well, I know that condoms can take away from some of the sensation during sex for guys, but I'm not taking any chances. I was wondering if what I heard was true.
Does putting some lube inside the condom help things feel a bit more natural? I don't want to be the only one getting anything out of the actual sex so, an answer would be helpful.
The manufacturers have made great strides in condoms over the years, but even so, I do lose sensitivity when I wear one.
No, I wouldn't recommend putting lube inside one.
The guys who say it ruins it and ruins sensitivity are clearly not wearing the right size condoms. There are so many different makes and sizes that at least one type is gonna be ok
If you feel bad about you getting more pleasure than him, you can always put aside some other time to make alone him feel good in other ways.
What a condom takes a way for the guy is the actual friction of flesh-on-flesh (it takes it away for the gal, too, but there is still some friction with flesh-on-latex. There's really no getting around that, but it's certainly not the be all - end all. I think MMonroe has the best advice if you're worried about it.
Sorry, baby, I meant when I wore one in the past. I haven't worn one since before my kids were born!
I would never use lube inside a condom either. I have enough issues with a lot of precum that already make the condoms very slippery, and I've often had to stop to change to a new one just to keep from having it slip off
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
Have to be carefull some lubes make the condom weaker and will cause them to break, they even warn you not to put lubes with condoms?
i would nevver put lube in the condom..espically oil based lube as they can affect the condom causing it to break