It's about equal with my wife. Huge turn on for me to get a blow job from someone that likes giving them (guy or gal). Some nights (or days even) I just want to eat her out from top to bottom, adn go around again!
I know this was for the guys but I'm going to answer for Hubbie my regular lovers, and me. I can tell you Hubbie and several of my other regular lovers gets a great deal of pleasure in pleasing their partners first. I can not remember a guy turning down a blow job, especially one of my regular lovers. They know that when they cum in my mouth that I will be having a very pleasing orgasm too. Sex, wether sport fucking or making love, is so much better when the satisfaction is mutual and complete.
Brandie
I have spent my life loving to give women pleasure over and above what I would receive.
I always make my wife cum four or five times before I do.
I've been that way with every woman I have ever been with. They cum first.
Don't take me wrong I like a blowjob but I will pleasure my woman several times before I will take mine..
I love pleasing the one I am with first. The best times I have had were those where I teased and took my time getting my other all hot and excited. The sexual tension as I teased and lightly touched her got to the point where she would just shake uncontrollably. Would much rather please the one I am with first, versus expecting her to please me first. Many times I let the whole night be just about her pleasure.
I enjoy giving more than receiving. I get more pleasure from my partner’s orgasm than my own. I still enjoy being pleasured with a blow job though. Sex is about the pleasure we can give each other.
It's really not a "weird" question at all. We all have different things that please us. For me oral is just a warm up for the fun stuff and I like her hand on me just as much as her mouth. There are many people who are not sexual at all and it's really not that they can't find anyone, it's just their nature.
I am one as well. Just never worked for me just to sit back and receive. Love to give. Love to touch. But to ONLY receive, just not satisfying and virtually impossible for me to finish from oral alone.
yep, I am that way, get hard and off more from making her orgasm
I can take or leave blow jobs. But I love licking fannies.