im a virgin- yes i really am!
but does that turn u on or turn off? just being curious like!
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So you can maintain the lifestyle that insults this family's existence"
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Quote by realz
Now that I'm older, any woman old enough to be in my range and is still a virgin probably has serious issues with sex, and I'd keep her in the 'just friends' category.
Brilliant!I will add that, when I was of an age where virginity wasn't an indicator of issues, the trust shown and the plain "gift" of being her first was always flattering. She'd said "no" to everyone before, but not to me, not tonight.... This is true of any act at any age.
Quite apart from the whole "experience" issue there's an emotional side to the Virginity Question....
When I was (much) younger, I had several girlfriends, (four to be exact) who were virgins when we began sleeping together... Of course my first time was with a girl when I too was a virgin and we waited and practiced a lot and when we went for it it was quite wonderful...
I remembered that when afterwards dealing with inexperienced girls later on.... Don't rush it.... Be gentle.... Be trustworthy and care about her... And then fuck like porn stars when she gets into it!!!!
As I entered my late 20s I did date some inexperienced girls once again... But by then I was really playing the field and didn't feel it would be right to take someone's virginity when realistically, I knew that there was no real future in the relationship.... It's a big deal after all, (mine was!) and shouldn't be cheapened....
I'm old enough to know, and I've heard stories from other partners, that most people's first time isn't always pleasant... I guess I was lucky and I'm really glad that the girls I had have no regrets about what we did.... Quite the opposite....
As to the inherent attractiveness of virgins well you've got to be joking.... A man who WANTS a virgin, per say, is weird.....
We can and do talk about sex a lot here..... I really do believe that losing your virginity should be about Love..... (It might not last, but if it was present at the time you'll always remember it and smile.....)
Like I said, I was lucky and I loved a fine girl..... I hope you find the same...
xx SF
When I was (much) younger, I had several girlfriends, (four to be exact) who were virgins when we began sleeping together... Of course my first time was with a girl when I too was a virgin and we waited and practiced a lot and when we went for it it was quite wonderful...
I remembered that when afterwards dealing with inexperienced girls later on.... Don't rush it.... Be gentle.... Be trustworthy and care about her... And then fuck like porn stars when she gets into it!!!!
As I entered my late 20s I did date some inexperienced girls once again... But by then I was really playing the field and didn't feel it would be right to take someone's virginity when realistically, I knew that there was no real future in the relationship.... It's a big deal after all, (mine was!) and shouldn't be cheapened....
I'm old enough to know, and I've heard stories from other partners, that most people's first time isn't always pleasant... I guess I was lucky and I'm really glad that the girls I had have no regrets about what we did.... Quite the opposite....
As to the inherent attractiveness of virgins well you've got to be joking.... A man who WANTS a virgin, per say, is weird.....
We can and do talk about sex a lot here..... I really do believe that losing your virginity should be about Love..... (It might not last, but if it was present at the time you'll always remember it and smile.....)
Like I said, I was lucky and I loved a fine girl..... I hope you find the same...
xx SF
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Virgins were a major turn on when I was younger (like high school and early college). Now that I have more experience, I like a woman with some experience so she can teach me some things. Also, I like when a woman knows what works for her to get off. As mentioned above, virgins require a lot of patience and are a significant time commitment.
I agree with the sentiments mentioned above about women my age who are virgins. My wife has a friend who is still a virgin at 27 years old and she is a combination of extreme religious beliefs and baggage.
I agree with the sentiments mentioned above about women my age who are virgins. My wife has a friend who is still a virgin at 27 years old and she is a combination of extreme religious beliefs and baggage.
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Quote by stephanie
Quite apart from the whole "experience" issue there's an emotional side to the Virginity Question....
When I was (much) younger, I had several girlfriends, (four to be exact) who were virgins when we began sleeping together... Of course my first time was with a girl when I too was a virgin and we waited and practiced a lot and when we went for it it was quite wonderful...
I remembered that when afterwards dealing with inexperienced girls later on.... Don't rush it.... Be gentle.... Be trustworthy and care about her... And then fuck like porn stars when she gets into it!!!!
As I entered my late 20s I did date some inexperienced girls once again... But by then I was really playing the field and didn't feel it would be right to take someone's virginity when realistically, I knew that there was no real future in the relationship.... It's a big deal after all, (mine was!) and shouldn't be cheapened....
I'm old enough to know, and I've heard stories from other partners, that most people's first time isn't always pleasant... I guess I was lucky and I'm really glad that the girls I had have no regrets about what we did.... Quite the opposite....
As to the inherent attractiveness of virgins well you've got to be joking.... A man who WANTS a virgin, per say, is weird.....
We can and do talk about sex a lot here..... I really do believe that losing your virginity should be about Love..... (It might not last, but if it was present at the time you'll always remember it and smile.....)
Like I said, I was lucky and I loved a fine girl..... I hope you find the same...
xx SF
I really do believe that losing your virginity should be about Love..... (It might not last, but if it was present at the time you'll always remember it and smile.....)
This is an example of why I dig you. I like the way you think .... most of the time.
