What do you think when you see a woman is so aroused she becomes really swollen and puffy?
I know its a natural thing, cant be helped etc but I was wondering if you get put off by it? I only ask because when in the middle of sex with my ex, he looked down and saw me and said 'woah'. I dont know if this is due to his inexperience (as he was) or what.
What do you think
Lips and everything down below. I know its supposed to be swollen but ever since sur[rised comment from my ex - which i think was just cos he was inexperienced - ive been a bit insecure bout it but been told to not be
Your ex is a ninny, men should know to never do things like that to a woman without completely clarifying that the 'woah' was the 'holy fuck that is such a turn on' kinda woah.
Do not be insecure.. being swollen and aroused is the most sensual and sexual presentation that you can give someone.. it sounds as if your ex wasn't very skilled.. personally I extend foreplay until the swelling is at the maximum.. there is an art in urging a sexual ache and it sounds like you already respond to it.. be proud to expose yourself that way.. seriously.. it is a privilege and an honor to be rewarded in that manner...
Anything that demonstrates a woman is aroused is a good thing in my book
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
HI MMonroe - This happens to me too, and I think of it as just part of the sexual response to being very aroused. I feel really quite pleased and proud when I see my body responding. Your ex maybe just made the wrong comment !
Presumably it would be the same in reverse - imagine seeing a big erection and saying "woah" - you might just be amazed, pleased or surprised but the guy might feel criticised ?
I can answer in one word, "boing"
support group time! hahaha
Happens to me too, Alex, be proud of your arousal!
Hell, that means I am doing things right! Any indication that she isn't faking a good time gets me even more excited.
Hehe ok ok, thanks everyone for your replies!!
I should learn to be alot less insecure!
I love it when this happens, it feels much better as well.
I really like how a pussy looks when it puffy from arousal.
some guys just dont know a good thing when its staring them in the face.
I would be pleased to know my lady is so aroused.
If I notice my lady getting "puffy", then I'm really doing things right! I love it!!