...oh and writer here on Lush with few editors picks wrote a beautiful love story about TaintedRainbow how does he feel?
And that one was editor pick also..
So this was not just about photos and her playing us, she did probably hurt few people with her imaginary person..
And probably we all have our one issues do we all pretend we are someone else? Really do we?
Well I don't believe it, if I would I would never join Lush at first place..
So, can she/he count on my friendship? Nope
.. I am that naive person who gaves to others her trust immediately until they blow it of..
Damn, Paint thanks for that link I just spent a while reading that story… God, I think all of you make good points - yes most of us come to Lush to unwind or to forget about our real life problems for a while; but when you get attached to someone and you find out they’re lying that’s when you feel betrayed.
To each it’s own, if they want to pretend to be someone else for a while… I think with most people you can easily tell - if you let yourself be fooled then the joke’s on you. Other people are perfectly happy living in a made up world, I have a friend that does this now. I only hope when he finally realizes that she’s making a fool of him it’s not too late.
Sassy, there are tons of ugly people on lush… and I don’t mean physically.
Now that was preiceless Rem
I just like women! skinny, curvy, in the middle. It's all good!
Ok...so wondering when the Brad Paisley song was gonna show up...
As far as Tainted went I saw last year that the pics didn't match...so not surprised that she/he was confronted. Another thing that I think we all forget this is cyber land and we can play out our fantaseys here without thought of how it affects others. We don't see faces, feel your touch, and forget that behind words are real people.. Sometimes a virtual "bitch slap" is what we need to keep us from straying to far left. I hope that everybody has somebody that will always pull them back and remind them that reality and cyber doesn't always mix. That in the end people do get hurt by words that are written...
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill
I noticed that a while ago as well that the pics did not match up so I figured something was up.
Man! Miss a few days... SHEESH!
I clicked on this post expecting to see what the male population thought of the physical female form and instead found my emotions vacillating between disbelief, hilarity and commiseration. I suppose I expect people to be who they are, even if they never show me physical proof since that's the way I operate. I don't show what I look like mostly to protect my family. I've said on numerous occasions to multiple people that my av isn't me, but a damn good representation. But who I am isn't defined by what I look like and therefore I believe I am 100% real in my representation of myself here on Lush.
I have felt at times ostracized by the apparent closeness of some members. I don't think it's an intentional rejection and that is why I have always come back. It's similar to that feeling you might get when you walk into a room full of classmates... only to have them turn as one and look at you like you have a purple head ... growing out of your armpit. It's not mean, it's just human nature to be suspicious of that of which you are unsure.
I agree that it's hurtful in certain ways to misrepresent yourself with the intention of never revealing the truth. It shows a lack of respect (or belief in their intelligence) to the person to whom you are speaking (or chatting/IMing/whatever) and a lack of self-esteem. Like your true self would never be accepted and therefore you have no choice but to deceive. It's a desperate and lonely place to find yourself, believe me.
Whether she comes back, or other 'flushies' are exposed is a non-issue in my book. I will continue to give my friendship to those who ask it and do not intend to change my MO in any way shape or form. To do any less would DEFINITELY be a mis-representation of the person I have become in my time on this earth. And of that I am damn proud.
Ling
Preference: Curvey, Skinny or in between. Yes, Yes , and Yes.
I have a preference for curves, but it is a rare woman that I don't find attractive. It happens, but almost women are hot in one way or another.
I remember the first time I slow danced with heavy girl while in school--instant wood.
well for me i prefer a kate winslet to a kate moss
I love to see the curves or what some may call the hourglass figure on a woman. How her nice rounded ass complimenting her narrow waistline to only accentuate her ample beautiful breasts!!!!!!!. A Masterpiece to behold.... And hold.........and...................................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i knew that was twiggy also...lol...why?
I once dated someone who shrotly afterwards became a Penthouse Pet of the Year. What a FUCKING bitch!! Never wanted to lay eyes on her again! On the other hand, I've dated wonderful women who were flat as a board and those who were somewhat-to-significantly larger than the average. And my wife is not a little thing. I want a woman who is a good person onthe inside; unless someone is unhealthily obese, size doesn't make that much of a difference.
ok my ranting done now.....
