straight/bi/gay

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Bisexual people are often portrayed and perceived as being trans-exclusionary. That's why labels such as pansexual, omnisexual and multisexual have started to crop up, when bisexual was always meant and used as an inclusive term. Indeed, the existence and use of these other terms is seen by many as biphobic. I've found it a really interesting thing to read up on, if you're interested.

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okay lets have the truth how many guys are willing to be honest with their sexuality?
If you say straight have you ever thought a guy attractive?
If you say Bi what are you willing to do or have you done? how long?
If you say gay how long and would you consider sex with a woman?


I am recently curious what the same sex would be like. I enjoy anal play and wonder what a real cock would feel like.

No, oral both giving and receiving. Topped a guy

I realized and accept my bisexuality a few years ago. Experimented with oral a bit but haven't really had good, hot sex with a guy yet. I am open to sex with pretty much any gender identity, so I suppose I'm really pan. It's a just a rather new term to me so I haven't quite embraced it yet.

I'm bi. I definitely prefer bottom. I like a good looking cock don't care about the guy that it is attached to within reason.

Per the earlier conversation about trans exclusion: I understand that the true meaning of bisexual includes attraction to nonbinary people, but since the prefix "bi" literally means "two," confusion is unavoidable.

Compared to the common "I hate labels" perspective, I only hate them where they become limiting. As someone whose sexuality doesn't fit the heteronorm of attraction to cis women only, I've found it tremendously empowering to be able to name how I am different from that, and to be able to recognize that the way I feel is a real thing, shared with others despite society's erasure of it - even if the choice of words can be confusing to some.

I am not gay. Am I bi? I get horny and would "Love the one I was with" :-)

I do like to fantasize about being bi and sometimes write a story about that.

I like relationships with women. Just want to be fucked by a nice dick sometimes

Straight for the most part.

I am a bisexual bottom and I am married. I've sucked cocks and been fucked by cocks. I enjoy it because it's to society. I'm not into kissing and don't want a "relationship". All I want is the sex.

I’d say I’m straight as I love women. But I’m curious to try some things in a MMF to see what might also interest me.

I am bisexual. I enjoy having sex with both sexes. I still enjoy women more. The sex with men is exciting and it's " " according to society. I have sucked cock, I have swallowed cum and I have been fucked on a few occasions. I am married and my wife supports and encouraged me to have sex with guys because she absolutely loves watching me having sex with guys. If you think about it, it's all just skin after the lights go out. I was open minded enough to try it.

Straight, butt grown curious as gotten older and more relaxed in my sexuality. Find women get my fires burning, butt quickly my attention goes to men to when aroused. Still just a curiosity.

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I've never really found a guy attractive. But I'm willing to play with them and let them do what they want to me. The more aroused I get, the more willing I am to do anything they might want.

That’s exactly how I feel. It’s like touch me just right and I will go down on you and if that goes well your gonna be able to fuck me anyway we can think of.

I haven't met a man yet that I felt sexually attracted to. I'm not into ass-play or anal, and I don't think penises (apart from my own) are all that appealing either. That's just my personal preference, not any judgment on what anyone else is or is not into. I've thought about it, but men don't do anything sexual for me. That said, I've seen a number of aesthetically beautiful men, and don't mind saying so. I just don't have the impulse to fuck or be fucked by any of them.

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I haven't met a man yet that I felt sexually attracted to.

It's rare that I do, although I can't say it's never happened. Having said that, for me attraction is at least as much about personality as it is about physical looks.
For me though the whole thing is more about giving and receiving pleasure.

I’m not attracted to the man himself. More to his cock. His attitude will determine whether or not we’re gonna start something. Too pushy and you are out cause that’s gonna be either over too quick or start out forceful and be uncomfortable. Too slow a start and interest starts to wane. However, to discover a eye pleasing dick hidden under his clothes and bam instant turn on. Doesn’t matter big are average if it’s straight and looks good then by god you’re in for some fun.

I am bi, Sex with men for me is more about submission than attraction. I wouldn't consider a relationship with a guy, but will gladly suck his dick or take it in the ass

I think most men have considered or thought about sex with other men. If you set gender aside isn’t a blow job or anal sex more or less the same with either gender? It is titillating to think about or even write about having sex with a man. I have seen quite a few men I might have sex with, mostly feminine looking so possibly that doesn’t count.

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I’m not attracted to the man himself. More to his cock. His attitude will determine whether or not we’re gonna start something. Too pushy and you are out cause that’s gonna be either over too quick or start out forceful and be uncomfortable. Too slow a start and interest starts to wane. However, to discover a eye pleasing dick hidden under his clothes and bam instant turn on. Doesn’t matter big are average if it’s straight and looks good then by god you’re in for some fun.

