Do attractive, fit men actually like chubby girls? For example I'm still an hourglass figure, but have a tummy and am considered "fat" by many. I don't have cankles and can still work out and run. I have several girlfriends that are apple shaped and at least 100lbs more that sleep with "attractive" men all the time, men I would consider out of my league and not interested in big girls. My question is are attractive men into big girls? Men in uniform, work out buffs, lawyers etc.
I have a friend who did, so it obviously happens. Now that I think of it, one of my uncles married an overweight girl and they've been married 36 years.
I'm decidedly curvy (see: my avatar, which is me) and decidedly big, in the sense that I'm 6' tall and ~180 lbs. Never had any issue with men not being interested in me.
Do beware those who are attracted to you for your body type alone, though.
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I'm not the most buff guy out there, but I'm not too bad either. I enjoy women of all types and shapes, keeps life interesting.
That said, super skinny women don't do a lot for me at all
this seems a bit odd to ask. i say that because in your post you stated that you have friends heavier than you who have slept with men you consider attractive. are you asking if attractive men are 'really' into big women? as in want a committed relationship with them?
Honey Dipped, I mean in general. It seems men that I consider attractive dont look twice at bigger girls. They seem to want barbie.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
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Don't believe everything that you read.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
I'm not fit or skinny myself, but personally, I prefer women to be soft, rather than just bones and muscles. However, there's a point where chubby/curvy/cute crosses the line to obese/unattractive.
But the most attractive feature of a woman is personality and confidence.
Don't believe everything that you read.
I am not a fit buff Adonis type guy but I can hold my own I think.. With that being said I prefer my lady to have curves and a little cushion for the pushin lol..Even fat or obese woman can be attractive if they take care of dressing styles and don't dress shabbily......... A woman's best attribute is her mind and how she see's herself !!
I don't know if I'm the type of man you find attractive, but I think you're pretty damn sexy. You have a great body, curvy in all the right places.
I think everyone has there different types and tend to go for those types. For me confidence is everything and sexy regardless of the shape . I enjoy the company of confident women as it makes conversation much easier and more enjoyable without it seeming like work ,interviewing people .
I think I prefer chubbier girls.. had to think about that. I definitely prefer chubbier than skinnier but to be honest I don't focus on body shape a great deal..., I think a smile ...one which includes the eyes... is what will attract me most.
Chubby, thick, curvy, call it what you want. A woman with a little more is a little better, body wise.
Yes please...all the above. Been with most sizes...and they all bring something g special to the table.
I like chubby, soft and curvaceous
well i havent been fit for some time but i always liked chunky women even when i was fit.
For the most part, a womans shape is not what attracts me to her... its her sense of humor, her confidence and ability to hold a good conversation that makes me desire her...
Well I know one firefighter who doesn't mind a girl with curves! I dislike those skinny as a rail, hug them too tight and they'll break, walking skeletons that they call runway models. I like to feel a little cushion when I hug a girl. Don't get me wrong, I don't go for the girls who are shapped like a 55 gallon drum either, but if she has a little curvature to her, then that's fine by me. Like they say the straight road will get you there quicker but it isn't near as much fun! ;)
Yes. Men are into all types. Women are so beautiful when they begin to gain the understanding of their true power, which transcends any size, shape, color etc. We find large women extremely attractive when they suddenly blossom...
Skinny isn’t sexy - much prefer girls with some meat on their bones!
Men will fuck a cantaloupe if they are horny enough.
Honestly, if the question were “what’s most attractive” then the answer would be confidence. Skinny/fit gals that fit that ‘socially-accepted definition’ of attractive do tend to have more confidence, likely because they fit that look and know it, but not fitting ‘the look’ is not even close to being a deal breaker. I’ve been attracted to many big girls because of their personalities while I’ve been completely turned off from some thinner ladies due to their negative behavior. Besides, that ‘socially-accepted definition’ of beauty shouldn’t be given too much stock. Every woman will have a different shape and for every shape there will be plenty of dudes who are attracted to it.
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