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Is it okay / normal for a straight married man to fantise, wank to gay porn?
Of course it is.
Normal...I don't know. Okay...of course.
Hmmmm depends doesnt it? gay male porn it might say something. gay female porn, well every guy gets turned on..so i say if it doesnt effect your marriage its fine.
This is just my personal opinion, but the thought or sight of a guy sucking or fucking another guy is...well, its not my cup off tea, or coffee to put it mildly. But 2 girls going at it, HELL YEAH!!!
What is "normal" anyway? If gay porn turns you on then enjoy! That doesn't mean you are gay and the rest is between you and your wife.

I have had sex with men and like a good hard cock but oddly have no interest in gay porn. Looking at guys just does nothing for me. Is that normal? We all have out buttons, push the one that works for you.
Why wouldn't it be okay? If it's what you like have fun and take care of business.
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Is it okay / normal for a straight married man to fantise, wank to gay porn?


Is it okay? With whom, the Lush crowd or your wife? Does she even know? Do you prefer wanking to gay porn over having sex with your wife? But those are questions you should be asking yourself... and your wife.
As for the Lush crowd, we seem to be pretty open with what you do, so feel free to experiment.

Is it normal? In some groups it is very normal for married men to like gay porn, numerous headlines come to mind of recent religious leaders accused. So simply pick a group you identify with and ask them...

But that's just my take on your fantasy...
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This is just my personal opinion, but the thought or sight of a guy sucking or fucking another guy is...well, its not my cup off tea, or coffee to put it mildly. But 2 girls going at it, HELL YEAH!!!



Exactly what I would of said.
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Hmmmm depends doesnt it? gay male porn it might say something. gay female porn, well every guy gets turned on..so i say if it doesnt effect your marriage its fine.


Wrong.

And yes, it's okay. Whatever gets your motor running.
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Why wouldn't it be okay? If it's what you like have fun and take care of business.


Perfect answer!!
Somebody tell me wtf is normal exactly, after living for sixty years I am not exactly sure ?
It's perfectly fine/okay. As for normal; if it's normal to you then enjoy the fun and bust a nut, man. Lol
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Is it okay / normal for a straight married man to fantise, wank to gay porn?

Is it okay - yes
Is it normal - no
Does it matter - no, who cares what other people think!
I absolutely think its normal for any person regardless of sexuality to push the limits of their fantasies and experiences.
I myself have the same respect for all human beings unless they prove to me that they just are not worthy of my respect. So I am not against gays when i say what I am going to.
I want to say what many people just assume is a given: that men love to watch lesbians have sex, is not not universally ture. I love sex as much as the next guy, but the only time two women gutting it on excites me is when one of them is a woman I have fantasized about myself as a heterosexual partner, and now I see her naked, or more than I have ever seen, and I am enjoying the sight of her body.
Yes, that women can love each other just like men can, is a beautiful part of life: two people love each other. Am I the only man in the world that feels this way? I have the phone # of a good shrink ready in case I get shown to be out of my mind! lol
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Is it okay / normal for a straight married man to fantise, wank to gay porn?


Well, it depends. Does your wife join you? If so, no harm no foul. If you do it without her knowing and feel guilty about it, it isn't wrong, per se, but it is something you might wish to think about.

Do you enjoy it? If yes, again - no harm no foul.

IMHO - if you enjoy it and the wife doesn't know about it, perhaps you have a desire to experience the pleasure of male love. Nothing wrong with that (I prefer not), but are you being totally honest with your wife? Honesty & communication go hand in hand. Just saying, is all.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis


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I myself have the same respect for all human beings unless they prove to me that they just are not worthy of my respect. So I am not against gays when i say what I am going to.
I want to say what many people just assume is a given: that men love to watch lesbians have sex, is not not universally ture. I love sex as much as the next guy, but the only time two women gutting it on excites me is when one of them is a woman I have fantasized about myself as a heterosexual partner, and now I see her naked, or more than I have ever seen, and I am enjoying the sight of her body.
Yes, that women can love each other just like men can, is a beautiful part of life: two people love each other. Am I the only man in the world that feels this way? I have the phone # of a good shrink ready in case I get shown to be out of my mind! lol

What a good and honest answer, here's a gay guy saying don't phone the shrink! Well if I'm the only one then maybe you'll give the number and we can both go.
Man This is the way I look at it... If you like sex then fuck it who cares if you're watching a guy and a girl / girl and a girl/ or a guy and a guy fuck? it doesn't make you gay in my opinion... it just means you enjoy sex.. now if you come and tell me that you find men more attractive than say megan fox or something like that.. then you should be worried smile..
just have fun, don't let anyone take fun away from you
some it is just hot, so yeah, have done and will probably do it again
If it works for you then why not ?
Just chiming in to point out that they tell women who get off to ideas of lesbians sex that they're normal. It's no big deal. It's natural. Etc.
"Is it okay"? Of course it's "okay". I might question how truthful you're being with yourself regarding your actual preference, but if watching porn satisfies your "need" in that regard, I see no need to rock the boat. As long as it "works" for you, that's really all that matters.
I agree with Milik... who's to say what's normal? I'm straight and gay porn doesn't appeal to me at all, but I'm just me. Some people would ask a similar question about my enjoyment of anal vibes.
I’m straight and gay porn showing guys having sex does nothing for me whatsoever. But I am turned on by pics and videos of lone guys masturbating.
YES It is Totally Ok for a straight guy to get excited & jerk off to gay porn. Guys should jerk off to a female judge if they want to. Love your dick & make it cum any way you want to. I consider myself straight but I like anyone getting a blowjob from a guy as much as a woman. Who cares just enjoy life in a safe adult manner*