I used to be that way. I've always had a fascination with penises, but for most of my adult life, my fantasies were all about the cock and only the cock: 90% on sucking cock and 10% on getting fucked.

Since entering my Fifties, though, (and maybe since I started expressing my fantasies on Lush?) I've grown more interested in the whole-man'-s body experience: full-body contact, nipple sucking, even kissing another guy's rough, hungry mouth. I've even thought about how if I were single again or younger, I'd even be willing to date guys, even if it might not quite be as romantic with a woman, but it might be something more than sex. I guess both my Summer Cockbuster and Midlife Renewal series are about different versons of that theme.

Until recently, though, I had some kind of mental block that kept me from ever fantasizing about random guys I'd see in public. But as things have opened up since the pandemic, sometimes I'll see a guy and find myself thinking about sucking his dick, or slipping myself inside his tight ass, or even just having him lock eyes with me and kiss me. I've always allowed myself these thoughts with respect to women, so why not? It's kind of exciting. Will some guy someday sense what my brain is up to, maybe even detect a little swelling in my package, and make a move? Not sure I'm ready for that, but the thought sure is exhilarating.

Sounds like my ideal kinda playmate actually. Yes enjoy my body while I enjoy sucking your cock before climbing on top and easing into me.

Bi curious. One experience sucking cock in my early 20s but was too drunk to remember details - don’t even remember if he shot his load. As I get older it seems to be more appealing to me. When my wife is away I will sometimes fuck my ass with a dildo - love the feeling of getting stretched and filled. Can get about 8” of skinny dildo (1” diameter) and about 6” of 1.5” diameter in me. Never gone bigger than that. I do fantasize having a real cock to suck on and swallowing his cum and getting fucked bareback. Share my fantasies with my wife during sex and we both get very turned on but not sure that 1. she’d ever want or let me act on them and 2. I’d have the nerve to act on them. Also fantasize being a cuckhold and watching a guy fucking my wife, shooting his cum in her and me licking it from her cunt and making her orgasm while I eat his cum from her. If I ever were to act on my fantasies I’d definitely prefer being a bottom but would also like to top.

I figured out I was bi about a decade into marriage. All those jokes like, 'I'm not gay but for Idris Elba I could try' eventually got me to a point to really think about it. I honestly think most men aren't honest with their own sexuality, they conform to social pressures really easily. Many women to, but I think men push it down harder. Now I'm technically in an open relationship but neither of us have acted on that.

I think if/when I do it would be to explore my bi feelings, something I never allowed myself to do when I wasn't in a relationship.

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I figured out I was bi about a decade into marriage.

Probably even longer for me. Maybe 15-20 years in.

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I honestly think most men aren't honest with their own sexuality, they conform to social pressures really easily.

The problem is that for some of us, those social pressures include bullying, harassment, and violence. I was taunted about being a "fairy" or "faggot" all through high school. I naturally suppressed any thought that I might actually be capable of sex with men out of fear as much as anything, even as I became a supporter of LGBTQ rights (e.g. helping fight for the right of openly gay church members to be ordained in a major Canadian denomination). Occasional fantasies or wet dreams kind of got brushed off until something, not sure what, kind of snapped and I went, "Yeah, I guess if I have those fantasies, maybe I am bi."

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The problem is that for some of us, those social pressures include bullying, harassment, and violence. I was taunted about being a "fairy" or "faggot" all through high school. I naturally suppressed any thought that I might actually be capable of sex with men out of fear as much as anything, even as I became a supporter of LGBTQ rights (e.g. helping fight for the right of openly gay church members to be ordained in a major Canadian denomination). Occasional fantasies or wet dreams kind of got brushed off until something, not sure what, kind of snapped and I went, "Yeah, I guess if I have those fantasies, maybe I am bi."

Yeah, when I said social pressures that was sort of a soft way of including everything from subtle influencing (like your friends teasing you for interest in a non-feminine girl) to much more malicious attacks like what you mentioned. I think the those subtle social conditioning affect people more than they realize and they conform without knowing it. Think it's all linked together at it's core though. Same beast, different heads.

My uncle was married for 8 years and had two kids when he was younger. Ever since I knew him he was the most flamboyantly gay man hitting about every stereotype you could name and has been with his husband for over 45 years now. I asked my Mom if he acted like that before he came out and she said pretty much, but got incredibly angry if anyone mentioned it. He was raised catholic and pushed that down hard. He spent his first 30 years just masking and pretending like he wasn't gay.

Let's say straight-adjacent. I certainly find some men attractive, if not exactly sexually attractive.

I am bi and I have sucked about 20 guys. Rimmed a couple. I really want to take a cock in my ass and have the guy shoot a load in me