How can you tell the difference between love and lust?????????????????? As a woman I feel I'm getting more confused and I need some male straight forward talk!
"Lust" is where she can walk away and you just say, "That's all right. Plenty more where I found her."
Love for me is when I'm not around her and all I can think about is her, even when around other attractive women.
I was taught that the difference between the two are; ....spit or swallow
Lust is when you want to know what it's like, love is when you want to know what she's like.
Don't kid yourself, lust is a necessary evil.
Let me share with you something I had to remind my own dear wife about when she asked a similar question. I wrote it down for her because I wanted her to have a record of how I felt at that precise moment when she asked me (and because I'll probably never be this insightful again).
"When we met it was pure 'Lust', the hunger for you was clearly evident in my eyes, but tempered by etiquette that demanded that we get to know each other a little before even thinking we could have sex. As we got to know each other we recognised the lust for each other through our eyes and revelled in it's pleasure, however, lust became tempered with 'Love' as I grew to really know you, to feel a connection I had never felt before. Oh trust me, the lust for you has never waned, but my love has grown stronger than lust and will sustain us until the day we die. Every day I try to show my love with my actions, my sacrifices and my dedication to you. The beauty of this evolution is that we have both recognised each others commitment and neither of us ever questioned the depth of the relationship because we each just knew we were meant to be togther. So, the answer to your question is that I both love and lust you, and will do so until the day I die."
I meant every word and 'Yes' to the less romantic of you out there......I so got laid that night!!!!
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Lust is when you can walk away and think 'plenty more fish in the sea'
Love is when you cant live without the other person
Love is what you need kind of like food to survive. Lust is what colors your passion and gives your heart wings and is what you need to live. That's how it works for me anyway.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! The difference between Love and Lust, is when you are in Love with someone, they are all you can think about, and you want to be with them all the time, even if that means, just cuddeling in their arms, and when you are not talking to them, or spending time with them, you are thinking about them. Now Lust, is when you just think about how good they can make you feel, and how bad you just want to have them in the bed with you.
Falling in love twice and losing both makes it easy to distinguish between love and lust. The warmth of being in love and the pain of losing it stay with you a very long time.
Love is when you don't even see her body, just her smile, and it makes you smile.
Lust to me is "I want to fuck her! Now! I dont care where!"
Love is "I dont realy care about me, just as long as i get her off at least 5 times"
Love is never having to say your sorry. Lust is never having to say anything at all.
Love is an emotion. No matter how pissed off she makes me, I still desire her affections.
Lust is an action. Not interested in the mind, just the ability to please each other physically.
" Fuck me harder !! errr forgot your name " this is lust, " I love you and will love you for the rest of my life, love me tender my beloved " this is love
Love is waking up in the morning and having breakfast together. Lust is quietly sneaking out at 3am hoping to not be seen.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Love is the ache you feel when you're not together. Lust is the relief you feel when you're apart.
To me, lust is purely superficial...it's purely animalistic...it's only about hot sex and desire. Love is wanting to be with that special person...taking care of them and them taking care of you. Will to put up with the good and the bad no matter what. Lust is base desire and I want to fuck you as hard as I can, cum, and then leave.
you've got a point actually LOL
