entirely indifferent. you take it off... i take it off... that guy takes it off... she takes it off... you don't wear one to begin with might be easiest eh?
I prefer taking off part of process as I caress them.
As a woman, there's aspects to both that are enjoyable ;)
I will often unclasp but then let him remove. If he's standing behind me during early moments of passion he will unclasp. Or often I'm just not wearing one.
A long time ago I slept with a (unknown to me) sweet virgin boy that I thought was just overly polite and respectful. I undid the top of my bikini and hell the look of pure desire in his eyes as it slowly revealed each breast was amazing. So I'm happy to help and take my time with it. He doesn't look at me with such wonder and surprise anymore though haha.
I love to undress a woman and gradually show appreciation for each part of the unveiling, or each area/part stepping into the center stage area as a piece of clothing is removed.
It really lets her know HOW she is valued---in my case treasured and appreciated: 'he just loves to squeeze my ass when he gets a chance!' It gives her your mind perhaps more clearly than you may see it yourself. There is a whole conversation going on there.
When she removes her clothes, she has total control over what you see, and there is a time for her to let you know what she wants you to 'notice,' and 'look over.' If she goes out and buys something for me like at a lingerie store, then she wants me to notice her in some way. Perhaps a way I haven't before. So then I let her be the the one in charge of her own unveiling.
All this to say: I like to do it as it thrills me to be so gifted: granted with her permission to do it. To me, there is a trust in intimacy there.
Don't really care who does it, unless I already gave instructions that it should be me.
Undressing, in general though, I prefer if I get to dicate the tempo and do it myself.
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I used to giggle when my bf tried to unclip me at the back and was getting frustrated.. I had a few where they unclipped in the front.
Sounds to me that you are dating a little boy. Maybe next time you should try a man. Little boys come in all ages too.
I very seldom wear a bra except at work. Like tonight we will be going out and I will not be wearing a bra or any panties.
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I love taking her bra off.....sometimes I wear it after I take it off her!
Your boyfriend is silly... I do enjoy taking my wife's bra off - although, now years and years into a marriage, we often meet naked in bed after prepping. You take off the bra, you get first dibs to make the little girls enjoy their freedom after a long day of enforced darkness and confinement...lol
I personally am a fan of shelf bras and find it very sexy to see them left on. Otherwise I'm pretty good at being able to unclasp most bras with one hand so I usually have the bra undone before her top is off.
I prefer my wife to keep her bra on during sex. Than when I'm ready to cum I pull her tits out and cum all over them. I also enjoy tit fucking by sticking my cock up under her bra
Sometimes I prefer them to keep their bra on. I'm and ass man, but I love tits too. I think I just like seeing them all perky and squeezed together as they wobble in the bra while the girl rides me.
I much prefer the honor of taking her bra off - and taking my time doing it. But generally prefer to have her slide her panties off. In my experience some women enjoy being stripped, some women enjoy stripping. And of course a woman's desires in that regard can vary from one occasion to the other. The end result of nudity is the desired goal ( for both, hopefully) but precisely how that is accomplished can be an important part of the fun. I do like to inquire what she wants.
I love it when my guy unhooks and slowly removes it while planting soft kisses on my shoulder, neck.... that's when foreplay comes in. Need I go on?
Oh sorry, not a guy either...just wanted to chime in.
Whatever is appropriate for the moment. You want me to help? I'll help. You want me to watch? I'll watch. You want to just fucking get to it? Then I'll rip the fucker off you.
It depends.
i love unhooking my partners bra, never bothered me in the least.
I prefer doing it myself, but it depends on the mood. Sometimes it's hot for her to leave it on!
To be honest, I have never had to unhook a bra. My wife only wears them outside the house (and not always then).
My one super power is my ability to one handedly undo a bra in under 2 seconds.
Superman ain't got nothin' on me.
“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”
Sorry BF... I prefer to unhook and remove as part of foreplay... my time to enjoy what spills forth from the cup.
Fucking with a big gal once, she had to do it. That thing had like 5 or 6 hooks in it. Once off, her tits fell to her navel! Only time I ever had a problem. I was beginning to think those bra hooks may have been welded!
Me to Bf while getting undressed, "Unhook me."... Bf," No babe, u do it."... Me, "Why?"...Bf, "Most guys prefer their girl take her own bra off."...Me, "You're kidding, right?"...Bf, "Nope, its a fact."...Me," That's BS!"...Bf," Ask some guys." Ok guys, is my Bf right or full of it? I vote full of it, but I will ask anyways.
