I know its a horrible question, but im soooo pissed off, I hated by body before but now i hate it even more so with 2 previous c-sections neither by choice might i add, does not in anyway make me feel sexy or beautiful...
what are you guys thoughts on this, the afterwards scaring, does it really turn you off.... as you never see in porn these things got me thinking its a big no no
please be honest im soo torn up about this....
Thanks
Dee
Yes im the small bitchy chick in the corner, set me off and man do you know about it !!!
I have had several partners who have had Caesareans. In one case the scar was almost undetectable as it was very neat and she used make up to conceal it. My current partner has a much less neat scar and doesn't make any attempt to mask it. It's part of her, I love her as she is. Guys worry far less about these minor blemishes than girls think. If a guy is put off by a C section scar you are better off without him, he must be as shallow as a puddle.
The upside is your vagina is still lovely and tight.
Ask the guys "tight pussy or no C section scar?" I can tell you the answer most will give !!!!
Hunny, You are beautiful! The most amazing accomplishment of any woman is to bring a child into the world. If a man can't respect the fact that you created life, then he doesn't deserve you, and for sure someone you wouldn't want in your life. I have had 2 cesareans, luckily my scar isn't much more than a papercut, but even being like that, I don't even think about it, or considered it a flaw. I can say for certain if a man is planning to have sex with you, they aren't going to be searching your body for imperfections because they've already found enough reason to take you.
Your man should love you even more since your beautiful children came out of where those scars are.
DeeNZ, Don't worry one bit about having scars from a C-section. Any man that is so shallow as to judge you by that is not anyone you want to have anything to do with either!
A real man wouldn't pay any attention to scars like that (or any other scars I might add). Everyone of us had one flaw here or there that we don't like about ourselves - it's only natural. But that doesn't make you any less beautiful anymore than missing a question on some test makes you stupid.
Scars mean that you have lived life for all of its bumps and bruises and survived. The "beauty" comes from how you survived it and what it has made you on the other end.
My wife had two big babies after long labours, and a c section with our third. So she has lots of stretch marks, and a c section scar as well as an appendectomy scar, done when she was 4 months pregnant with our first, so it stretched a lot as well.
But so what! She's my woman, and we've spent years together loving each other since then.
If ypou have someone who is concerned about these, then he may not be worthy of you.
Ok I find "Mommy Tummy" so sexy. What it represents is extremely hot. Any man who has an issue with this is no man at all.
Wear you tiger stripes, and scar with pride.
Our son was born by section and I don't really notice the scar on her anymore but that's on someone I've been with for over twenty years who has had that scar for fifteen of them. Not sure if I'd feel differently if it was someone I was getting it on with for the first time but I have a few scars and blemishes of my own so I hope it wouldn't bother me if mine don't bother her.
Not an issue with me. I will still kiss her tummy.
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
yah its not soo much stretch marks i didnt add too much weight due to complications, just the scaring, the after care cant do some things as i used too.. i hated the scar before and i hate it now, plus the whole no exercises part i didn't get so yes alot of issues afterwards but as i keep sayin its only been 13 weeks
Yes im the small bitchy chick in the corner, set me off and man do you know about it !!!
When someone desires you and there is a loving connection, the scars and marks are not a factor. Sometimes our emotional scars won't let us enjoy the moment. Loving and accepting yourself is first. Finding someone who sees you and past the flaws is a treasure.
My first encounter with this was when my wife and I got together. My thoughts were how incredible it is. She however was embarrassed about it and after having had 2 more with my children it doesn't bother me at all. I think its a miracle of life that a woman can have a child either way, heck now some schedule to have a child that way.
I have had two c-sections and I wear my scars with pride that I brought two beautiful babies into the word. So worth any scars.
Out of the mouth of babes!
- realistically though, most women don't)
