Guys,
How would you feel if your female partner had a lesbian lover? So long as their relationship did not interfere with the relationship between you and your female partner, would this be an acceptable situation to you? Why or why not?
GW.
My ex wife was admittedly bisexual when we met.
We did not have a full open marriage (for most of those years) but fairly heavy flirting was ok. However during all that time I was always far less comfortable when she was with a woman than when she was with a man. I never did get over that discomfort.
(Eventually we went our separate ways, but remain close. She's now married to a cross dressing guy and they're into the BDSM scene)
Lover in an established relationship or a casual one.?
I and my gf FWB have on occasions had a casual affair with a lesbian. As bi girls we see no problem.
Our guys don't have a problem with us doing so either, so long as we remain bi.
My first girl girl affair failed because she was a lesbian and objected to me being bi and engaging with boys.
My wife is bi and I have known that she was before we evan met. she has had a few female lovers on the side. Not only do I not have a problem with it I have always encouraged it.
I was dating a girl who was bi and she told me that she had a girlfriend. At first i was weary because i've never been in the situation before. But once i met the girlfriend we actually became good friends and i was okay with my girlfriend having a girl on the side when im not around. But that was a long time ago. But if i were to be put into that situation again, i would have no problem having my girlfriend have a girl on the side, as long as she was honest about it.
as long as I can have my gay lover that works for me.
A good idea. Then could ask to watch
If I could get my wife to consider the thought I would say hell yea. It can only enhance what we already have as long as it does not affect us, even if it did I would be happy for her.
I would allow it, even encourage it, if it was something that would make her happy and give her some enjoyment. Of course, I'd hope that the same courtesy would be extended to my interest in men.
That said, I don't really see any sign of it. She's straight as they come and I've known her for 25 years so if there was any reason to think otherwise, I'd hope I'd have found it by now.
Why should it matter that the affair is with a lesbian? If you can get your head round her having an affair, what difference should it make?
Presumably there isn't an open relationship, so cheating is cheating. The gender and sexual orientation is, in my opinion, irrelevant.
I would prefer she has a woman lover who is bisexual. That way she can share her with me once in awhile. However, it wouldn't bother me if her lover was a lesbian if it doesn't interfere with my relationship with my lover.
If you're in a relationship that's just supposed to be the two of you then that would be cheating. If you're in an open relationship then that's just playing. And why would it matter if it were a women or a man? A third person is a third person.
My girl had an affair with another woman and it hurt me just as much as it would if it was a guy, she states that it shouldn't matter to me because it's a woman.
Her reasoning was if I want to fuck other men that's ok, haha great but I'm not that way inclined
I say "well if you wanna fuck other women then that's fine with me but I will too"
The shit hit the fan after that lol
Talk about having your cake and eating it!
I personally don't mind if my wife has sex with another person, male or female, so long as I'm a part of the experience. I guess if my wife wanted to have a quick fling with someone else it would be ok. I would have to know about it and agree to it in advance. Having an affair is not ok. Maybe it a cultural thing but I need to be the person who satifies the majority of my wife's emotional and sexual needs. Swinging, threesomes etc. are just icing on the cake and they keep things fresh.
It would be ok I think women should enjoy everthing they want to try you only live once and her having a lover makes her life more happy I say go for it
I wouldn't appreciate her having a lesbian lover anymore than I would if she were carrying on with another hetero male.
If she enjoyed the company of another bisexual woman, more power to her/them.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Hmmm. I don't know how I would respond until it happened. So many factors. Does the girl want a long lasting love relationship? A sexual adventure. A threesome? Is she butch or feminine? Bi or gay?
I make it very simple. I won't have a relationship with any guy who has a problem with sharing me, particularly with other girls.
I personally am turned on by the thought of my partner with another woman. If it's out in the open it would add another dimension to our sex life. Even if I wasn't involved, her talking about it with me would be very arousing.
If it's not then he can go elsewhere. Being Bi is natural for me and he has to live with it.
