Stephanie makes a good point. There are a lot of things that can add to attractiveness. A great body, legs, hair, etc. But personality can add tremendously and it can also take away. Some woman may have a gorgeous face but once you talk with them their obnoxious personality and snotty attitude can make them real ugly real fast. But I have seen many instances where a girl's attractiveness is greatly improved by all those other factors, especially her personality and outgoing attitude.
It's all a matter of biology; according to Darwin the difference between a dog and a fox is about 12 scotches.
I don't think anybody deserves to be pigeon holed as ugly.
One thing I do know is that as you get older, you appreciate the female form more and more, and things that you wouldn't have thought of in your teens are very sexy - such as the way she talks, laughs, stares at you, snaps at you sometimes.
Also, if you are like me and are not blessed with great looks, then you have to realise that she has made allowances for you.
to me looks do not matter. as long as they are good in bed and are personable thats all I need
"All cats are gray in the dark."~Ben Franklin
Ugly girls need love too.
What is "ugly"? I don't believe at all that beauty is a scientifically measurable thing. Or if it is, I'm so far out of the consensus that I can't relate to it. I look at winners of "Miss This" and "Miss That" contests and wonder, "What were they thinking?" I see very pretty women, even beautiful women, every day, but they tend not to be on the covers or in the centerfolds of magazines.
I basically think that the women I like are nice to look at. But do I like them because they're pretty, or are they pretty to me because I like them?
Looks are subjective. I find women sexy in different ways. Some people consider women I think are sexy ugly and vice versa.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder i think thats sums it up.
I have had lovers that would be considered unattractive by society's standards but there was something that attracted me to them or I wouldn't have fucked them in the first place. Now if they look like Freakshow then nooooooo...don't do boils.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
It would really depend on what would be considered ugly, as we all have our unique tastes in what we find attractive or not.
But I would have to say that I would have to be at least somewhat physically attracted to the person to have sex with them. I've known girls that I would consider attractive and I know other men would also, and they had great personalities too, but I would just never feel any physical sexual attraction to the person.
No, I cannot sleep with ugly women. Sorry!
Define ugly!
Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder ...surely?
Jokes aside; beauty is, of course, the initial attraction. Be it face, smile or boobs that first get you to look/take notice. But one has to have that initial attraction.
Thereafter it comes down to who washed.
Again; jokes aside. The actual person then takes over. And then it depends on what you find attractive or interesting in a person.
Is it intelligence, the way she speaks, the way she walks ...or even just the way she moves her mouth when she talks.
There are so many facets to one's taste in the opposite sex ...or same sex for that matter.
Life is all about choices ...and yes, I have slept with some ugly ducklings - but OMG, they turn into swans in the bedroom/boardroom/car bonnet ...etc
"Ugly" is an attitude, and I don't spend time with ugly people. Some of the most fascinating people I've ever known have looked unconventional.
Personally I have had some ugly boyfriends. I am attracted to a persons attitude...seriously, if they have a good attitude and can make me laugh I would date them. As for sex, I listen to my body, it responds to people automatically. I have had instant physical attraction to someone who was ugly and been repelled by attractive people. And as Mazza said looks are subjective.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
Define Ugly. To me you can find beauty in every one, especially a female. Whether it is their personality, eyes, smiles, or whatever. So no I would not have sex with an ugly girl, because there is no such thing.
Define ugly! Does she look like a guy, complete with a moustache? Unless she is a total clock stopper, it wouldn't matter to me! I don't need to go to bed with Brittney Spears! If there is a connection on a deeper level, why not?
Pretty chicks, Relationship: Ugly Chicks....well if the body is ok and I'm really horny as hell then one night stand
To be honest and this may sound rude, but I've hooked up with some girls that I usually say "She's pretty in her own little way" lol ahahah! Most of the time, its someone that has an ok face nothing to crazy messed up. But most of the time she as to have a decent to great body and an awesome personality. Everyone looks the same in the dark but not everyone feels the same! ahaha!
The only "ugly" girls are the ones with a nasty personality who are totally stuck on themselves... one of the plastic people. No I wouldn't sleep with them, they are an instant turn-off.
If I were looking to sleep with someone other that my wife, she would have a genuine spirit, posess a good sense of humor with kind eyes, and be loving and passionate. She would be comfortable with herself. She would be a lady first with a devilishly seductive side. Sexuality begins in a woman's heart and mind - then it flows out to her surface features. Those are the women who interest me sexually.
Ugly Girls are like The Devil...... (They only exist you believe they exist...)
xx SF
I've been with a few munters (i feel qualified to call them munters, being a munter myself) and I've found that looks don't matter to me. I'm more attracted to energy anyway, like charisma or perhaps that little something that you can't quite put your finger on, but maybe the fact that I'm sexually deviant and will fuck anything that moves makes some difference.
If you go just by looks that makes you superficial. I am a girl and i have been called ugly more than once and that hurts. It really should not be about looks it shoould be about the connection you have with someone. Personally I would rather be with someone who is ugly that someone who cares just about their looks and themselves
Sometimes ugly people look good on the outside. Get to know them before you make an opinion.
Some of the best fucks I ever had were with less than average looks and bodies , they are smoking hot in bed becasue they dont get enough fucking
One more thing: Tell a girl
She's beautiful a million times AND SHE'LL NEVER
BELIEVE YOU. Call her ugly
even once, and she'll NEVER FORGET. So be careful with a ladies heart.