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Older men, do you really want to be with a younger woman atleast one in your life?

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Absolutely, my current love interest is 15 years younger than I am. Her husband who is her age won't take care of her needs, I am glad to do so. We do have a few conversational/cultural differences. If I ask about a TV show or movie from before her time I will get a blank stare. BUT, the sex is our of this world.
Younger women can be very alluring but I prefer the experience and sexual confidence of an older lady. As far as beauty or sensuality goes, that is more about who she is than how old.
Well, I’m not sure what you mean by “older guys” but as a guy who is living the year of the double nickel I’ll give my answer. Young has never appealed to me. In a brief relationship where our ages were about 10 years apart I quickly saw that the exchange of experience for...well, ...shininess? It wasn’t worth it to me.
Younger women tend to look like cute little girls to me.

I prefer older women with maturity, and who also have been around the block more than a couple of times.
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So do you older many really want to atleast once, does age really matter for you; what is the greatest age difference you would allow? What is one thing you would like to do with her that you cannot do now?


I'm in my late fifties, so "younger" covers a lot of territory. When you get under 30, I start to pause, although if someone was really hot and/or really interesting, I'd be interested. Really young women I'm not likely to get into a relationship with, since we'd probably have little in common. For playtimes, well, that's more flexible.
My wife is 12 years younger than I and she really keeps me happy and feeling young. She looks and is often mistook for at least 30 years younger.
Before my marriage broke up I started spending time away from home because it was such a miserable place to come back to. One of the things I started doing was mentoring younger colleagues both male & female. One of the was only 2 years older than my Son. She was 27 I was 58. We became friends and socialized together. Nothing ever happened and I was respectful of the boundaries. She had a string of rubbish relationships with inadequate men and it began to sap her confidence. Often I would take tearful messages or phone calls from her. I was there for her. On a couple of occasions when things were really bad I brought her home to my place (my wife had left my then) She slept in my bed and I held her while she wept. Nothing ever happened. Until.

One morning she woke with me, we were both dressed, in T shirts and PJ's. She had been very bad the night before and I had gone up into London and brought her home to mine on the tube. I held her until she fell asleep in my arms. That morning she started kissing me, more than once I asked if she was OK. She said she was. We ended up making love, it was superb. I showed her everything I knew how to do and treated her with respect. Nobody had ever gone down on her properly. We made love for hours and she came multiple times. It has never happened since. We are still good friends. She says that she now knows what she wants from a man and has set the bar a lot higher. She seems happier. Her new relationship has lasted 6 months and is still going strong. I have met him and he seems nice. Obviously he has no idea I have slept with his girlfriend. We have a bond between us. True story.
Yes. I still think of myself as 40.
No. I've always been attracted to older women. Love their experience.
Older men, do you really want to be with a younger woman at least once in your life?

Well, yeah! But my brain often writes checks my body can't cash.
I like Mature and older men.
In my mid-40s now, the idea of being with someone in their 20s has diminishing appeal. I find the confidence of older women very much more alluring and I've been like that since my early 20s too. At that age, I found women my age a little tedious to be honest. I dated older women before 'Milf' and 'Cougar' were a thing, including a series of hookups with someone fifteen years older than me.

What's the youngest I would go for? Early-30s and that is very hypothetical. I'm very happy with my current girlfriend, she's 46 (I'm 45), a wandering spirit like me and I do not fall for people easily either, we did.
When I was younger, in my 20s, I was always looking for the older gals. I am now older, I would want to go out with a gal anywhere from 30 to 45.
Yes and have been several times
Yes and it has been great. I was 46, she was 19 and promoting a motorcycle attorney at a week long motorcycle event. We talked during the day and happened to run into each other at a bar that night. She was the aggressor for sure. we got together often over the next 10 years and then she got married. We still get together with her husbands approval. There have been several others but that was the biggest age difference.
No. I had young women when I was younger, and I like the experience of the older woman. Plus, the older woman understands my limitations.
I would like to but it is probably more of a fantasy....
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I guess as an elderly old man, I like women with a little maturity about them. My fantasy age would be 40's plus women. Since my wife is 69, 40 would be really young but experienced.
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Younger women can be very alluring but I prefer the experience and sexual confidence of an older lady. As far as beauty or sensuality goes, that is more about who she is than how old.



Milik's remark states my feelings perfectly. Also, I feel that my older FWB understands my condition better than a younger chickie would...and that means a lot to this old dude!!
I have been with lots of younger women, when I was younger. My values have changed. I want different things now than I wanted then.
I am with a younger woman every day of my life, so that answer must be yes, right!
Have been with a few younger woman and although it is great for one's ego, a slightly older woman with confidence and experience is never a turn-off.
I already have been. When I was a younger man.
At my age, most women are younger.
Ten years ago I probably would have said "definitely yes" but now I've decided I prefer women closer to my own age (within 10 years or so). They have the advantage of experience, generally have their goals achieved or close to them and rarely a chance of getting them pregnant.
Let's face it. It's a fine fantasy. Never gonna happen again though, I'm sure.
Age is not a factor for me. In the last 10 years I have been with women who were 18 and 64 and in between. It's the connection, desire, need, whatever that drew us together. Age didn't play a part in it other than I know a couple of the girls/women prefer older men.
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