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If your wife, girlfriend, significant other wanted to take pole dancing lessons what would your resp

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patokl
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I have seen quite a lot of pole dancing, but odd enough, hardly any of it had anything to do with erotic entertainment. It is top sport and I have seen both women and men compete. I would lie, if I didn't admit, the competitors and their routines look hot and that that really adds to the fun of watching pole dancing. But be honest, doesn't the same go for gymnastics, latin dance or figure skating?
I would not have any problem, if my wife would want to take it up as a hobby.
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I am signing up to take pole dancing lessons. I haven't mentioned it to my husband yet. Not because I am worried about it, but because he works out of state and I feel that it is a conversation best held in person. I had the idea to do the classes as research for a series of stories that pole dancing will be prominently featured. I wanted to be able to accurately write about the subject. However, the more I looked into it, it looks like it could be a lot of fun! So guys, how would you feel if your partner wanted to take these classes?

https://youtu.be/ixztl02mWCQ


I'd love it if my lover took pole dancing lessons. Not only would it promote her feeling sexy about herself, but it's a great form of exercise - plus there's the benefit of havibg a private show. My daughter did this with a friend and had a great time.
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Thanks everyone for the responses. I believe I will get a practice pole for home. The outfits they wear are seriously hot too! The exercise will be great..i have managed to lose more than 100lbs in the last 15 months or so and toning up my body will feel great! 47 isn't to old for this...right? and all the positive responses from the guys lead me to believe he will be similar in his response.


He'll no. 47 is a great age to start. Congrats on the weight loss. If you're not used to working out, take it easy to start with to keep injury free and have fun. Good luck and stop by to tell us how it's going.
loneleygirl68
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He'll no. 47 is a great age to start. Congrats on the weight loss. If you're not used to working out, take it easy to start with to keep injury free and have fun. Good luck and stop by to tell us how it's going.


thanks for the advice. I am lucky in that I have always been limber.. drives my daughter the cheerleader crazy that her mom can do the splits better than she can. So I will work towards increasing my upper body and core strength and improve upon my flexibility. and if it goes really well I will make a video just for my Lush friends and share.
HappyInTN
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Absolutely. My wife's best friend recently took a class and she learned how to work the pole and give a lap dance. She got some of our dollars.
EricRhodes
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I would love it. It is great exercise.
beowulf69
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I am pleased to see all the positive responses. I originally started the topic thinking that as "pole dancing" is thought of as something strippers do, the men might object to their wives doing what strippers do.


I sometimes date strippers. They have lots of cash, stay in shape and will do anything. ANYTHING!!!
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Fall off of my chair. Then give her a ride to the lesson
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Encourage it! Why not get a pole she can practice on at home as well.
paul_moadib
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They're pretty much accepted as a normal form of exercise class here in the UK, so I doubt many people would object.

I would be happy for my other half to do that if she wanted but it wouldn't turn me on. I like clubs like that for a night out - where there's something different to watch but girls who do that are strictly business and that's not erotic. I don't mind spending money on a dance but it's really just for something to do.
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Quote by loneleygirl68
4) It's a great excuse to buy sexy outfits and in my opinion, one can never have enough of those.

The outfits are amazing!! they even have competitions for the dancing if you are any good..I do believe I am going to enjoy this


I think it's great! And you go for it, you sound like just the adventurous type that will get a great deal of enjoyment out of it. And age? Just a number. You will have to promise to keep us updated, however...
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I'd ask WHO I make the cheque out to?

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1lush
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It would be fine with me. Might even install a stage with a pole and lighting for her.
loneleygirl68
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These are the poses and moves I learned in my class today. The facility is actually having more and newer poles put in, so I am taking this class in Aerial movements to begin building the core and upper body strength necessary for this activity. The pics are not of me or the class, they don't allow camera's, but I found these online and these are the poses learned and accomplished in the first 90 min class.







so there is an update as promised...
bedheadlip
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My wife is 61 years old and started taking pole dancing 2 months ago. She loves it for the exercise and it makes her feel young and sexy. Go for it!!
Kenny50
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No, it is great exercise.
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Hell yea would you like a lift to class!
brianlarry
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My wife and her girlfriends have actually talked about doing this. I am 100% for it. My wife is hot and so are her girlfriends. Would love it to be in my house so I can watch them all practice. I mean seriously, having a bunch of hot women on a stripper pole in your house? Awesome! I'll just have to go get a lot one dollar bills...

As for the one post saying that it's not like you would actually be stripping, I agree. Of course, for me I would love for my wife to actually strip in a strip club on amateur night. My wife has a great body and is an amazing dancer. I would get such a hard on watching other guys watch her.
oldstroker
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I think it would awesome, very erotic and effective workout too
Rick_Valley
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I think it would be great. I know a few women who belly dance and they seem to have a lot of fun. Life is short so enjoy things while you can.
ThickJohn
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I'd tell her to go for it, as long as I get to watch! No seriously, anything that adds a bit of spice to the relationship, I'm all for it.
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Quote by loneleygirl68
These are the poses and moves I learned in my class today. The facility is actually having more and newer poles put in, so I am taking this class in Aerial movements to begin building the core and upper body strength necessary for this activity. The pics are not of me or the class, they don't allow camera's, but I found these online and these are the poses learned and accomplished in the first 90 min class.







so there is an update as promised...


It tese kind of beautiful graceful movements are what result, I say yes for sure.