Well after you decide to step into the 21st century, you might both have that talk together and decide what you can do for or to each other.
I would have to agree with this comment because you get more bees with honey than vinegar
As a treat I do love it when I walk in the front door and Tigeress is naked and playing with herself or dressed sexy and jumps on me as soon as I walk in. However I do the same for her as well, just the day I tied myself to the bed ready for when she got home to use as her play thing. It has to go both ways.
Just once I would like to come home to my woman dressed in slutty lingerie as a surprise. She doesn't have to be this way all the time. Maybe like once or twice a month.