you realize how much I'm not really trying... I'm getting kinda tired, fuck I want to cum already... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal... Fuck it's not working! My dinner was pretty good.. I'm surprised, usually I don't like restaurant Mexican food, you sure do though... You gobbled up those fajitas like you had a plane to catch... God I hope you don't fart in your sleep again, yeah I heard that. I can tell you were awake cause you stopped breathing when it 'slipped' out... You should have seen the look on my face... I mean yeah, I know chicks fart too but that was like a grown ass man who likes seconds and thirds... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal... Fuck, I think my phone is almost dead... I wonder if she'll notice if I pull up some iPhone porn... I need to cum already... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Martha stewart, FUCK IM CUMMING!
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Damn sweetheart, when you have about an inch of brown roots showing, you aren't convincing anyone you're a real blonde... I'm surprised you're as tight as you are, really, kudos... Your ass is really nice too, that tribal butterfly right above it is god awful though. I should aim my cum at it, that will make me laugh on the inside... That squeak noise you're making, not sure if you're faking that or if it's your real 'thing'. I wonder if you realize how much I'm not really trying... I'm getting kinda tired, fuck I want to cum already... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal... Fuck it's not working! My dinner was pretty good.. I'm surprised, usually I don't like restaurant Mexican food, you sure do though... You gobbled up those fajitas like you had a plane to catch... God I hope you don't fart in your sleep again, yeah I heard that. I can tell you were awake cause you stopped breathing when it 'slipped' out... You should have seen the look on my face... I mean yeah, I know chicks fart too but that was like a grown ass man who likes seconds and thirds... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal... Fuck, I think my phone is almost dead... I wonder if she'll notice if I pull up some iPhone porn... I need to cum already... Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Jessica beal, Martha stewart, FUCK IM CUMMING!
He's kind of a cheap date, i mean really, it wasn't that expensive and i've been all over him all night, so he knows he's getting some and yet he still makes me pay for half? and yeah, his cocks a little small but... oh, that was nice, ok, this one knows what a clits for, yeah, baby and... oh, so that's it for foreplay? i mean, there was potential.. now his sister, damn, i wonder if she's into girls, i mean, when i showed up at the door, she was flirting a little, and she's kind of cute, hmm... wait a minute, woah, dude, you are NOT trying to put it in my butt, cause... oh, ok, bad aim is all, no worries... mmm... that feels nice... she was hot too, and i loved that skirt she was wearing, very hot topic, i should go there later and see if i can find it in my size, maybe pick up a new pair of tights too, it's getting to be winter and, omg, he is so not drooling all over my face! yuck! slobbery kisses! Jessica Beal, Jessica Beal, Jessica Beal, Hugh Jackman! oh, yeah yeah, do me, Wolverine, come on, come on, come... what? that's it? ok, buddy, you owe me for dinner!
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.