Started out as just talk during some hot nights, and our chance appeared after a few years. Got that "look" & got her aside, she was open about -he's the one, I really want him, but only if you are OK. Saw my grin, whispered "you are so kinky", then back to the room & Sandi started hitting on him. Took me to assure him I was OK, but wanted to be there first time.
Got back to or place and took turns keeping Sandi busy all night. Turned out to be a decent guy, still hear from him occasionally, but moved many, many miles away so don't get together.
That was thirty some years ago, and didn't regret it for a minute. and our "horizons" expanded from there...
Went down that road, I begged her into it and since she was unwilling to share me so I agreed to be a just a "watcher". Once I got her started she took over and now years later she gets it on without me, I don't even get to watch any more telling me I was "too interested in the men" (true) and I'm getting what I begged for.
I'm left to wonder about every man I meet - are they smiling or smirking? Don't ask me why it but it excites me to think every man smiling at me is thinking "cuckold" - but sure does!
I'm not good at just watching or sharing.
I'm always surprised how many married guys have this fantasy myself included. I would have never considered when younger but now in my mid 50's the idea is exciting but more watching her do oral on another, love watching her when she does me the idea of seeing her to that with another is very hot. That being said I'm sure the fantasy is much better than the reality and he would have to be a special guy someone we both liked and felt comfortable with. We both enjoy the fantasy for the time being.
Having been on the swinging lifestyle scene for a few years now I've watched my wife with other men and they have watched me with their wives. My wife and I both find it enhances our mutual pleasure when we involve others in our fun.
Really don't think I could stop at just watching. For some reason I'd feel a need to be involved. But to watch another man fuck his own wife? Sure. I could do that if someone wanted an audience. So long as they didn't mind me taking care of myself while they did.
Never been married, tho I'd probably not have a problem with it. Have shared several gf of mine, been shared by several gf. Been the extra guy or one of the several extra guys the wife was shared with. I hope a woman I married at this point would be someone with the experience, capacity, and judgement that i could trust her andshare her joy in this.
my two cents worth.....ummm NO!
I guess I'm very traditional and there is NO WAY I'd go for a woman I cared about having sex with any man but myself.
Now with another woman as long as I got to watch? I'm not sure but if she wanted it I don't think I'd object.
"I think he should be careful what he asks for sometimes it isn't what you'd expected! Few women can separate sex and emotion." This quote is very true in my opinion and I've had a few relationships with women that really didn't start until we started having sex together and ended abruptly when we stopped. In my honest opinion most women link sex and love so closely that they can't separate them. It appears that there are some women here on Lush that feel differently but I will opine that they aren't typical women. I will qualify that by saying that I only know American women and it is quite possible that women from different countries and/or cultures might be totally different.
We on Lush often forget that we're probably not a typical cross section of society and are quite likely made up mostly of oversexed horny people looking for an outlet for our sex drives that our everyday lives don't furnish.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
Absolutely! I think about this possibility often. I want to watch her get taken and enjoy someone she does not know.
OMG yes! With the right person absolutely ! Maybe more!
I have had the fantasy (sort of - oral sex only), and we have even talked about it, but I think the reality would be far different, with me getting all jealous and territorial and ruining the whole thing. I think it's best if it remains a fantasy. It's a pretty hot fantasy, though, and talking about it together is nearly as hot as doing it, maybe hotter, because reality doesn't rear its head and fuck things up.
Win-win!
I've enjoyed watching several of my gf's with other guys, girls and in group scenarios. I have always encouraged that kind of thing with my partners.
Yes I have enjoyed the sights and she has seen me playing also. It was planned and we both benifited from it.
The wife and I are swingers, we have been in the same room and watched each other have sex with another person but when you have to sit by yourself and watch your partner do her/his thing, it is a huge turn on, I loved it. It is hard to not want to jump in but it is amazing later when you replay it.
I have watched my wife with another man and find it to be very exciting and she has seen me with another woman.
Absolutely not. I don't see the turn on in that.
I brought it up to my wife the first year we were married and she was interested but was afraid she might get pregnant. Years later she had to have a hysterectomy and that really turned her out. She was all for it but the guys had to be black and I couldn't have any other woman. I knew I wasn't keeping her satisfied so if I didn't let her do it she was going to cheat eventually. Anyway she spent almost 10 years being a hotwife and all the men were black.
yes...I`d like to se my wife fucked by other man; but this is just fantasy. I asked my wife at list to film one of her`s adventures but she didn`t alow anyone to film her
No . The reverse is also true .
It's a hot fantasy but I'm not sure it would work out as I imagine it.
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We've done it and it has improved our sex lives. I would always screw her gently or just not overly rough. Well, we did this mfm threesome and this guy was working the hell out of her. Slamming against her hips, pulling her hair hard, everything. For him, fucking her was all about what he wanted, she was just the outlet. She was panting and getting louder than I ever heard. We talked about it afterward and it turned out she was really into that. So now, I have learned to be way more aggressive about fucking her. We still do the lovemaking thing but when she's giving me that playful vibe, I fuck it like I'm trying to wreck it.
For me, I'd love to enjoy her with another straight guy...part of that could be watching the two of them fucking, but definitely would enjoy taking turns with her and her having the pleasure of two cocks at the same time.
A common topic in wife sharing posts is that the fantasy is fine but actually doing it may be different. I know it is – even from the ‘other man’ perspective. Having a man ask you to shag his wife is a great fantasy. The first few times I actually did it, it was weird as hell at the start of a session together. Lifting her skirt, eating her pussy with hubby sitting a metre or so away seems very odd, let alone when she climbed on my cock. All sorts of things go through your mind, like ‘Is he really OK with this, or is it all going to suddenly get nasty?’
Two things made me carry on. One, his wife had already come to see me (er, have sex!) without him. He knew all about it and actively encouraged her to come again. So basically, I knew how incredibly good she was! Two, he wouldn’t have come with her to see me if he didn’t want me to fuck her – I knew already that she wanted it – so you can’t disappoint people can you? (lol)
Personally, I’m so glad we three didn’t leave it a fantasy, but that will not be the case in every arrangement.
